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Reply #60 posted 08/25/06 7:22am

Rhondab

NDRU said:

Rhondab said:




there's no need to apologize. hug If you don't feel that smoking kills, ok.

I do have one example of it killing though.


People smoke and use drugs for various reasons. My mother said that it was a different time when she started. It was cool with no health concerns attached to it.

Nowadays, I have NO idea why anyone would start. And Nicotine is just as addictive as other drugs so I do understand that its difficult to stop.

I have some empathy for the smoker BUT I just don't want anyone dying because of it.



It doesn't have to kill but it definitely does kill.

The worst thing about smoking cigarettes (from my experience) is that it doesn't get you high or drunk even, it only alleviates the need for a cigarette and fills some kind of nervous needs.



lung cancer kills more ppl than ALL other cancers COMBINED.

Yes, it definitely kills.
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Reply #61 posted 08/25/06 9:18am

UCantHavaDaMan
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Rhondab said:



Yes, it definitely kills.



Indeed it does. A friend of mine told me about his grandfather's death from lung disease, and it was horrifying. Towards the end, it took all the energy he could muster just to take one breath. Eventually, his body grew too tired to breathe, so he just stopped, and died. sad

Imagine having your family watch you die like that. It's just not worth it.
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Reply #62 posted 08/25/06 9:46am

abierman

the neverending debate.....zzz


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Reply #63 posted 08/25/06 11:29am

emm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I always end up resentful because I hate it so much.

that's what i am afraid of sad

muse said:

The newfie did but kept it outside.....

could you still smell it in the house? on your clothes??

sigh

oh and aksel, it's not really a debate is it?
either you like it or you hate it
watching someone suffocate from lung cancer is very hard
doveShe couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay dove
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Reply #64 posted 08/25/06 11:53am

INSATIABLE

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Like Rhonda, I associate smoking with emotional pain, grief, and loss of loved ones.

People who start doing something to themselves at an age where they are fully aware of the risks bother me, plain and simple. They're not only hurting themselves.
Oh shit, my hat done fell off
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Reply #65 posted 08/25/06 12:13pm

2freaky4church
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Hey, if she puts out, who cares. giggle
All you others say Hell Yea!! woot!
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Reply #66 posted 08/25/06 11:00pm

cutestgirlever

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the neverending debate.....zzz



Thats HAWTA!
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Reply #67 posted 08/26/06 2:32am

abierman

cutestgirlever said:

abierman said:

the neverending debate.....zzz



Thats HAWTA!



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Reply #68 posted 08/26/06 2:49am

susannah

Im with the "choose to" smokers nod

I aint addicted, I only have like 1-2 a day, and I do it because I wanna. If people are put off by that, well, maybe it oughtta be a symbol of the deeper issues they would be put off by. I smoke cause it gets me through confused If they dont wanna help, fuck em.
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Reply #69 posted 08/26/06 6:33am

Rhondab

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Im with the "choose to" smokers nod

I aint addicted, I only have like 1-2 a day, and I do it because I wanna. If people are put off by that, well, maybe it oughtta be a symbol of the deeper issues they would be put off by. I smoke cause it gets me through confused If they dont wanna help, fuck em.



ok. Good luck with that. confused
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Reply #70 posted 08/26/06 6:48am

susannah

Rhondab said:

susannah said:

Im with the "choose to" smokers nod

I aint addicted, I only have like 1-2 a day, and I do it because I wanna. If people are put off by that, well, maybe it oughtta be a symbol of the deeper issues they would be put off by. I smoke cause it gets me through confused If they dont wanna help, fuck em.



ok. Good luck with that. confused


Thanks! biggrin Its going swimmingly thus far!
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Reply #71 posted 08/26/06 7:16am

kidelrich

All of my friends smoke, but one.
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Reply #72 posted 08/26/06 8:33am

Imago

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feeling ill NO ...especially on women ...looks very unattractive



co-sign. It's a legacy behavior as far as I'm concerned, like public stoning. ill
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Reply #73 posted 08/26/06 10:05am

100MPH

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NDRU said:

Rhondab said:




there's no need to apologize. hug If you don't feel that smoking kills, ok.

