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PrintableThreadBare said: Well, recent events in my life have me thinking about how the gloomy and dark periods of our lives can create really stark backdrops for rays of sunshine. I recently, amid my own gloom, encountered such a ray. A brilliant one.
And, she's a true blessing to me. Here's hoping this goes well... I'm feelin' kinda sappy. 
Share with me your tales of unexpected love and good fortune... Oh, and Spats -- making all the first steps really precludes confusion.  what a beautiful tale and i agree that the dark times are as much a blessing ... those stunning rays would be hard to see if everything was beright sunshine all the time  | |
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mrdespues said: ThreadBare said: Well, recent events in my life have me thinking about how the gloomy and dark periods of our lives can create really stark backdrops for rays of sunshine. I recently, amid my own gloom, encountered such a ray. A brilliant one.
And, she's a true blessing to me. Here's hoping this goes well... I'm feelin' kinda sappy.
Share with me your tales of unexpected love and good fortune... Oh, and Spats -- making all the first steps really precludes confusion. congrats! here's hoping it all works out dude  Thanks, man! You, too! Send the flowers to her, now.  | |
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PANDURITO said: See?
 I knew someone would take this thread about mature, fulfilling romance back to the playground, but I named this thread that way, anyway... 
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CalhounSq said: Sooooo, no more flirting or dong pics???
AWW, Thready!  That's awesome, I hope it goes well  There never were dong pics!!! Stop givin' a false impression!!!  And, stop inquiring about my lobes!!!
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Mach said: ThreadBare said: Well, recent events in my life have me thinking about how the gloomy and dark periods of our lives can create really stark backdrops for rays of sunshine. I recently, amid my own gloom, encountered such a ray. A brilliant one.
And, she's a true blessing to me. Here's hoping this goes well... I'm feelin' kinda sappy.
Share with me your tales of unexpected love and good fortune... Oh, and Spats -- making all the first steps really precludes confusion. what a beautiful tale and i agree that the dark times are as much a blessing ... those stunning rays would be hard to see if everything was beright sunshine all the time  Yup.
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ThreadBare said: Well, recent events in my life have me thinking about how the gloomy and dark periods of our lives can create really stark backdrops for rays of sunshine. I recently, amid my own gloom, encountered such a ray. A brilliant one.
And, she's a true blessing to me. Here's hoping this goes well... I'm feelin' kinda sappy.
Share with me your tales of unexpected love and good fortune... Oh, and Spats -- making all the first steps really precludes confusion. Haven't had any of those in a few years...I'm just trying to maintain... | |
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applekisses said: ThreadBare said: Well, recent events in my life have me thinking about how the gloomy and dark periods of our lives can create really stark backdrops for rays of sunshine. I recently, amid my own gloom, encountered such a ray. A brilliant one.
And, she's a true blessing to me. Here's hoping this goes well... I'm feelin' kinda sappy.
Share with me your tales of unexpected love and good fortune... Oh, and Spats -- making all the first steps really precludes confusion. Haven't had any of those in a few years...I'm just trying to maintain... Chin up, sis.  It gets better. I'm a witness. | |
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applekisses said: ThreadBare said: Well, recent events in my life have me thinking about how the gloomy and dark periods of our lives can create really stark backdrops for rays of sunshine. I recently, amid my own gloom, encountered such a ray. A brilliant one.
And, she's a true blessing to me. Here's hoping this goes well... I'm feelin' kinda sappy.
Share with me your tales of unexpected love and good fortune... Oh, and Spats -- making all the first steps really precludes confusion. Haven't had any of those in a few years...I'm just trying to maintain... I agree. It's hard to find a woman who have that affect on you. | |
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Spats said: applekisses said: Haven't had any of those in a few years...I'm just trying to maintain... I agree. It's hard to find a woman who have that affect on you. Just keep in mind that it's not necessarily about the woman being a stimulant for you. It's more about finding fulfillment in what the two of you work at honestly and respectfully. You'd be amazed at what can come from that approach. | |
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ThreadBare said: Well, recent events in my life have me thinking about how the gloomy and dark periods of our lives can create really stark backdrops for rays of sunshine. I recently, amid my own gloom, encountered such a ray. A brilliant one.
And, she's a true blessing to me. Here's hoping this goes well... I can't tell you how happy it makes me to read this! The Normal Whores Club | |
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ThreadBare said: Spats said: I agree. It's hard to find a woman who have that affect on you. Just keep in mind that it's not necessarily about the woman being a stimulant for you. It's more about finding fulfillment in what the two of you work at honestly and respectfully. You'd be amazed at what can come from that approach.
