Beware of what is done in secret ladies... More then one around here is chatting up more then one

Im just sayin.....




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"Wooo, chile..."

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

this should be serialflirt.org

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing?
Always crushing, and "seeing" someone so not really single but not committed either

2) Are you happy with where you are?
Yes, more so now than ever before

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Nope, I take one step at a time, Im kinda leery about falling to fast, but I think it depends on who it is, havent found one that made me fall fast yet.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes, but it healed, and it may be broken again someday.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No, if there are circumstances then maybe you shouldnt be in the relationship to begin with.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I haven't been in that position before, not sure exactly what I would do, but I don't think the trust would be there and trust is important if you're going to be with someone.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, a few

8) Do you want children?
Yes

9) How many?
At least 2

10) Would you consider adoption?
Definetly

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Give me clues to solve the "puzzel" Hard to say, I think any way they're comfortable in doing it would be cool in the end if the feelings are mutual.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Isn't that the fun part!? Cat and mouse can be fun if it's the right cat

13) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
I believe in lust at first sight, love comes from getting to know the soul, not by looking at the package its in.

14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries?
Yes, but you don't have to have anniversaries for everything I've heard some girls get pissed when the guy doesnt celebrate the anniversary of their first kiss or the first time they had sex, I mean come on already! :crazy:

15) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No, I think you grow together as a couple and blend more than change. A person has to want to change themselves for it to truly take shape.
16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object?
A vineyard in Tuscany

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, haven't quite pegged them yet but I smile whenever I think of him.

18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
I think we all have at some point either out of sexual curiousity or just the plain ol "what if" question.

19) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, one I didnt even know about until a couple years later.

20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
I would hope I wouldn't have to, but if it came down to it I wouldn't back off and the bitch better be ready!

21) What would you say about your last ex?
Intelligent and young, but sooooo much fun

JustErin said:

That's what I used to say....never say never...

21 Relationship Questions

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? single


2) Are you happy with where you are? yes


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? I think so


4) Have you ever had your heart broken? no


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? yes


6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? not an easy answer to that


7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? no


8) Do you want children? can't concieve, so no


9) How many? n/a


10) Would you consider adoption? possibly...


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? tell me straight out lol... be a man and be open


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? no don't see the point in it


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? yes


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? yes


15) Do you believe that you can change someone? no and you shouldn't want to


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? oooooh that's a toughy!


17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? not reaaaaally...kinda


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? story of my life!


19) Have you ever broken a heart? gawd no never had the chance


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? yes


21) What would you say about your last ex? n/a (no ex)

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? single
2) Are you happy with where you are? Slightly not really
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? no
4) Have you ever had your heart broken? yes
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? absolutley not
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?not anymore
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? yeah
8) Do you want children? no
9) How many? zero
10) Would you consider adoption?
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? send me naked photos
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? sometimes, yes
13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? yes and no. I don't beleive in true love. We're animals. WE have conditioned reactions to certain others in our species. Although we think we've found that "one" special persons, there are millions--possibly billions--of people who could give us the same conditioned reaction under the right circumstances.
14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries?[b] yes, since in America they're so rare
15) Do you believe that you can change someone? yes, and have
16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? Thahiti
17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? no
18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? yes, of course
19) Have you ever broken a heart? yes. alot
20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? nope.
21) What would you say about your last ex? self-centered and delusional.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

This doesn't include ones located on other continents, does it?

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

it's like a twisted sexual soap opera

peeps be talking bout peeps and sexin up peeps and more peeps

Mach said:

...These are the days of our org...

Natisse said:

When i 1st joined the Org i had women jumpin on me ( orgnotes ) about "being to friendly" with Byron ...it got to the point of ugly

i had to tell one that if she continued i would then forward everything she wrote me TO Byron ... she stoped instantly

there are several here that i think if they knew the rumors and talk about them behind their backs ( like highschool ) they would be hurt and surprized ...


just sayin

Mach said:

I'm so the last to know about these things. I don't even know what's going on here half the time.

CarrieMpls said:

It's a truth though

people talk and if it's a "sexual" type energy people talk more

some people i should say

Mach said:

Honestly Mach, that doesn't surprise me at all.

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Mach said:

Every once in a while I hear about these things in a casual way and I realize how clueless I am to some of the goings on here.

Imago said:

Can you really call our glory hole nooners a "relationship"?

CarrieMpls said:

Ditto. And, I know that I'm probably naive to think that I may have not been included in said "talk" at any point in the past.

Mach said:

oh preaching to the converted here, hon, don't worry.. agree 100% with all you say you "feel" it... so much so you don't even need to be told it's happening

ok off on a tangent here...

LleeLlee said:

Me either

Mach said:

Wtf?? Jealous of online banter and so called flirting? Hurt by what strangers on here say about you??

It's a freaking website. I can't believe people mistake silly online dynamics for real life.

Mach said:

It doesn't surprise me, but it's disheartening.

JustErin said:

it changes when silly online dynamics become much more and become real friendships and even relationships... that's when the lines get blurry

Mach said:

Would someone PLEASE come sex me up!