I do have one example of it killing though.


People smoke and use drugs for various reasons. My mother said that it was a different time when she started. It was cool with no health concerns attached to it.

Nowadays, I have NO idea why anyone would start. And Nicotine is just as addictive as other drugs so I do understand that its difficult to stop.

I have some empathy for the smoker BUT I just don't want anyone dying because of it.



It doesn't have to kill but it definitely does kill.

The worst thing about smoking cigarettes (from my experience) is that it doesn't get you high or drunk even, it only alleviates the need for a cigarette and fills some kind of nervous needs.

I've seen a tv-special once where shizophrenic patients were tested by letting them smoke .
Before a smoke-session they were in their vague unfollowable state of mind , but crystal clear and easy to communicate with after smoking .
The examination-team had a holographic illustration which showed that electric impulses were sended to the brains when a cigarette was taken .
They tried to find an alternative medicine that could replace the nicotine & tobacco ingredients .
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Reply #74 posted 08/26/06 10:22am

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Rhondab said:

Dewrede said:



I had no idea sad
Sorry for my comment earlier
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there's no need to apologize. hug If you don't feel that smoking kills, ok.

I do have one example of it killing though.


People smoke and use drugs for various reasons. My mother said that it was a different time when she started. It was cool with no health concerns attached to it.

Nowadays, I have NO idea why anyone would start. And Nicotine is just as addictive as other drugs so I do understand that its difficult to stop.

I have some empathy for the smoker BUT I just don't want anyone dying because of it.



ok , understood hug
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Reply #75 posted 08/28/06 11:48am

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100MPH said:

NDRU said:




It doesn't have to kill but it definitely does kill.

The worst thing about smoking cigarettes (from my experience) is that it doesn't get you high or drunk even, it only alleviates the need for a cigarette and fills some kind of nervous needs.

I've seen a tv-special once where shizophrenic patients were tested by letting them smoke .
Before a smoke-session they were in their vague unfollowable state of mind , but crystal clear and easy to communicate with after smoking .
The examination-team had a holographic illustration which showed that electric impulses were sended to the brains when a cigarette was taken .
They tried to find an alternative medicine that could replace the nicotine & tobacco ingredients .


They say nicotine has some beneficial effects on short term memory, too. Still, it can't really make up for the inhalation of smoke--same with pot's positive effects.
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Reply #76 posted 08/28/06 6:26pm

Hobbitch

susannah said:

Im with the "choose to" smokers nod

I aint addicted, I only have like 1-2 a day, and I do it because I wanna. If people are put off by that, well, maybe it oughtta be a symbol of the deeper issues they would be put off by. I smoke cause it gets me through confused If they dont wanna help, fuck em.
If I am put off by smoking, it's a symbol of deeper issues I would be put off by? WTF? If people don't want to help, fuck them? I really don't understand what you mean by this part of your statement. The problem I have with smokers is the fact that they do it around other people with no regard for those people. I do not care if people smoke til their lungs fall out, but have enough respect for someone else's health to not subject them to that. Second hand smoke kills.
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Reply #77 posted 08/28/06 7:41pm

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I like it when Im entering a business, a resturaunt, a store and there is someone standing there greeting me with a cloud of cigarette smoke streaming from their nostrils and mouth.


I

LOVE


IT!
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Reply #78 posted 08/28/06 9:02pm

brownsugar

SpisaRibb said:

I like it when Im entering a business, a resturaunt, a store and there is someone standing there greeting me with a cloud of cigarette smoke streaming from their nostrils and mouth.


I

LOVE


IT!



