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Reply #30 posted 08/30/06 12:33pm

Anx

jerseykrs said:

all seriousness Chris, sounds like a good move other than the shift time, but sometimes you have to give to get.


i agree, though after five years working in the industry in this city, i know i have more to give than most firms are getting...and i know they're not getting much at ALL that's willing to work graveyard shifts. hmmm
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Reply #31 posted 08/30/06 12:36pm

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Anx said:

susannah said:

You have to do what your instincts tell you Anx, and at the end of the day what we think wont affect that much BUT IMO you only live once. Lifes too short - do it for a short time, take the money and the benefits and if you don't like it - leave. How much chance do you have of getting your present job back if you need/want to? thats something to consider...


at the new job i'd get bonuses. i don't get those where i am now.

at the new job i'd have a shorter work week, which i would assume would make a significant difference if i'm working the wee hours.

i seem to be going through a lot of transition this year anyway, so maybe it's a sign that i need to hit the refresh button all around, including my job.

shrug


That is one way of looking at it. It sounds like a better job...just crappy hours.

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Reply #32 posted 08/30/06 12:37pm

susannah

Anx said:

susannah said:

You have to do what your instincts tell you Anx, and at the end of the day what we think wont affect that much BUT IMO you only live once. Lifes too short - do it for a short time, take the money and the benefits and if you don't like it - leave. How much chance do you have of getting your present job back if you need/want to? thats something to consider...


at the new job i'd get bonuses. i don't get those where i am now.

at the new job i'd have a shorter work week, which i would assume would make a significant difference if i'm working the wee hours.

i seem to be going through a lot of transition this year anyway, so maybe it's a sign that i need to hit the refresh button all around, including my job.

shrug


I feel you have already made your decision, and what your looking for is validation, not advice....now thats not an insult, just an observation. I do that, but Im really stubborn! Anyway, trust your instincts if you have made up your mind cause heres the thing - change is hardly ever bad even if it seems that way, its just scary. But its only scary because its unknown, you dont want to take the risk and lose everything.

Where would we be if we didnt take risks?! Face your fear nod biggrin

And hey, we'll all still be here to help you through wink
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Reply #33 posted 08/30/06 1:18pm

Anx

susannah said:

Anx said:



at the new job i'd get bonuses. i don't get those where i am now.

at the new job i'd have a shorter work week, which i would assume would make a significant difference if i'm working the wee hours.

i seem to be going through a lot of transition this year anyway, so maybe it's a sign that i need to hit the refresh button all around, including my job.

shrug


I feel you have already made your decision, and what your looking for is validation, not advice....now thats not an insult, just an observation. I do that, but Im really stubborn! Anyway, trust your instincts if you have made up your mind cause heres the thing - change is hardly ever bad even if it seems that way, its just scary. But its only scary because its unknown, you dont want to take the risk and lose everything.

Where would we be if we didnt take risks?! Face your fear nod biggrin

And hey, we'll all still be here to help you through wink



hmmm, maybe you're right. i'm just trying to get a whole buncha points of views, i guess. i figured someone might chime in with some red hot consideration i hadn't yet thought of or something. i am definitely going to interview. they might make me an offer i really can't refuse, and there's no other way to find out...
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Reply #34 posted 08/30/06 1:20pm

susannah

Anx said:

susannah said:



I feel you have already made your decision, and what your looking for is validation, not advice....now thats not an insult, just an observation. I do that, but Im really stubborn! Anyway, trust your instincts if you have made up your mind cause heres the thing - change is hardly ever bad even if it seems that way, its just scary. But its only scary because its unknown, you dont want to take the risk and lose everything.

Where would we be if we didnt take risks?! Face your fear nod biggrin

And hey, we'll all still be here to help you through wink



hmmm, maybe you're right. i'm just trying to get a whole buncha points of views, i guess. i figured someone might chime in with some red hot consideration i hadn't yet thought of or something. i am definitely going to interview. they might make me an offer i really can't refuse, and there's no other way to find out...


nod Go for it. I know nothing of what you do, but if you are good at it and maybe better than others, make them want you! We all have to toot our own horn sometimes nod

Let us know how it goes of course!
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Reply #35 posted 08/30/06 1:23pm

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Anx said:

I'm being offered a job with less hours, better benefits and more money.

Catch?

Said job is a graveyard shift position.

I've done a graveyard shift before, and I swore I never would again.

However, I was working longer hours than this job offers, and I will be making more money. There's also the possibility of them moving me to days if such a position opens up.

Plus, I'm fed up with where I am. But what if this new gig isn't much better?

