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Printablekidelrich said: gemini13 said: How old are these people? [Edited 8/20/06 6:40am] Girl A is, or just turned 30. Girl B is 20, I think. The sleazy guy was 35-40, I would guess. Oh man, I thought we are talking about 19-25 year olds. 30 year old chick should have known to not put herself in the position she did. I mean, you said that she was coming on to you, totally disrespecting the long term relationship she was in. No one deserves to get taken advantage of, however, she is ultimately to blame for what happened. | |
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alwayslate said: Girl A needs to get a grip. At no time does anyone's past, no matter how horrible, make it okay for them to act irresponsibly as an adult. That is a fucking cop out. She wasn't unconscious. She didn't say no. She was an adult (I am assuming). She was not uh, retarded (I am assuming).
She made a bad drunken decision. period. She cheated on her fella. She should fess up to her man and ask his forgiveness. I agree 100%. | |
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JustErin said: kidelrich said: Girl A is, or just turned 30. Girl B is 20, I think. The sleazy guy was 35-40, I would guess. Oh man, I thought we are talking about 19-25 year olds. 30 year old chick should have known to not put herself in the position she did. I mean, you said that she was coming on to you, totally disrespecting the long term relationship she was in. No one deserves to get taken advantage of, however, she is ultimately to blame for what happened. I was equally stunned at that. 30? That's not just unfortunate--it's downright sad. | |
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Imago said: JustErin said: Oh man, I thought we are talking about 19-25 year olds. 30 year old chick should have known to not put herself in the position she did. I mean, you said that she was coming on to you, totally disrespecting the long term relationship she was in. No one deserves to get taken advantage of, however, she is ultimately to blame for what happened. I was equally stunned at that. 30? That's not just unfortunate--it's downright sad. Why?  30 year olds like to have sex too.  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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JustErin said: alwayslate said: Girl A needs to get a grip. At no time does anyone's past, no matter how horrible, make it okay for them to act irresponsibly as an adult. That is a fucking cop out. She wasn't unconscious. She didn't say no. She was an adult (I am assuming). She was not uh, retarded (I am assuming).
She made a bad drunken decision. period. She cheated on her fella. She should fess up to her man and ask his forgiveness. I agree 100%. Unless she's a black-out drunk, she had an inkling of what she was doing. I agree the past shouldn't be an excuse for negative behavior. She fucked up and needs to deal with it by being honest. | |
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kidelrich said: He's a massage therapist and was using that to hit on every fucking girl at the party, all with the pretense that he was helping them with their body issues.
just the kind of creep i would love to run into at such a party, i would help him out with some body issues alright, sad fucker.  and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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minneapolisgenius said: Imago said: I was equally stunned at that. 30? That's not just unfortunate--it's downright sad. Why? 30 year olds like to have sex too. Yes, but we have to do it sober; else, we could end up hurting someone with all the additional weight and sloppiness we carry.  | |
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IstenSzek said: kidelrich said: He's a massage therapist and was using that to hit on every fucking girl at the party, all with the pretense that he was helping them with their body issues.
just the kind of creep i would love to run into at such a party, i would help him out with some body issues alright, sad fucker. Could you help me out with some body issues? orgnote me spelling edit [Edited 8/20/06 6:58am] | |
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Imago said: minneapolisgenius said: Why? 30 year olds like to have sex too. Yes, but we have to do it sober; else, we could end up hurting someone with all the additional weight and sloppiness we carry. Speak for yourself. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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Imago said: IstenSzek said: just the kind of creep i would love to run into at such a party, i would help him out with some body issues alright, sad fucker. Could you help me out with some body issues? orgnote me spelling edit we shall start with a nice massage, just to get you to relax.... 
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minneapolisgenius said: Imago said: Yes, but we have to do it sober; else, we could end up hurting someone with all the additional weight and sloppiness we carry. Speak for yourself. minneapolisgenius said: Imago said: Yes, but we have to do it sober; else, we could end up hurting someone with all the additional weight and sloppiness we carry. Speak for yourself. 
Young, hip--seeeeexxxxaaaaay or 
you know underneath that blousy shirt is a jumbled up mess. :disblief: | |
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Imago said: minneapolisgenius said: Speak for yourself.
