Exes are fun!

Just keep ignoring him.

JustErin said:

You sound like my kinda girl Erin! But Im not quite there yet...

I saw my ex yesterday....fucked me up...but everyone is right there is a reason you broke up...better off without

Mrdespues and MissFee - youre both right, and seeing that you've gotten through it gives me strength to.

susannah said:

don't get me wrong. i can still get very upset about it, but there's nothing i can do to make it better and i know that talking to her will make it so much worse. best thing to do is cry it out and exercise and see good friends.



all the best, susannah...

I saw my ex yesterday....fucked me up...but everyone is right there is a reason you broke up...better off without

Aw, you guys!

Thanks everyone I was all teary in the moment there but I feel better now.

Mrdespues and MissFee - youre both right, and seeing that you've gotten through it gives me strength to. We probably did make a mistake by being friends at the time, but it seemed like the right thing to do I guess Ill know in future. I think we will be good friends in the future, but youre right, not now. It actually makes me feel cleaner, relieved to know that, kinda like we have an excuse to stop seeing each other, for the sake of it being better in years to come.

Miguel, Im glad to have you as my papa bear!

Thanks everyone else who responded, I really needed that today, and may do again in the future. You're all great

mrdespues said:

Dude, no woman is worth getting that upset about. Go find one that's better looking. There will always be another woman down the line.

susannah said:

don't get me wrong. i can still get very upset about it, but there's nothing i can do to make it better and i know that talking to her will make it so much worse. best thing to do is cry it out and exercise and see good friends.



all the best, susannah...

So, I broke up with my ex a few times over the last 18months, but finally a few months ago. We've always stayed close, and good friends. Although the last few weeks he's gone crazy! He keeps saying he hates me if I do the smallest thing I'm cool with that, I know I don't need that kind of hassle and I wont stand for it being in my life. Even if it from someone who was in love with me and could be relied upon

He's not spoken to me for a week, and ignored me completely yesterday...

So last night, I was at a friends, and about 5.30am he texts me and says "up for some meaningless sex?"



Why would I want to sleep with someone who says they hate me and ignores me, until they want sex?!

So I said "maybe if you hadnt ignored me etc..." But then he starts saying sex is all Im good for!!!





I couldnt believe that. The statement itself doesnt bother me, because I have enough self confidence and self respect to dismiss it, and because it's him who's wasted the last 4 years of his life on me if thats the case. It was just the fact that he could take the rejection so hard as to be nasty to me. He was texting me for ages! I was just like, "why are you still talking to me then?" "why are you asking me for sex if you hate me, are you really that desperate?!" I mean, I hate it when people do that, say things in the heat of the moment and be mean just for the sake of it. I always try to only say what I feel, which probably riles all my friends!

But really, Luciano, I am not a cunt, I am good for plenty more than just sex, and dont dare come running back when you realise just how much you humiliated yourself to your closest friend. Go get some self respect.

It's all just drunken rubbish, but I guess it did get to me on some level, and I just had to vent

Well that is better than having a person tell them you are the love of their lives and forever their baby, only to have meaningless sex thrown in your face ON PURPOSE!!

KARMA WILL EAT THEM ALIVE!!!!

DexMSR said:

Is there something you want to tell us?

eikonoklastes said:

U A TAD BIT LATE BROTHA!!! I SHOULD HAVE CONSULTED WITH YOU TOO:::::LOL!

DexMSR said:

Leave me out of this! That's ancient history.