EFS said: Been seeing this girl whom i really liked for the past 4 months, she's just phoned me saying "It's not what she wants anymore". Guys I'm gutted!!!!
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Spats said: JohnPhillip said: why does everyone say this? it's what they all tell you to make you feel better.... sure you've got a world of options at your feet when you're single; agreed... but a lot of WORK ahead of you if you want to really get with "the one", whomever they may be, for good. singledom is very overrated, IMO. Being single is the best. Because you are free to do whatever you want, whenever you want, for as long as you want. You don't have to answer to anyone or get permission to go anywhere or do anything. You don't have to tell anyone where you are all the damn time or when you will be home,etc,etc. You are free. Freedom is the greatest thing you can have. That's not the case if you are in a relationship. valid points. freedom is not a jewel to be traded lightly. but if you find the right person you can have freedom AND the benefits of a relationship | |
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XxAxX said: Spats said: Being single is the best. Because you are free to do whatever you want, whenever you want, for as long as you want. You don't have to answer to anyone or get permission to go anywhere or do anything. You don't have to tell anyone where you are all the damn time or when you will be home,etc,etc. You are free. Freedom is the greatest thing you can have. That's not the case if you are in a relationship. valid points. freedom is not a jewel to be traded lightly. but if you find the right person you can have freedom AND the benefits of a relationship Well, i don't think there is a woman alive who won't call to find out when you are gonna be home or wonder what you are doing or other mumbo jumbo. And i think you will be hard pressed to find a relationship where you don't have to check with the woman first before you do things and go places, yadda, yadda. Only whipped men do that. | |
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Spats said: XxAxX said: valid points. freedom is not a jewel to be traded lightly. but if you find the right person you can have freedom AND the benefits of a relationship Well, i don't think there is a woman alive who won't call to find out when you are gonna be home or wonder what you are doing or other mumbo jumbo. And i think you will be hard pressed to find a relationship where you don't have to check with the woman first before you do things and go places, yadda, yadda. Only whipped men do that. you really are scared of women..... you are! | |
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abierman said: Spats said: Well, i don't think there is a woman alive who won't call to find out when you are gonna be home or wonder what you are doing or other mumbo jumbo. And i think you will be hard pressed to find a relationship where you don't have to check with the woman first before you do things and go places, yadda, yadda. Only whipped men do that. you really are scared of women..... you are! What has it got to do with being scared? I just want to be able to do whatever i want without having to consult or answer to anybody. If i was scared of women i would not date them and have sacktime with them. Would i have a girlfriend now if i was scared of women? | |
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Spats said: XxAxX said: valid points. freedom is not a jewel to be traded lightly. but if you find the right person you can have freedom AND the benefits of a relationship Well, i don't think there is a woman alive who won't call to find out when you are gonna be home or wonder what you are doing or other mumbo jumbo. And i think you will be hard pressed to find a relationship where you don't have to check with the woman first before you do things and go places, yadda, yadda. Only whipped men do that. i guess there'll always be the need to communicate one's whereabouts to the loved one. i think it's worth it though, if you're lucky and find someone compatible that stuff is not such a drag | |
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XxAxX said: Spats said: Well, i don't think there is a woman alive who won't call to find out when you are gonna be home or wonder what you are doing or other mumbo jumbo. And i think you will be hard pressed to find a relationship where you don't have to check with the woman first before you do things and go places, yadda, yadda. Only whipped men do that. i guess there'll always be the need to communicate one's whereabouts to the loved one. i think it's worth it though, if you're lucky and find someone compatible that stuff is not such a drag If want to do it then it's great.(I don't) But it should not be expected of me. | |
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Spats said: XxAxX said: valid points. freedom is not a jewel to be traded lightly. but if you find the right person you can have freedom AND the benefits of a relationship Well, i don't think there is a woman alive who won't call to find out when you are gonna be home or wonder what you are doing or other mumbo jumbo. And i think you will be hard pressed to find a relationship where you don't have to check with the woman first before you do things and go places, yadda, yadda. Only whipped men do that. what if your woman is always going out, dissappearing to go hang at the bar, the game, with the friend...would you want to know her plans or schedule? My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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ufoclub said: Spats said: Well, i don't think there is a woman alive who won't call to find out when you are gonna be home or wonder what you are doing or other mumbo jumbo. And i think you will be hard pressed to find a relationship where you don't have to check with the woman first before you do things and go places, yadda, yadda. Only whipped men do that. what if your woman is always going out, dissappearing to go hang at the bar, the game, with the friend...would you want to know her plans or schedule? Dude, you are talking to a guy who only talks to his girlfriend every couple days. I don't even need to talk to her everyday. This is ideal. I like some space. Although I do have to put up with some "how are you doing, sweetie" phonecalls. As long as she is not having sacktime with someone else , i don 't care where she goes or with whom. | |
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Spats said: ufoclub said: what if your woman is always going out, dissappearing to go hang at the bar, the game, with the friend...would you want to know her plans or schedule? Dude, you are talking to a guy who only talks to his girlfriend every couple days. I don't even need to talk to her everyday. This is ideal. I like some space. Although I do have to put up with some "how are you doing, sweetie" phonecalls. As long as she is not having sacktime with someone else , i don 't care where she goes or with whom. so it sounds like you just want a fkbuddy! Not a girlFRIEND. Or a WIFE... My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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ufoclub said: Spats said: Dude, you are talking to a guy who only talks to his girlfriend every couple days. I don't even need to talk to her everyday. This is ideal. I like some space. Although I do have to put up with some "how are you doing, sweetie" phonecalls. As long as she is not having sacktime with someone else , i don 't care where she goes or with whom. so it sounds like you just want a fkbuddy! Not a girlFRIEND. Or a WIFE... The perfect situation would be a f**k buddy. But most girls don't go for that. I consider her my girlfriend. We are not seeing anyone else. I think if she had it her way we would be talking and seeing each other almost everyday. But as i said , i like my space. | |
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Since it got edited out I just wanna say for the record that EFS is hella FINE... That is all...
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Spats said: ufoclub said: what if your woman is always going out, dissappearing to go hang at the bar, the game, with the friend...would you want to know her plans or schedule? Dude, you are talking to a guy who only talks to his girlfriend every couple days. I don't even need to talk to her everyday. This is ideal. I like some space. Although I do have to put up with some "how are you doing, sweetie" phonecalls. As long as she is not having sacktime with someone else , i don 't care where she goes or with whom. hypocrisy What about her freedom? | |
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heartbeatocean said: Spats said: Dude, you are talking to a guy who only talks to his girlfriend every couple days. I don't even need to talk to her everyday. This is ideal. I like some space. Although I do have to put up with some "how are you doing, sweetie" phonecalls. As long as she is not having sacktime with someone else , i don 't care where she goes or with whom. hypocrisy What about her freedom? he's not having his 'sacktime' though..... | |
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