JustErin said:

I agree ...


though some would feel hurt and surprized because they may invest more of themselves into the "games" and what not

I always wanted to ( part of me that is ) expose the oh so very popular "orger" who gave me so much shit about my frindship with Byron

because i understood how she could see it as such and act the way she did i was respectful enough towards her not to ... i could see she was feeling insecure about a "newbie" and so on

games ...


are for highschool

mdiver said:

Oh baby we got um talking



TRUST ME

21 Relationship Questions

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? No answer


2) Are you happy with where you are? No


3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? Depends....


4) Have you ever had your heart broken? Badly


5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? No


6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? Physical cheating, probably. Emotional cheating, not so sure.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? Yes


8) Do you want children? I did when I was younger


9) How many? 1 or 2


10) Would you consider adoption? I would have when I was younger


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? Tell me straight up.....I respect honesty and directness


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? No, I do not play games....


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? Yes

14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? Yes

15) Do you believe that you can change someone? I do not believe I can change someone, however I do believe people can change themselves and that I could be a positive influence

16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? No particular place, as long as it is the right person I would consider it perfect no matter where I was

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now? Yes


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? Yes


19) Have you ever broken a heart? I don't know, but I think not


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? No, I don't fight with words or fists

21) What would you say about your last ex? He is a liar and a cheater.

ZombieKitten said:1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? taken


2) Are you happy with where you are? yes, and it's getting even better

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? I used to, but have learned that falling fast was only a quick fix to loneliness and those relationships never worked out

4) Have you ever had your heart broken? yes

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? absolutely not. cheating is an escape from reality, and the problems that caused the cheating only get worse. it's better to communicate before the cheating happens


6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you. Depends on the circumstances, but I've been taken back, so yes

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? yes


8) Do you want children? got em


9) How many?2

10) Would you consider adoption? not sure


11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? just tell me


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? game playing sucks


13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? yes


14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries?yes


15) Do you believe that you can change someone?yes


16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? lets not make it too hard or too expensive for the guests to get there..a backyard wedding would be as good as one on a beach in the caribbean. like the brides going to walk in sand in heels?

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now?yes


18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?of course


19) Have you ever broken a heart?yes


20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?been there, done that


21) What would you say about your last ex?[/quote][/b] the poor way she treated me, allowed me to realize I want to be with someone nice and sweet, instead of rich and jappy[/b]

Mach said:

To an outsider, reading the forums they would think this place is some kind of Utopian vision if love and fluffy kittens, and while there is mutual respect amongst some orgers there is also that cowarldy finger pointing rumour mill

What I find amusing is that these people will never say these things in the forums for fear of jeapordizing their poplularity/reputation. So on the surface they will be nice while behind the scenes they're sharpening their tongue on a razor blade. lol. It cracks me up. I'm all for settling disputes through orgnotes, but some of these things are not valid disputes....

there you go, my rant over

LleeLlee said:

But who really cares? It's not like the people have any real influence on your life...or at least they shouldn't. Let them talk it up.

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing? Single. And crushing.

2) Are you happy with where you are? Yes, mostly. Got a whole life of experiences ahead of me, though.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? I've never met the right person that way - sad as it sounds - so I can't really answer that properly. But I have fallen quickly for people, yes.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken? See above. But yes, sort of. Unrequited.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok? Maybe. It depends on the individual and the circumstances. I wouldn't presume to know the ins-and-outs of someone else's situation so it's hard to say. But it isn't something I'd recommend, no.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? Again, hard to say. My instinct says 'No'. But you may still be in love with them. It depends on the situation - did I have something to do with it? What was to blame? Can it be prevented again? These sort of things. I'd deal with it as I saw best. But trust is a huge thing for me - once it's lost, it's hard to get back.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? Only with assorted women asking me to marry them by the time they reach (insert age here ). Otherwise, no.

8) Do you want children? No. I want a dog.

9) How many? One, maybe two, puppies.

10) Would you consider adoption? Yes. But not right now. Probably won't happen, though.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? I'd like to see what they come up with.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? I think people think I actually do this in real life when the reality is I'm quite a shy and private person. Or I used to be. And I'm just not great at making the move on someone - even though, 9 times out of ten, when I have pulled it is always me. Honestly, no-one ever pulls me.

13) Do you believe love at first sight exists? Yes.

14) Do you believe in celebrating anniverseries? Yes - why not???

15) Do you believe that you can change someone? Yes - but why would you do that? You met that person as they were, you fell in love with that person, you should accept that person as they are. The difference is you live and grow together as a couple. Accepting each other's differences and appreciating each other's similarities. Giving space to accommodate each other in the relationship. But not by imposing your views or trying to turn your lover into someone you think they should be.

16) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object? Not sure if I want to get married but, if I did, it would be quite simple. Nothing overblown. A simple ceremony with lots of friends and people I care about to share it with. Then a massive party. That's about it.

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now?

18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't? Story of my life. Who hasn't??

19) Have you ever broken a heart? Not intentionally.

20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? Ask me if it happens.

21) What would you say about your last ex?
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