i gotta think up some new ways


for me, im pretty quiet about it usually...


what crazy things have you done to get another's attention ?

I usually get piss drunk and make an ass of myself.


It doesn't usually work out well for me though.

I usually burn a picture of my face on their front lawn

It usually starts with conversation for me. I want to know everything about them.

give them a car that's been struck by lightening for free

ok, these are interesting ideas


and you say youre both single huh ?



lets keep looking...

I've only ever been interested in a handful of guys during my life... 3 that I felt strongly enough to at least try and let them know. the first ended after he passed away, the second and third I tried to put it in words to kinda soften the blow a little bit but both ended with me being totally barred for an amount of time

honesty is the only way I know... straight up tell them

TMPletz said:

see, thats what i do but, i think we gotta pick up the pace a bit... whats next ?

purplerein said:

hey, i have one of those to offer








lol...

I pretty much just talk with everyone as though I consider them a friend, whether I'm interested in them or not...If there's a true connection I'll feel it almost instantly, and I think they do, too. I just let things go naturally from there...expressing interest and attraction seems to happen almost simultaneously at that point. I'm not, and will never be, the type to try and charm or flirt my way into a woman's heart...

Byron said:

I don't do anything. I wait for them to show interest in me.

I am interested in what the women will say to this because women's signs that they are interested in them as a friend and the signs that they are interested in them as a potential boyfriend are pretty much the same. It sends mixed signals.

Byron said:

sweetie, for what its worth, a man like yourself doesnt HAVE to try to get into a woman's heart..... shes lucky to have you

I don't know any. I don't chase men

i have a hard time not being obvious about it. i'm not good at being cool about that stuff

nakedpianoplayer said:

...Nice to hear, even if it's not always easy to believe...lol

jerseykrs said:

Keep tryin'. That's what I do.

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

you mean like a crop circle of your face?

you do it in the night when they're asleep,

that was you?

usually i start up a conversation that has absolutely nothing to with being interested in them or if i'm really shy i'd tell his friend of whatever.
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LleeLlee said:

You have tarmac

luv4u said:

Luv...don't chaseme....don't chase meeeee LUV....donttttt chase meeeee

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

you could leave footprints in my tarmac

purplerein said:

luv4u is sweet on me, I do know that.

jerseykrs said:

If I'm drunk I'll do something stupid like walk right up to them and be all 'You've totally been checking me out, haven't you?'.



If I'm sober I usually just smile and giggle a lot. Which is what I do most of the time anyway.

Natisse said:

That's exactly my philosophy too. Life's too short to wonder "what if?" at a later date.

Justin1972UK said:

Oh, without regret we'd be empty vesels, Marie Celestes passing in the night. Sadness is what binds us, and all my regrets, I let them simmer and marinate my head.

just grab 'em in the biscuits!

I usually flirt a lot and then eventually just tell them.

Guess I'm boring. But it's been working ok for me so far.

If I fuck the hell out of someone,
it's usually cuz I'm trying to send 'em a signal that I think they're cute .