your opinions


JustErin brought up an interesting thought / topic ... she mentioned this on another thread ...

( about Kissing ) "I think it is the most personal thing you can do with someone, definitely more personal than sex, imo."

and i agree with her

now... we'd like to know your opinion on it ?

kissing involves more nerve endings then anything else you can do.

prostitutes do not kiss their clients, because it's considered an act of intimacy

I agree

I don't know... I think there can be intimate kissing and more impersonal kissing. And quite intimate sex and more impersonal sex. I guess it's about the moment, how engaged you are, the emotions, all of it.
In general, I wouldn't really categorize one more intimate than the other.

I disagree.

I would, when single, kiss lots of people but would consider sex very personal.

Not to say that kissing is not an intimate act but I find other things more intimate.

well, it's more intimate that someone sending me a walmart coupon circular in the mail, but it's not like some crazy super-personal ritual where i need to cut a hole in a pillowcase and stick my head in it before i can kiss someone. i've made out with friends before at clubs, just to be precious. you see pictures of famous rock star guys making out with each other all the time, just to be shocking. it is what it is. it's silly.

For me it depends on the person and the situation..

I totally 100 % agree.

I mean I know EVERYONE has kissed people that it wasn't all that intimate or whatever. Yanno.

But I mean, I LOVVVVVE a good kiss, an anticipated kiss especially. It rocks.

But then, BE ADULT HERE GUYS AND GIRLS..... I also feel like thee first time for uhhhhh, penetration is very intimate as well. Like the first time "its" inserted. I get the same feeling in my gutt as when we first kiss.

I think oral sex is the least intimate.

Anx said:

I agree. I love me some making out, and I just don't think it has to be or mean anything more than that.

Making out with a hot girl rules. Can't get enough of it.

kissing is most important..... if a girl can't kiss well, I'm likely to turn her away (unless I'm really smitten, but that's a long time ago..... ).

Kissing can be the trigger for anything else.....a good kiss is mostly a big GO!

CarrieMpls said:

True. If I hadn't been a gigantic penis I would have hugged ya.

abierman said:

Exactly. if she is not a good kisser it's not gonna work. She isn't likely good in bed either.

abierman said:

I agree..

I am not into kissing to just make out.

I could never kiss someone that I did not want to sleep with, but I have slept with people that I did not want to and actually did not kiss.

JustErin said:

I've had sex without kissing twice..... I won't get into it, I didn't like it and don't want that no more!
[Edited 8/14/06 13:01pm]

JustErin said:

neither am / was i

I have never had sex without kissing... I do not think.. maybe I should try that??

shanti0608 said:

don't, Val!

abierman said:

Ok.. I won't...
I will take your word for it..
I like to be more connected when I have sex I guess..

I don't know about kissing, that depends I guess....

I think oral sex is the most intimate thing you can do...there's people I'd fuck that I wouldn't give head to.

In fact, when I want to give a guy head that's when I know I'm in trouble and I could be starting to devlop serious feelings for them.

Sweeny79 said:

Spookymuffin said:

why does that make you smile?

shanti0608 said:

it's kind of like eating a hamburger without any condiments, just bun and meat. you get the basics, but it doesn't taste like too much.

Sweeny79 said:

orgnote.

I think eating someone's poo is the most personal you can get.

Sweeny79 said:

I agree with you..

Anx said:

I'm the opposite once I get going... I don't kiss much.

shanti0608 said:

I've heard guys say that more than girls tho...

Sweeny79 said:

Hmm..I've not really enjoyed giving girls head - it's not that nice, so I guess that's true. I can give guys head no problem though, but I hear girls don't like doing it.

Anx said:

Now I know I will NOT try that.. I have to have condiments..