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fantasyislander said: applekisses said: I agree on all counts...and I think that's why we should all remember the responsiblity we have to one another to be as real as we can be when we connect with others here -- remember that even though you've turned off the computer on your end that there is another, miles away, who is carrying around what you've said here, even though they also have a life away from the screen. that is a very good reminder. btw, you're one that i'd like to get to know better. Same here, babylove! I think you're such a wonderful girl | |
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applekisses said: fantasyislander said: that is a very good reminder. btw, you're one that i'd like to get to know better. Same here, babylove! I think you're such a wonderful girl awww, really?? that's just cause you only know my orgpersona. just kidding. | |
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Moderator | applekisses said: Sweeny79 said: so by default... the pain it causes some of us, hell all of us, is just as real. It's easy for folks to say "oh get over it! It's just the fucking internet " when someone gets caught up in a n episode of "as the org turns" but people don't realize...for some reason this little box we are all sitting in front of right now, connects us in ways that are truely amazing.. the friends I have made here I love like family I mean that I really do...but I've had myself pretty busted up over fuckers I ain't never met either... it's like anything got it's bad and it's good side. And both sides are as equally powerfull. But I have learned...like I said on the other thread....you need to live in your own immediate enviornment, not here...this is not false...the emotionshere are real and hightened....butthey are not 100% reality either...it's like Apples said...Orgerlite...if you live in Orgland too long it really fucks you up... you guys know this.... so again..if you LIVE here...go delete your fucking account right now...or ask me to ban ya...because you need to get control of yourself and get the fuck outa here! I agree on all counts...and I think that's why we should all remember the responsiblity we have to one another to be as real as we can be when we connect with others here -- remember that even though you've turned off the computer on your end that there is another, miles away, who is carrying around what you've said here, even though they also have a life away from the screen. I know for a fact there are members of this community, that use that idea the idea that " I will think of you when I turn this machine off" as a weapon, they use it to mind fuck people. There aren't many around...but beware they are here. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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fantasyislander said: applekisses said: Same here, babylove! I think you're such a wonderful girl awww, really?? that's just cause you only know my orgpersona. just kidding. I do! Even when we were duking it out in the P&R forum | |
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And yanno what. Theres people on here that I know would be awesome friends in real life. But i hate my real life friends too.
Then theres people on here that I would hate in real life but I like them here. | |
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applekisses said: fantasyislander said: awww, really?? that's just cause you only know my orgpersona. just kidding. I do! Even when we were duking it out in the P&R forum i don't like going there anymore. i think you burned me out!! | |
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I know you want a big answer, Nat, but I'll be here all day.
Yes, I do. In fact - and I put this in an Orgnote to somebody today - in some ways, you guys know me better than even my 'real life' friends. Not to say that I'm any different - not at all - but I think this place is the perfect distillation of my thoughts and feelings. Straight from the brain to the screen. None of the that you know you'll get with me in real life. Otherwise, I would be here all day. But I have a huge love and respect for a lot of people here. People who I do/have spoken to and people I've yet to speak to. Everyone makes up the Org. And I wish I knew many of you in real life, too. | |
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fantasyislander said: applekisses said: I do! Even when we were duking it out in the P&R forum i don't like going there anymore. i think you burned me out!! I don't go there much at all anymore...maybe we burned each other out | |
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applekisses said: fantasyislander said: i don't like going there anymore. i think you burned me out!! I don't go there much at all anymore...maybe we burned each other out i guess that means we are two awesomely strong ladies. | |
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Sweeny79 said: applekisses said: I agree on all counts...and I think that's why we should all remember the responsiblity we have to one another to be as real as we can be when we connect with others here -- remember that even though you've turned off the computer on your end that there is another, miles away, who is carrying around what you've said here, even though they also have a life away from the screen. I know for a fact there are members of this community, that use that idea the idea that " I will think of you when I turn this machine off" as a weapon, they use it to mind fuck people. There aren't many around...but beware they are here. That's horrible...cold and cruel. I never understood the attraction of the mindfuck...people like that I'm ready to destroy at a moment's notice. thanks for the heads-up, sweetie. | |
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fantasyislander said: applekisses said: I don't go there much at all anymore...maybe we burned each other out i guess that means we are two awesomely strong ladies. and we were meant to knock some sense into each other | |
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onenitealone said: I know you want a big answer, Nat, but I'll be here all day.
Yes, I do. In fact - and I put this in an Orgnote to somebody today - in some ways, you guys know me better than even my 'real life' friends. Not to say that I'm any different - not at all - but I think this place is the perfect distillation of my thoughts and feelings. Straight from the brain to the screen. None of the that you know you'll get with me in real life. Otherwise, I would be here all day. But I have a huge love and respect for a lot of people here. People who I do/have spoken to and people I've yet to speak to. Everyone makes up the Org. And I wish I knew many of you in real life, too. | |
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Real...
