people who really know me think tend to think i am a genuinely nice guy, while people who don't know me or casually know me think i'm an aloof bastard. that used to bother me, but now it doesn't anymore.

do you care what people think about you?

I could give a FUCK less.

if other people don't accept you, that means you're a bad person.

It depends...my neighbours or colleagues: nope!


But friends or family..i do care

Anx said:

I just go with the opinions of crazy homeless men. They're always right.

I certainly care what some people think of me, yes. People who are important to me, of course I care.

kidelrich said:

my rule of thumb is, whatever i hear giggling teenage girls say about me is usually the most accurate appraisal of my shortcomings i could hope to hear. they know things. insights. truths.

CarrieMpls said:

I like you!!

jerseykrs said:

I like you, too, jersey.

jerseykrs said:

Lame. LAME. lame.

I really don't give a shit.

kidelrich said:

awww, c'mere you.


but more importantly - I LIKE CARRIE TOO!!!!

No! Course not!

But then my innerself says, yes, you do really care..

I want to come across as a friendly understanding, caring, easy to talk to person..

I know for a FACT.. some new Orgers may be intimidated by me.. but really dont be..

(well DO!)

But sometimes if someone says something cold or hurtful in a thread, who I dont know, mostly I laugh it off and think WTF??

If its someone close to me, then its a different matter.
But the friends I DO have are so sweet and kind, they would never do that.. we always speak, so for instance if someone was pissed at me, I want and hope they say it to my face.. so it is instantly rectified.
I cant be arsed with mind games anymore.. and I know for a fact my friends I have, are friends forever

REDFEATHERS said:

i you.

it depends on who it is.

I am mildly bigoted, sexist, xenophobic and racist and the people who can not deal with that are the people I couldn't care less about how ever they felt about me

meltwithu said:

What you explained is what I get as well.

I only care what people I am close to think.

JustErin said:

I like you Erin!!

AndGodCreatedMe said:

I you too!!!! SOOO MUCH!!!! XXXX

Anx said:

I like you too, Anxy.




Alright, if I'm being honest, I probably care too much what 'people' think of me. But I'm still my own harshest critic. So there.

fuck yes. FUCK NO!!!

This thread, Jersey in particular, sickens me.

people who don't add me on myspace fucking SUCK!!!!!

jerseykrs said:

Now, the question is:

do I care?



I can't believe I am gonna do this but...

JustErin said:

Drop your front for fucking once!!

JustErin said:

Do I know you?

I guess it depends on who it is. Sometimes I actually do care- I tend to have strong opinions about things... & after I've realized that I've gone that one step too far; what sounded good in my head didn't translate as well in the open air...
Then I worry about what (certain) people thought.

(on here, I can "preview post", and edit. )

kidelrich said:

I know, I know

But I made a promise.

i think the important thing here is that people care what *I* think of *THEM*.

because really, i like to think i judge harshly yet accurately.

and everyone knows judgmental people are always right, so there's that.

Anx said:

and isn't that what really matters?