What does your other half think of all the time that you put in the org or
any other message board or msn/yahoo chat?
has it ever caused arguements?

Im just wondering.

Not married...but my boyfriend is jealous of the org...no doubt.

muirdo said:

Do I say something about the time she spends cooking, ironing and cleaning the house?
No!

So she better shut up

Sweeny79 said:

i'll need to send you the pics from my Raconteurs gig.

PANDURITO said:

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My other half knows that I get all the info so we know when a tour is coming up (if ever).... or a get-together.. hes too lazy to check it himself and he just isn't into chatting on line (thats with me doing al the ironing, cooking....)lol

muirdo said:

arguements ? No

I work here at the home and help take care of my mom who has alzheimers ( here too ) so ... the PC is on and i cruise in whenever

also i dont watch TV like he does sometimes so this is my down time

i will ask him tonight but being together 20 yrs i am going to guess he doesnt really care ( in negitive ways ) about it

The Org is the biggest relationship-killer outside of cheap hookers.

Mach said:

pretty much ditto except 3 kids instead of my mum that I take care of

ZombieKitten said:

already did the 4 kids myself ...2 still teens but they help out alot


kids are much easier in my opinion then an aging mom

emotionally anyway

Mach said:

I'm sure

Mach said:

my gran had alzheimers.
It can be hard work and terrible to witness.

I bet your doing a great job.

muirdo said:

i do the best i can do each day ... some days i am proud some days i feel i could do better


it is very hard work ...specially on the emotional side of it

i would be very nervous if my spouse spent a lot of time online

i know there are plenty of happy well adjusted couples here so i am not refering to you

sometimes it can just be too easy, ya know??

ahhh, i catch a lil shit every now and again, but hey ive been here a looooong time,guess im not here as much as i used to be. but its kool & the gang

the internet itself is a potential source of friction for some couples, not just the org. with easy access to porn, and chat rooms, if there was a problem, the internet can act as a source of infidelity in so many different ways. couples have to communicate why they're feeling the need to escape rather then deal with reality. I know, I've been there

My wife absolutely thinks I have been wasting my life here for years

She can't understand when I talk about everyone here as though you are "real" people



I explaine to her that sometimes she sits on the couch and knits


she says it's not the same

DOesn't really care. Knows I also meet up with them too. He's met Natisse and Liked her. I don't think he really minds that much.

SnakePeel said:

...and you must be pudding proof.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

if you only knew...

My husband LOATHES the time I spend on the org.

Until I get a jump on a Prince show.


But overall he LOATHES the time I spend here.

Prince and The Org=2 reasons y I'm single 2day!!

Mach said:

I work at a day center for people with Alzheimer's. I hope you're getting some help or that you're at least in some kind of support group.