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Printableluv4all7 said: NDRU said: What's the point of life at all, then? Bad may come with good, but good is what we live for. With a party comes a hangover, but parties are fun. with children come dirty diapers, no appreciation & eventually resentment, but most parents seem to think it's worth it. Same with love. Better to have love and lost then never to have loved at all. When you're hurt it might not feel like that, but I believe it. I can't imagine never having loved. Your rite. Ya had to slap me though. I'm miserable today if ya can't tell.  The stevie Nicks quote helped too, ofcourse. Thanks Andrew. 
Ya fuck!  My Legacy
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NDRU said: Love is putting yourself out there. Yes, you might get hurt, but you might be rewarded as well.
Plus, you can't turn off those feelings, so you might as well go with it. Telling yourself to stay uninvolved is just a farce. Becoming involved happens naturally, and if it doesn't, you're missing out on one of the most important things in life. [Edited 8/30/06 12:59pm] Beautiful!  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: NDRU said: Love is putting yourself out there. Yes, you might get hurt, but you might be rewarded as well.
Plus, you can't turn off those feelings, so you might as well go with it. Telling yourself to stay uninvolved is just a farce. Becoming involved happens naturally, and if it doesn't, you're missing out on one of the most important things in life. [Edited 8/30/06 12:59pm] Beautiful! you're in!!!  I hadn't got back to you hon was waiting to hear something...
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Natisse said: REDFEATHERS said: Beautiful! you're in!!! I hadn't got back to you hon was waiting to hear something...
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 yeah it was a nightmare last night.. xx | |
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onenitealone said: REDFEATHERS said: Thats so sweet, thank you
Will I see you in September?Anytime, love. I just hope you're feeling okay. We, and this place, are always here if you ever need to chat. 
Please don't beat yourself up over something more people would benefit from gaining an insight into. It can seem hard at times but it's a pity more people don't care as much.
If you're being true to yourself, and your feelings, you have nothing to be afraid of. As for September, I'm still not sure.  I'd LOVE to go but got a few things to sort out first. But, if I'm there, I'd love to see you. Sorry for not getting back to you.. I have kinda been *offline* for a while ~cough!cough!~ Thanks for your kind reply.. somethings are hard, but I am beginning to see things alot clearer now, and I put it down to a test in life. People care, others seem to, others arent able to show it, even though they may care. I am not angry or upset now.. I am just sorry, that a good friendship, based on honesty and trust has somewhat kinda just _ _ _ _ I dunno, hopefully that blank will be filled, but now I know, I am still always going to love and care, cos without that, I am nothing..  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: onenitealone said: Anytime, love. I just hope you're feeling okay. We, and this place, are always here if you ever need to chat.
Please don't beat yourself up over something more people would benefit from gaining an insight into. It can seem hard at times but it's a pity more people don't care as much.
If you're being true to yourself, and your feelings, you have nothing to be afraid of. As for September, I'm still not sure. I'd LOVE to go but got a few things to sort out first. But, if I'm there, I'd love to see you. Sorry for not getting back to you.. I have kinda been *offline* for a while ~cough!cough!~ Thanks for your kind reply.. somethings are hard, but I am beginning to see things alot clearer now, and I put it down to a test in life. People care, others seem to, others arent able to show it, even though they may care. I am not angry or upset now.. I am just sorry, that a good friendship, based on honesty and trust has somewhat kinda just _ _ _ _ I dunno, hopefully that blank will be filled, but now I know, I am still always going to love and care, cos without that, I am nothing.. Hey, no worries.
I think that's the main thing - being true to yourself. You can only feel the way you feel and there's nothing wrong with that, despite what anyone says. Some people find it terribly difficult to express themselves or can't even admit their own feelings to themselves. That's when you're in trouble. It's only by facing up to it that you can deal with it. I think you're being very brave, if anything.
And I'd much rather know people who care 'too' much as opposed to never at all. This is a thread about you so I don't want to hijack it by any means, but - when I was younger - I used to put virtually everybody before myself. My thoughts, needs, feelings came last. Everybody else came first. I don't know what changed that - probably being sick and tired of being walked over all the time - but, these days, I still feel the same way, just I've learned to look after my own needs as well. It's a pity one has to toughen up that way but it's all about balance and perspective. And I'm sure a lot of people will appreciate you for who you are.
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NDRU said: Love is putting yourself out there. Yes, you might get hurt, but you might be rewarded as well.
Plus, you can't turn off those feelings, so you might as well go with it. Telling yourself to stay uninvolved is just a farce. Becoming involved happens naturally, and if it doesn't, you're missing out on one of the most important things in life. [Edited 8/30/06 12:59pm] That's Bull. Love is not about putting yourself out there and i can turn off feelings very easily. | |
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Spats said: That's Bull. Love is not about putting yourself out there and i can turn off feelings very easily. I'm sorry you can do that spats because it means you don't feel very easily... you're missing out on a lot | |
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Natisse said: Spats said: That's Bull. Love is not about putting yourself out there and i can turn off feelings very easily. I'm sorry you can do that spats because it means you don't feel very easily... you're missing out on a lot I think i feel easily. I just don't like to get into the drama and issues involved with relationships with women. Too much of a headache. You can have a good time without that. | |
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Spats said: Natisse said: I'm sorry you can do that spats because it means you don't feel very easily... you're missing out on a lot I think i feel easily. I just don't like to get into the drama and issues involved with relationships with women. Too much of a headache. You can have a good time without that. I feel the same way about a lot of men... but getting involved on a deeper level is where the REAL good stuff is hope you get to experience that one day | |
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Natisse said: Spats said: I think i feel easily. I just don't like to get into the drama and issues involved with relationships with women. Too much of a headache. You can have a good time without that. I feel the same way about a lot of men... but getting involved on a deeper level is where the REAL good stuff is hope you get to experience that one dayI am happy with the way things are for the most part. | |
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Spats said: Natisse said: I'm sorry you can do that spats because it means you don't feel very easily... you're missing out on a lot I think i feel easily. I just don't like to get into the drama and issues involved with relationships with women. Too much of a headache. You can have a good time without that. having a good time is nice, but I wouldn't call that love My Legacy
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I don't think it's foolish, I think it's natural. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: I don't think it's foolish, I think it's natural.
some ppl think its foolish, and there are those who just dont fucking care if you care | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Sweeny79 said: I don't think it's foolish, I think it's natural.
some ppl think its foolish, and there are those who just dont fucking care if you careYeah, I call them assholes  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: REDFEATHERS said: some ppl think its foolish, and there are those who just dont fucking care if you careYeah, I call them assholes exactly | |
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REDFEATHERS said: don't be sad sweetie... be strong | |
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