Part of me wants to take the new gig, and if it makes me miserable, it'll be motivation to find something better. Another part of me would rather stick out more time where I am and know my misery, than to throw myself into new situations where I don't know if it could be even worse.

QUANDARY! What Would Org Do?


You're already moving, why not add a new job to the mix? biggrin
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Reply #36 posted 08/30/06 1:27pm

Illustrator

I find that,
for decisions like this,
moving towards what you fear the most ( or at least moving away from that which is comfortable),
is usually the best way to go.
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Reply #37 posted 08/30/06 2:38pm

ThreadBare

I hated working that shift. At this point in my life, a return to that shif would be out of the queston. But it had perks:

* It's easier for good work to be recognized.
* the pay's usually better.
* in a cutthroat industry, nightside folks enjoy a bit more security and stability.
* It's easy to make interview appointments for other work, when it's time to move on -- because you don't have to worry about schedule conflicts.

It might not be bad for a temporary period, enough time for you to figure out how you want your life to look, as you watch the dust settle.
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Reply #38 posted 08/30/06 2:44pm

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Overnights blow...keep looking. Unless you are broke. Hell, even if your broke. Sperm bank or give plasma.
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Reply #39 posted 08/30/06 2:46pm

TMPletz

Anx said:

superspaceboy said:



My guess is that it is. But I don't think they could lower your pay if you switch to days. Though the higher pay is an incentive to work the late shift.


i've never had my pay cut when i've moved from late shifts to day shifts.

I did in order to get the job I'm currently at. confused

IBM worked like that, too.
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Reply #40 posted 08/30/06 4:04pm

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Anx said:

I'm being offered a job with less hours, better benefits and more money.

Catch?

Said job is a graveyard shift position.

I've done a graveyard shift before, and I swore I never would again.

However, I was working longer hours than this job offers, and I will be making more money. There's also the possibility of them moving me to days if such a position opens up.

Plus, I'm fed up with where I am. But what if this new gig isn't much better?

Part of me wants to take the new gig, and if it makes me miserable, it'll be motivation to find something better. Another part of me would rather stick out more time where I am and know my misery, than to throw myself into new situations where I don't know if it could be even worse.

QUANDARY! What Would Org Do?


Graveyard shifts, i've found, contain less assholes. Maybe the assholes think their shit only smells like roses in the day light, I don't know, but I do know there's less assholes to deal with. Also there's less people.
News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so.
You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop.
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Reply #41 posted 08/30/06 4:50pm

Anx

MickG said:



Graveyard shifts, i've found, contain less assholes. Maybe the assholes think their shit only smells like roses in the day light, I don't know, but I do know there's less assholes to deal with. Also there's less people.


this is very true. the only thing i haven't gotten used to as a daytime employee is dealing with the whole 9 to 5 chipper chipper chipper officious attitude. blech. night shift people are more, um, "earthy", shall we say wacky but i've found there to be a lot less of that day office artifice in people's behavior.
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Reply #42 posted 08/30/06 4:51pm

kidelrich

I didn't know quandary was spelled like that. But I learned how to spell from Andy Griffith reruns, so...
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Reply #43 posted 08/30/06 5:00pm

Imago

Anx said:

Imago said:

Anx!

Please at least try to improve your threads!


why don't you improve my ASS? with your LIPS!




I guess, the only question of any real importance now is....did you manscape? confuse
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Reply #44 posted 08/30/06 5:05pm

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Anx said:

MickG said:



Graveyard shifts, i've found, contain less assholes. Maybe the assholes think their shit only smells like roses in the day light, I don't know, but I do know there's less assholes to deal with. Also there's less people.


this is very true. the only thing i haven't gotten used to as a daytime employee is dealing with the whole 9 to 5 chipper chipper chipper officious attitude. blech. night shift people are more, um, "earthy", shall we say wacky but i've found there to be a lot less of that day office artifice in people's behavior.


falloff

You make it sound like a bad thing to you when it is a bit-o-heaven to me.

Contrast is funny.
News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so.
You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop.
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Reply #45 posted 08/30/06 5:16pm

Handclapsfinga
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take the damned job.
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Reply #46 posted 08/30/06 5:25pm

Anx

MickG said:

Anx said:



this is very true. the only thing i haven't gotten used to as a daytime employee is dealing with the whole 9 to 5 chipper chipper chipper officious attitude. blech. night shift people are more, um, "earthy", shall we say wacky but i've found there to be a lot less of that day office artifice in people's behavior.


falloff

You make it sound like a bad thing to you when it is a bit-o-heaven to me.