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Reply #79 posted 08/28/06 9:31pm

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Imago said:

Ocean said:

feeling ill NO ...especially on women ...looks very unattractive



co-sign. It's a legacy behavior as far as I'm concerned, like public stoning. ill

I wish we could bring back that. neutral
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Reply #80 posted 08/29/06 1:32pm

susannah

Hobbitch said:

susannah said:

Im with the "choose to" smokers nod

I aint addicted, I only have like 1-2 a day, and I do it because I wanna. If people are put off by that, well, maybe it oughtta be a symbol of the deeper issues they would be put off by. I smoke cause it gets me through confused If they dont wanna help, fuck em.
If I am put off by smoking, it's a symbol of deeper issues I would be put off by? WTF? If people don't want to help, fuck them? I really don't understand what you mean by this part of your statement. The problem I have with smokers is the fact that they do it around other people with no regard for those people. I do not care if people smoke til their lungs fall out, but have enough respect for someone else's health to not subject them to that. Second hand smoke kills.


I don't agree with second hand smoke either, having lived with it all my life (before I smoked obviously), but I was referring to the negative judgement of people, specifically women, who smoke themselves, as described in the thread title. Nothing whatsoever to do with smoke's consequences to others. smile
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Reply #81 posted 08/29/06 2:34pm

Hobbitch

susannah said:

Hobbitch said:

If I am put off by smoking, it's a symbol of deeper issues I would be put off by? WTF? If people don't want to help, fuck them? I really don't understand what you mean by this part of your statement. The problem I have with smokers is the fact that they do it around other people with no regard for those people. I do not care if people smoke til their lungs fall out, but have enough respect for someone else's health to not subject them to that. Second hand smoke kills.


I don't agree with second hand smoke either, having lived with it all my life (before I smoked obviously), but I was referring to the negative judgement of people, specifically women, who smoke themselves, as described in the thread title. Nothing whatsoever to do with smoke's consequences to others. smile

Oh thank you for the clarification. smile
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Reply #82 posted 08/29/06 2:35pm

Spookymuffin

It's their decision to be honest. And why just women? Why not men too? This thread's more retarded that steven hawking.
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Reply #83 posted 08/29/06 2:37pm

kidelrich

Spookymuffin said:

It's their decision to be honest. And why just women? Why not men too? This thread's more retarded that steven hawking.


I like girls who smoke(but it doesn't look hot past 40), even as I despise the fact that I still smoke.

And he ain't retarded, Ben. He's fucking brilliant!
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Reply #84 posted 08/29/06 3:34pm

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It's not the smoking itself, but I tend to like people that smoke. They're often weirder, and doing something that society says is wrong & evil means they often don't buy into conventions.
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Reply #85 posted 08/29/06 3:40pm

Anx

i'm an extremely moderate smoker - usually two packs a month, if i'm not going out and drinking at all lol - but even if i stopped smoking for good, i'd be turned off by dating someone who was all militant evangelical about non-smoking. i just hate that self-righteous attitude, about ANYTHING, and smoking has never bothered me to the extent that i'd get all confrontational with people about it. meanwhile, as for myself, i like to think i'm a very thoughtful smoker, maybe even to a fault. if i'm the only smoker in a group of non-smokers, i don't light up. simple as that. or i'll excuse myself and go somewhere that i know won't bother them if i absolutely MUST have a smokey treat. but these days, i usually leave my smokes in the house when i go out. they're not something i NEED at all times. they're just something i find comforting now and then.

now when i'm together with a big group of drinkin', smokin' heathens, it's a different story altogether. lol
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Reply #86 posted 08/29/06 6:33pm

uPtoWnNY

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Why not men too?


Because I don't date men. biggrin
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Reply #87 posted 08/29/06 7:03pm

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I'm a woman who smokes. I've lived with a guy who doesn't smoke for the last 4 years. He never complains and will join me for one every once in a blue moon. I've dated both non-smokers and smokers, before and after I started.. never really bothered me either way.

I find it interesting that if the word "smoking" were replaced with "drinking alcohol" in this topic, you wouldn't find as many negative responses. Yet, alcohol kills as well. And the effects of alcohol, i.e. drunk driving, kills many.
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