It truly is encouraging to know that there are people out there who feel and operate this way. Gives me hope. The Normal Whores Club | |
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Hey, FM!! Thanks, sis. I appreciate that! | |
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ThreadBare said: Spats said: I agree. It's hard to find a woman who have that affect on you. Just keep in mind that it's not necessarily about the woman being a stimulant for you. It's more about finding fulfillment in what the two of you work at honestly and respectfully. You'd be amazed at what can come from that approach. I know. It's hard to find good women like that. Most of the time you just have to put up with games. | |
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crazy how that happens innit?
i was going thru the same, i had had it with men, was just having fun on my own, focussing on school, building my own self confidence instead of feeding off of others...beginning to no only learn more about myself but love myself too - for the first time in 10 years... Stumbling onto this site (in search of sexy prince photos) was probably the best thing that's happened to my computer - and my life
it's a place i can come and STILL be me, and not need to hide behind an internet identity..it's comfy here i've met so many different people that i know one day before this life is over i HAVE to meet...
And thank GOD i've already met one... we were friends for a bit, chatting close to everyday about everything under the sun...very open about his life...i was too - but to an extent because something was different about him...i felt @home with him not even knowing @ this point what he looked like...and we continued to chat until he convinced me to open up more to him, as something more than just friends..and the day we finally met was... 
my life has never been the same since... it's been better... it's been fuller... and i couldn't thank the fates more...  | |
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SammiJ said: crazy how that happens innit?
i was going thru the same, i had had it with men, was just having fun on my own, focussing on school, building my own self confidence instead of feeding off of others...beginning to no only learn more about myself but love myself too - for the first time in 10 years... Stumbling onto this site (in search of sexy prince photos) was probably the best thing that's happened to my computer - and my life
it's a place i can come and STILL be me, and not need to hide behind an internet identity..it's comfy here i've met so many different people that i know one day before this life is over i HAVE to meet...
And thank GOD i've already met one... we were friends for a bit, chatting close to everyday about everything under the sun...very open about his life...i was too - but to an extent because something was different about him...i felt @home with him not even knowing @ this point what he looked like...and we continued to chat until he convinced me to open up more to him, as something more than just friends..and the day we finally met was...
my life has never been the same since... it's been better... it's been fuller... and i couldn't thank the fates more... I was Orgnoting someone about how that same process unfolded with me, too. Cool, huh?
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SammiJ said: crazy how that happens innit?
i was going thru the same, i had had it with men, was just having fun on my own, focussing on school, building my own self confidence instead of feeding off of others...beginning to no only learn more about myself but love myself too - for the first time in 10 years... Stumbling onto this site (in search of sexy prince photos) was probably the best thing that's happened to my computer - and my life
it's a place i can come and STILL be me, and not need to hide behind an internet identity..it's comfy here i've met so many different people that i know one day before this life is over i HAVE to meet...
And thank GOD i've already met one... we were friends for a bit, chatting close to everyday about everything under the sun...very open about his life...i was too - but to an extent because something was different about him...i felt @home with him not even knowing @ this point what he looked like...and we continued to chat until he convinced me to open up more to him, as something more than just friends..and the day we finally met was...
my life has never been the same since... it's been better... it's been fuller... and i couldn't thank the fates more... That's good you found that. It's hard to find women like that. | |
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Spats said: SammiJ said: crazy how that happens innit?
i was going thru the same, i had had it with men, was just having fun on my own, focussing on school, building my own self confidence instead of feeding off of others...beginning to no only learn more about myself but love myself too - for the first time in 10 years... Stumbling onto this site (in search of sexy prince photos) was probably the best thing that's happened to my computer - and my life
it's a place i can come and STILL be me, and not need to hide behind an internet identity..it's comfy here i've met so many different people that i know one day before this life is over i HAVE to meet...
And thank GOD i've already met one... we were friends for a bit, chatting close to everyday about everything under the sun...very open about his life...i was too - but to an extent because something was different about him...i felt @home with him not even knowing @ this point what he looked like...and we continued to chat until he convinced me to open up more to him, as something more than just friends..and the day we finally met was...
my life has never been the same since... it's been better... it's been fuller... and i couldn't thank the fates more... That's good you found that. It's hard to find women like that. i'm a good woman
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Spats said: SammiJ said: crazy how that happens innit?
i was going thru the same, i had had it with men, was just having fun on my own, focussing on school, building my own self confidence instead of feeding off of others...beginning to no only learn more about myself but love myself too - for the first time in 10 years... Stumbling onto this site (in search of sexy prince photos) was probably the best thing that's happened to my computer - and my life
it's a place i can come and STILL be me, and not need to hide behind an internet identity..it's comfy here i've met so many different people that i know one day before this life is over i HAVE to meet...