Young, hip--seeeeexxxxaaaaay or
you know underneath that blousy shirt is a jumbled up mess. :disblief: You can say THAT again. A decayed, jumbled mess. Rick James is not very sexy when he's dead. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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minneapolisgenius said: Imago said:
Young, hip--seeeeexxxxaaaaay or
you know underneath that blousy shirt is a jumbled up mess. :disblief: You can say THAT again. A decayed, jumbled mess. Rick James is not very sexy when he's dead. 
He probably looks better than he did at the BET awards last year.  | |
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IstenSzek said: we shall start with a nice massage, just to get you to relax....
This is getting comical. | |
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Talked to Girl A. She is absolutely fine with everything that went on last night.  I have no comment on that. | |
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kidelrich said: Talked to Girl A. She is absolutely fine with everything that went on last night.
I have no comment on that. 
I would deduce that she doesn't care about her unfaithfulness. I pity her boyfriend | |
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purplerein said: kidelrich said: Talked to Girl A. She is absolutely fine with everything that went on last night.
I have no comment on that.
I would deduce that she doesn't care about her unfaithfulness. I pity her boyfriend just to clarify, although she went into the darkened bedroom with the other girl, all she said was that they kissed. Take that for what it's worth. | |
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kidelrich said: purplerein said:
I would deduce that she doesn't care about her unfaithfulness. I pity her boyfriend just to clarify, although she went into the darkened bedroom with the other girl, all she said was that they kissed. Take that for what it's worth. just a bad night all around | |
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purplerein said: kidelrich said: just to clarify, although she went into the darkened bedroom with the other girl, all she said was that they kissed. Take that for what it's worth. just a bad night all around I don't understand girls and I very likely never will. | |
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purplerein said: kidelrich said: just to clarify, although she went into the darkened bedroom with the other girl, all she said was that they kissed. Take that for what it's worth. just a bad night all around Apparently not for Girl A. He just said she was fine w/ it all. People are so quick to judge others behavior sometimes. We have no idea what her relationship w/ her boyfriend is like, or if he even cares if she kisses another woman.  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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kidelrich said: purplerein said: just a bad night all around I don't understand girls and I very likely never will. Um... not "girls", more like "morons" I would say. | |
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slumpbuster Ian, SLUMPBUSTER!!!! Jump on that landmine!!! | |
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FUCK I'm pissed now.
Kick his ass, hon. Kick his ass good.  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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at least they didn't need roofies.  Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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kidelrich said: Isn't there a double standard here? Why would it be ok with most people if the girls were both sober and had sex? It's still cheating.
I don't think we're talking about cheating as the damning factor...I think we're talking about consentual sex and taking advantage of ones sobriety for ones gain. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: kidelrich said: Isn't there a double standard here? Why would it be ok with most people if the girls were both sober and had sex? It's still cheating.
I don't think we're talking about cheating as the damning factor...I think we're talking about consentual sex and taking advantage of ones sobriety for ones gain.  it's the fact that the guy took advatage of the girl that's getting us upset.
and maybe the drunk girl is ok with her actions because her man doesn't consider making out with another girl cheating.... I know people like that. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: superspaceboy said: I don't think we're talking about cheating as the damning factor...I think we're talking about consentual sex and taking advantage of ones sobriety for ones gain. it's the fact that the guy took advatage of the girl that's getting us upset.
and maybe the drunk girl is ok with her actions because her man doesn't consider making out with another girl cheating.... I know people like that. Well, I don't know that all they did was make out. They were talking about plenty more than that earlier that night. Anyways, I feel bad for her that she's such a sucker for this loser and his messed up girlfriend. | |
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Buy a hammer and pound some flesh. | |
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Spookymuffin said: Buy a hammer and pound some flesh.
I really wanted to pound some flesh, but he probably knows the vulcan neck grip. And to be honest, the first thing I was pissed about was his cockblockery. | |
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I have 3 young adult kids who have had many a party here, and if that ever happened at MY house I'd track the SOB's down and make clear they're banned. Persona non grata. They ever step foot on the premises again, they'd be looking down the barrel of my 12 gauge.
I'm refering to the predator and his enabling gf. [Edited 8/20/06 16:45pm] | |
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