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life never ceases to be interesting... I meet this guy at my high school reunion who confesses he had a major crush on me and explains all the details, though I had no recollection of him.
We really hit it off, he comes onto me strong and invites me to a bar afterward. I am leaving with someone else and just walk out on him. Later I feel bad, look up his number on the internet and call him to apologize. I end up talking to his wife. Who says, "He's not that sensitive, believe me..." The next day, he calls me and says he'll FLY out to San Francisco (from Minnesota) next time my band has a show. Comments? | |
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Drop him like a hot brick
Insensitive and married | |
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Not to mention when he called me back, he bad-mouthed his wife saying she had been "acting like a bitch". Evidently, she was complaining because he was taking off to Spain and never home enough...
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heartbeatocean said: I meet this guy at my high school reunion who confesses he had a major crush on me and explains all the details, though I had no recollection of him.
We really hit it off, he comes onto me strong and invites me to a bar afterward. I am leaving with someone else and just walk out on him. Later I feel bad, look up his number on the internet and call him to apologize. I end up talking to his wife. Who says, "He's not that sensitive, believe me..." The next day, he calls me and says he'll FLY out to San Francisco (from Minnesota) next time my band has a show. Comments? He didn't tell you he had a wife?? Was he actually trying to pick you up? | |
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JustErin said: heartbeatocean said: I meet this guy at my high school reunion who confesses he had a major crush on me and explains all the details, though I had no recollection of him.
We really hit it off, he comes onto me strong and invites me to a bar afterward. I am leaving with someone else and just walk out on him. Later I feel bad, look up his number on the internet and call him to apologize. I end up talking to his wife. Who says, "He's not that sensitive, believe me..." The next day, he calls me and says he'll FLY out to San Francisco (from Minnesota) next time my band has a show. Comments? He didn't tell you he had a wife?? He omitted that detail, though we talked at length. He did mention he had a kid, so I suspected it, but wasn't sure. (could have been divorced) Was he actually trying to pick you up?
He made a "pass" ...hand around my waist type thing. | |
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heartbeatocean said:[quote] JustErin said: He omitted that detail, though we talked at length. He did mention he had a kid, so I suspected it, but wasn't sure. (could have been divorced) Was he actually trying to pick you up?
He made a "pass" ...hand around my waist type thing. Ok, that's just gross. Married men that even entertain the idea of cheating on their wife are disgusting. I'm glad you found out he was married before anything happened or before you actually got emotionally involved. | |
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apparently, he's still the non-existant loser you knew him as... I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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JustErin said: heartbeatocean said: He made a "pass" ...hand around my waist type thing. Ok, that's just gross. Married men that even entertain the idea of cheating on their wife are disgusting. I'm glad you found out he was married before anything happened or before you actually got emotionally involved. I know. I'm like, "what the f*** is going on?" I have to admit he really charmed me. I'm such a sucker for a bit of attention. | |
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heartbeatocean said: JustErin said: Ok, that's just gross. Married men that even entertain the idea of cheating on their wife are disgusting. I'm glad you found out he was married before anything happened or before you actually got emotionally involved. I know. I'm like, "what the f*** is going on?" I have to admit he really charmed me. I'm such a sucker for a bit of attention. That's ok. We all crave attention. The charmers are the worst!! | |
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missfee said: apparently, he's still the non-existant loser you knew him as...
I was like this straight-A student. Evidently, he was a total stoner and got expelled. Total bad boy. Smart kid though. Fast talker. | |
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JustErin said: heartbeatocean said: I know. I'm like, "what the f*** is going on?" I have to admit he really charmed me. I'm such a sucker for a bit of attention. That's ok. We all crave attention. The charmers are the worst!! Yes.. yes they are.. | |
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JustErin said: heartbeatocean said: I know. I'm like, "what the f*** is going on?" I have to admit he really charmed me. I'm such a sucker for a bit of attention. That's ok. We all crave attention. The charmers are the worst!! Ugh!!! | |
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shanti0608 said: JustErin said: That's ok. We all crave attention. The charmers are the worst!! Yes.. yes they are.. i've been told im charming... | |
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mrdespues said: shanti0608 said: Yes.. yes they are.. i've been told im charming... It's perfectly fine, if you're sincere. It's when you're taking some girl for a ride that it gets scary. | |
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heartbeatocean said: I meet this guy at my high school reunion who confesses he had a major crush on me and explains all the details, though I had no recollection of him.
We really hit it off, he comes onto me strong and invites me to a bar afterward. I am leaving with someone else and just walk out on him. Later I feel bad, look up his number on the internet and call him to apologize. I end up talking to his wife. Who says, "He's not that sensitive, believe me..." The next day, he calls me and says he'll FLY out to San Francisco (from Minnesota) next time my band has a show. Comments? tell him you'll talk to his wife about it first | |
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heartbeatocean said: mrdespues said: i've been told im charming... It's perfectly fine, if you're sincere. It's when you're taking some girl for a ride that it gets scary. .... oh ok! not that kind of ride.. yep. . [Edited 8/7/06 6:40am] | |
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Tell him you're an orger...he won't bother you anymore...I promise... | |
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heartbeatocean said: mrdespues said: i've been told im charming... It's perfectly fine, if you're sincere. It's when you're taking some girl for a ride that it gets scary. ...and single. Otherwise you are just plain gross in my books. Ok, not you as in YOU, but men who are in relationships but try to mack on girls. Did I just say "mack"? | |
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FrancerulzV99 said: Tell him you're an orger...he won't bother you anymore...I promise...
ha! | |
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JustErin said: heartbeatocean said: It's perfectly fine, if you're sincere. It's when you're taking some girl for a ride that it gets scary. ...and single. Otherwise you are just plain gross in my books. Ok, not you as in YOU, but men who are in relationships but try to mack on girls. Did I just say "mack"? yes you did | |
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mdiver said: JustErin said: ...and single. Otherwise you are just plain gross in my books. Ok, not you as in YOU, but men who are in relationships but try to mack on girls. Did I just say "mack"? yes you did So sad, aren't I? | |
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JustErin said: mdiver said: yes you did So sad, aren't I? but we all still love ya Does not change the fact that you actually said it! | |
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mrdespues said: shanti0608 said: Yes.. yes they are.. i've been told im charming... There are different types of charmers... | |
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shanti0608 said: mrdespues said: i've been told im charming... There are different types of charmers... Charming is fine as long as it's not tied in with manipulation. | |
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JustErin said: shanti0608 said: There are different types of charmers... Charming is fine as long as it's not tied in with manipulation. Exactly... I agree! | |
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Ah, the old "class reunion cliche..."
You should stop talking to that guy, methinks. Doesn't sound like the first time he's tried this stunt. | |
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Ok ewwwww! Reunions are odd at best huh? | |
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shanti0608 said: JustErin said: Charming is fine as long as it's not tied in with manipulation. Exactly... I agree! Yeah. That's what I meant. | |
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ThreadBare said: Ah, the old "class reunion cliche..."
You should stop talking to that guy, methinks. Doesn't sound like the first time he's tried this stunt. Wonder what all those trips to Spain are about. No wonder his wife is freaking out at him! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Ok ewwwww! Reunions are odd at best huh?
A very, very strange experience, indeed. It left me totally disoriented. Now to get on with my regular life! | |
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