One of the cashiers I supervise complained that all day she was getting middle aged men who spent time "reading her name tag" off her chest.

We spent time speculating where the behavior comes from at that age

Do they have it there whole life and it only becomes noticable at that age

Is it something men just develop when they get older

I told her I am 35 and don't know if in ten years or so this is something I should fight, or just enjoy



anyones thoughts?

anyone act like this already?

Grrrr.... I hate guys sometimes... I hate that at concerts it's always the older guys who grab my ass and tits on the floor, when Rich ain't looking.... had lots of that yesterday and I was ready to kill people.

I asked Rich the same thing on the ride home... When do guys turn into such assholes???

Sweeny79 said:

When that piece of skin that's between are legs stops being floppy.

Spookymuffin said:

I can have all sorts of thoughts and ideas with my wife

I can enjoy looking at all sorts of women, but I don't stare at them or try to make them uncomfortable

It seems to be when men get midle aged they think all women want them

ThirdandFinal said:

Every guy looks. Or at least, 99%. Some are just more subtle than others.

ThirdandFinal said:

What we affectionately call the "Mid Life Crisis"

ThirdandFinal said:

That is so fucking true.

CarrieMpls said:

So true. I'm always copping a glance, and if I like and I catch her staring, I give her the powerful ben stare - they often challenge back with a stare, so I check em out and look down their body then back up at them, so they feel all self conscious and look away, but I catch em staring again 5 minutes later. It's great fun on trains.

Spookymuffin said:

It's called flirting.

Sweeny79 said:

Oh.











Of course I know! I was just describing what goes on in my head. I always outstare the girls, then they cross their legs and shit - teenage girls can't hide body language well, older girls learn and become so much more attractive - but I side track - it's great fun, I just gotta figure out how to take it further.

Spookymuffin said:

Try saying Hello.

Sweeny79 said:

We don't talk in England. That's creepy.

This girl who works in a spar shop says that old geezers ALWAYS flirt with her. I've seen it too, its very funny.

Old men still wanna fuck 20 year olds. Now they are old, its pretty much gonna be very hard too unless u pay some form of hooker, so, they have no shame but to flirt and touch etc....

still, i know a girl in her late teens fucking someone over 50. And she ain't no naive little thing either? Maybe he just has a huge cock

thesexofit said:

thesexofit said:

or lots of money...

or it'll really piss off her family....

Sweeny79 said:

Yeah, i think she is still going through her "coming of age" thingy loads of girls do. Sleeping with as many and diverse guys as possible sortof thing. God knows where they met? Maybe at bingo or something?

I slept with a woman over 30 once. I was still in my late teens. I couldn't believe my luck. And i swear she was doing it because her hubby was away alot. I witnessed michael bolton in her cd collection. I love some Bolton, so we were made for eachother.

thesexofit said:

I hear ya.

what do you mean "when" we become pigs?

I love men!

See for yourself: www.myspace.com/stlmusiclove

Check out the blogs.

Men are WONDERFUL!!!

They smell good (even when they're lil bit funky), they're strong (most of them), I love the way they walk, they way they interact with other men...I LOVE MEN. Even the pigs!
[Edited 8/20/06 18:30pm]

Looking is fine.

It's touching that's a big deal.

JustErin said:

But if the old guy is hot, would it be ok to touch?

thesexofit said:

No, no one is allowed to touch unless I know them well and say they are allowed to.

JustErin said:

So pretending u have gum stuck to ur ass, is not a legitimate reason for a grab?

thesexofit said:

Well, I suppose if the grabber doesn't mind a fist firmly planted in his face afterwards, he can give it a try.

JustErin said:

I bet if one of ur org friends did it u wouldn't mind

thesexofit said:

But they also wouldn't mind the punch to the face.

JustErin said:

Iam so use to getting beaten up i wouldn't care who punches me in the face. But seriously iam not that sleazy type. Iam glad u dont take shit. I respect a girl who ignores the sleazes. Even more if u punch 'em. A knee in the ball bags is a good one too.

Maybe it's only American men.

jerseykrs said:

Exactly. They need to keep their swine-like behavior in check at all times...sometimes they slip and...voila...Porky is in the house.

You know what though....ever since I became a dancer I've kind have been able to see where men are coming from and understand their minds better...I find myself noticing women's bodies and admiring a beautiful body, breasts, hips ect...just like a guy would. I really don't take too much offense if I catch a man looking at my breasts or something...when they realise you've caught them they look really embarrassed but a true gentleman would kinda be embarrassed but it's ok....as long as he's not ogoling me or making me feel uncomfortable I understand the naturalness of a man enjoying looking at a woman's body.