Contrast is funny.


no, i'm agreeing with you!
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Reply #47 posted 08/30/06 5:33pm

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Handclapsfingasnapz said:

take the damned job.

yeah, what she said.
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Reply #48 posted 08/30/06 9:23pm

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madartista said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

take the damned job.

yeah, what she said.


Ditto. The org has spoken.
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Reply #49 posted 08/31/06 2:15am

GangstaFam

orgnoted. biggrin
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Reply #50 posted 08/31/06 3:53am

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Anx said:

Imago said:

Anx!

Please at least try to improve your threads!


why don't you improve my ASS? with your LIPS!



I say just look for a better job with more pay and good hours. Then you can check out those bahts cool
1 U.S. Dollar = 34 Bahts

drool
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Reply #51 posted 08/31/06 3:55am

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MickG said:

Anx said:

I'm being offered a job with less hours, better benefits and more money.

Catch?

Said job is a graveyard shift position.

I've done a graveyard shift before, and I swore I never would again.

However, I was working longer hours than this job offers, and I will be making more money. There's also the possibility of them moving me to days if such a position opens up.

Plus, I'm fed up with where I am. But what if this new gig isn't much better?

Part of me wants to take the new gig, and if it makes me miserable, it'll be motivation to find something better. Another part of me would rather stick out more time where I am and know my misery, than to throw myself into new situations where I don't know if it could be even worse.

QUANDARY! What Would Org Do?


Graveyard shifts, i've found, contain less assholes. Maybe the assholes think their shit only smells like roses in the day light, I don't know, but I do know there's less assholes to deal with. Also there's less people.



Yeh but some of those bahts are just great booty!
1 U.S. Dollar = 34 Bahts

drool
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Reply #52 posted 08/31/06 9:15am

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Take it. If you don't like it, it'll shake you up, as you say, and motivate you.

In the meantime, you can be saving that extra money, and use it to take some time off if you need it.

Good luck. smile hug

BTW, what's the job?
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Reply #53 posted 08/31/06 10:17am

Mach

cant help but wanted to share this with you



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Reply #54 posted 09/01/06 7:37am

Anx

Well, the quandary kinda solved itself...I called the headhunters who offered me this position, and after taking a bunch of stupid tests and passing with flying colors and doing an intake interview and blah blah, the job got filled. Ah well, tra la la. The headhunters said they were gonna keep looking for stuff for me. Meanwhile, my job is like my own personal Gilligan's Island. I always seem to come just this close >< from getting off the island. lol
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Reply #55 posted 09/01/06 7:39am

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Anx said:

Well, the quandary kinda solved itself...I called the headhunters who offered me this position, and after taking a bunch of stupid tests and passing with flying colors and doing an intake interview and blah blah, the job got filled. Ah well, tra la la. The headhunters said they were gonna keep looking for stuff for me. Meanwhile, my job is like my own personal Gilligan's Island. I always seem to come just this close >< from getting off the island. lol




who's your ''little buddy''?
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Reply #56 posted 09/01/06 7:41am

Anx

purplerein said:

Anx said:

Well, the quandary kinda solved itself...I called the headhunters who offered me this position, and after taking a bunch of stupid tests and passing with flying colors and doing an intake interview and blah blah, the job got filled. Ah well, tra la la. The headhunters said they were gonna keep looking for stuff for me. Meanwhile, my job is like my own personal Gilligan's Island. I always seem to come just this close >< from getting off the island. lol




who's your ''little buddy''?



alcohol lol
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Reply #57 posted 09/01/06 7:42am

jerseykrs

Anx said:

purplerein said:





who's your ''little buddy''?



alcohol lol



she's my mean spirited buddy. confused
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Reply #58 posted 09/01/06 7:45am

susannah

Anx said:

Well, the quandary kinda solved itself...I called the headhunters who offered me this position, and after taking a bunch of stupid tests and passing with flying colors and doing an intake interview and blah blah, the job got filled. Ah well, tra la la. The headhunters said they were gonna keep looking for stuff for me. Meanwhile, my job is like my own personal Gilligan's Island. I always seem to come just this close >< from getting off the island. lol


sigh

Aw, never mind Anx, whats meant to be will be nod
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Reply #59 posted 09/01/06 7:55am

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Anx said:

Well, the quandary kinda solved itself...I called the headhunters who offered me this position, and after taking a bunch of stupid tests and passing with flying colors and doing an intake interview and blah blah, the job got filled. Ah well, tra la la.


I can't believe I just invested in this thread hmm
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