I feel if you are real here and are being genuine then you will develop real friendships. There are some very genuine and sincere ppl here- there are also some fake- character type ppl here. Just like in real life - there are all types of ppl here. I think it is very possible to develop real friendships here and I have seen real love relationships develop here as well. There are many of you that I would love to meet in person because I feel we would have a great time hanging out together. There's one very special person that I HAVE to meet and give a great big hug & a kiss to.. no doubt about it!! | |
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I have made some real friends from here... and u are one of them Tisse. I guess i knew you before but anyway am putting you down as one.
And as you know because of this place Jon and I found each other too. So prince.org | |
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Most of my "real" friends here are people I've met in person at some point. But not all.
Some of my favorite people on Earth are here. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Most of my "real" friends here are people I've met in person at some point. But not all.
Some of my favorite people on Earth are here. me too | |
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ellieadore said: I have made some real friends from here... and u are one of them Tisse. I guess i knew you before but anyway am putting you down as one.
And as you know because of this place Jon and I found each other too. So prince.org indeed... well said sweetie | |
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CarrieMpls said: LleeLlee said: There are some people here I care for in the same way I would a friend offline, i.e it's real. Then there are others whose opinions I respect even though there is no discernible friendship.
oh goodness, totally. I have a great deal of respect for certain people here, even those I don't know all that well... And others I just dont connect with on any level. | |
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mdiver said: Natisse said: OK I'm gonna play devils advocate here... those who said yes - do you HONESTLY REALLY think these are lifelong friendships? if you were to ever have a falling out... how strong do you think that bond would be to heal all wounds?
It is the same as with real friends, i mean many of the real friends i have made here and elsewhere i have fallen out with. I guess that it comes down to how we deal with that problem. Like anything we need to deal in an adult manner and admit our mistakes, like any relationship it is give and take and with discussion and honesty we can get through most problems but then again if we really hurt a person we may not make it. It's real life, we are real people with real feelings. I mean Aksel tried to sit on my face but he is still a mate that quest isn't over yet..... | |
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Moderator | purplerein said: mdiver said: Very real. Before it happened i didn't think it was possible to make friends or even love a person from a forum or chat room like you do outside of here. But you can and on so many levels.
There are many here i am proud to call friend and some i love truly. Of course there are others i would gladly set fire too so i guess it evens out in the end. rhymes with cats Don't start Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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I like the people at ashleesimpson.org better than you's
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jerseykrs said: I like the people at ashleesimpson.org better than you's
http://jerseykrs.tripod.com/id1.html | |
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abierman said: jerseykrs said: I like the people at ashleesimpson.org better than you's
http://jerseykrs.tripod.com/id1.html | |
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What is THIS PLACE????? | |
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i can say i've made some true friendships here and i see them as lifelong friends. as for falling out i dont think that would happen. sure there may be a time where we may get mad at each other (hasn't happened yet) but i think all of our attention spans are too short for it to last long. one day we could be angry and the next day offering eachother gummi bears | |
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From the people I’ve befriended on this goddamned website, I keep in contact with each slightly differently. Since I’m awful at keeping decent contact with everyone, we drift in and out of each others’ lives; and are close at times and distant at times. It just depends on what’s going on for each person, and how much time we have for each other. For most of these people, I wish I had more time to get to know them better. I’ve learned a lot from these people and admire/care about them. It’s too bad I don’t run into as many quality people in my local circle!
As for meeting orgers in person—I am painfully shy; even if I’ve “known” a person for years. It takes a long time for me to be comfortable around people. On here, I feel I can say anything. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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thanks for you answers everyone | |
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INSATIABLE said: From the people I’ve befriended on this goddamned website, I keep in contact with each slightly differently. Since I’m awful at keeping decent contact with everyone, we drift in and out of each others’ lives; and are close at times and distant at times. It just depends on what’s going on for each person, and how much time we have for each other. For most of these people, I wish I had more time to get to know them better. I’ve learned a lot from these people and admire/care about them. It’s too bad I don’t run into as many quality people in my local circle!
As for meeting orgers in person—I am painfully shy; even if I’ve “known” a person for years. It takes a long time for me to be comfortable around people. On here, I feel I can say anything. real real real real when I finally got to meet two orgers it was like we already had met because we had I am me here, sometimes a bit more sexual, but still me. The people here are precious to me and I love developing more friendships and relationships through the org. I am truly thankful that I have this special place to go to chat with, read with, and to share comfort and love with special people from all over the world. [Edited 8/17/06 11:49am] We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color. Maya Angelou | |
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