And thank GOD i've already met one... we were friends for a bit, chatting close to everyday about everything under the sun...very open about his life...i was too - but to an extent because something was different about him...i felt @home with him not even knowing @ this point what he looked like...and we continued to chat until he convinced me to open up more to him, as something more than just friends..and the day we finally met was...
my life has never been the same since... it's been better... it's been fuller... and i couldn't thank the fates more... That's good you found that. It's hard to find women like that. It takes time, Spats. Sometimes, I think, it takes a willingness to demonstrate your commitment to that process first. You're right: Not every woman will be interested in sharing and communicating honestly. But, I believe God sends you someone who is, once you demonstrate your willingness to operate that way. | |
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ThreadBare said: SammiJ said: crazy how that happens innit?
i was going thru the same, i had had it with men, was just having fun on my own, focussing on school, building my own self confidence instead of feeding off of others...beginning to no only learn more about myself but love myself too - for the first time in 10 years... Stumbling onto this site (in search of sexy prince photos) was probably the best thing that's happened to my computer - and my life
it's a place i can come and STILL be me, and not need to hide behind an internet identity..it's comfy here i've met so many different people that i know one day before this life is over i HAVE to meet...
And thank GOD i've already met one... we were friends for a bit, chatting close to everyday about everything under the sun...very open about his life...i was too - but to an extent because something was different about him...i felt @home with him not even knowing @ this point what he looked like...and we continued to chat until he convinced me to open up more to him, as something more than just friends..and the day we finally met was...
my life has never been the same since... it's been better... it's been fuller... and i couldn't thank the fates more... I was Orgnoting someone about how that same process unfolded with me, too. Cool, huh?
i wish you ALL the best! because it's tough, but believe me it's more than worth it
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ThreadBare said: mrdespues said: congrats! here's hoping it all works out dude Thanks, man! You, too! Send the flowers to her, now. hey good idea! that must've been what I was doing wrong all this time!  | |
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FunkMistress said: ThreadBare said: Just keep in mind that it's not necessarily about the woman being a stimulant for you. It's more about finding fulfillment in what the two of you work at honestly and respectfully. You'd be amazed at what can come from that approach.
It truly is encouraging to know that there are people out there who feel and operate this way. Gives me hope.
"Like attracts like"... that's all I know...but it works in all ways... Spats, remember that. | |
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ThreadBare said: Spats said: That's good you found that. It's hard to find women like that. It takes time, Spats. Sometimes, I think, it takes a willingness to demonstrate your commitment to that process first. You're right: Not every woman will be interested in sharing and communicating honestly. But, I believe God sends you someone who is, once you demonstrate your willingness to operate that way. The whole God sends you someone stuff is suspect. It does not work like that. That's not reality. I don't think God has been popping in on the godawful dating scene i have to involve myself in on a regular basis if i want to meet hot women. | |
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Spats said: ThreadBare said: It takes time, Spats. Sometimes, I think, it takes a willingness to demonstrate your commitment to that process first. You're right: Not every woman will be interested in sharing and communicating honestly. But, I believe God sends you someone who is, once you demonstrate your willingness to operate that way. The whole God sends you someone stuff is suspect. It does not work like that. That's not reality. I don't think God has been popping in on the godawful dating scene i have to involve myself in on a regular basis if i want to meet hot women. Invite him. That's all you gotta do. The Normal Whores Club | |
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Spats said: ThreadBare said: It takes time, Spats. Sometimes, I think, it takes a willingness to demonstrate your commitment to that process first. You're right: Not every woman will be interested in sharing and communicating honestly. But, I believe God sends you someone who is, once you demonstrate your willingness to operate that way. The whole God sends you someone stuff is suspect. It does not work like that. That's not reality. I don't think God has been popping in on the godawful dating scene i have to involve myself in on a regular basis if i want to meet hot women. Spats, man, I hear your disappointment. I know all about that, believe me. I wouldn't -- especially with a "Jesus" avvie and Bible-verses signature -- suggest God does something without reason, empirical evidence even, to back it up. My whole life is a testament to His concern and care about our personal lives. (Psalm 37:4-5) | |
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FunkMistress said: Spats said: The whole God sends you someone stuff is suspect. It does not work like that. That's not reality. I don't think God has been popping in on the godawful dating scene i have to involve myself in on a regular basis if i want to meet hot women. Invite him. That's all you gotta do. He would tell me i was on my own. He wouldn't want any part of what goes on. | |
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Spats said: FunkMistress said: Invite him. That's all you gotta do. He would tell me i was on my own. He wouldn't want any part of what goes on. 
As we speak it, so we create it. In my experience. The Normal Whores Club | |
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 Congrats Thready B!!!
 "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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FunkMistress said: Spats said: He would tell me i was on my own. He wouldn't want any part of what goes on.
As we speak it, so we create it. In my experience. I don't know what you mean. | |
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All the best Thready Heart songs are so fun to sing 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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ThreadCula said: Congrats Thready B!!!
Thanks, Thready C! | |
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