sextonseven said:

Look I have nothing personal against black men or anything. I'm cool with everybody and appreciate uniqueness in all colors, cultures...I just don't feel like I can relate to most of them. To be honest I am kinda wary of them...also I find alot of them, expecially those who date mostly white women, are very insecure and defensive. They kinda remind me of my father in that regard...if someone didn't like him it was because he was a foreigner or because he wasn't "white" it was always an excuse with him. Ridiculous. I think alot of them struggle with a "self-hate" thing and when they go after white or mixed girls I can't help but wonder what their motivations are. I don't mean to generalize but this has been mostly my experience with black guys. But that is not to say I've never found a black man attractive or wouldn't date one, obviously a person's personal history has a lot to do how they end up not just cultural upbringing..the individual person is what makes them attractive to me...men really are not that diffrent. I've had plenty of crushes on black guys growing up but I didn't see them as black guys, I just really liked who they were as people and enjoyed being around them. It kinda gets on my nerves honestly when I see white women go ga ga over black guys...I understand those women completley having a strong astethic attraction to black guys that that is fine, my mother is one of those white ladies, she just loved the look of men of color but the ones who get so caught up in race are annoying. Do you like him for who he is or do you just want to be seen with a black guy?

I love people of all races and colors though...many different types of men are attractive to me. Men are men.

Krystal666 said:

You know, alotta white girls say they have big butts and they really don't. I think were gonna need photo evidence.

lilgish said:

pardonme4livin said:

I LIKE BIG BUTTS AND I CANNOT LIE....




















.....but u betta not have a big stomach!

Krystal666 said:

jk

Big butts are cool, I just think of sir mix alot everytime someone brings up the subject. But I would rather have big butts and nice legs than a large upstairs, Plus I think about the back problems those poor Double D girls will have when the get past their 30,s.

The most appauling thing on this thread may be that Cosmo has decided to break this old news about 2 years too late - when's the last time anyone talked about Jennifer Hopez lately?

Such bullshit, how many Black women were in the public eye with their big asses before these two heffas hit? Come on, the media picks who & what they wanna pick. It's pretty sickening, like a cult of geeks waiting to see what the cool celebrity kids are doing so they can pine away for it

And if I see one more lipgloss that plumps your fucking lips I'm gonna shove it up some salesperson's ass




It's a beautiful day outside... bye y'all



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Whatever, some white women want full lips and big asses and some black women want straight blonde hair and a size 0 bod.

I can't see why anyone would care either way.

Cosmo sucks.

CalhounSq said:

But I want some. I have the tiniest upper lip on the planet and I HATE it.

But yeah, I know what you mean. If its not one thing, its another. 'Beauty' is a billion dollar industry. They make sooooo much money off of us feeling badly about the way we look.

But I still wish I had nicer, kissier lips.

CalhounSq said:

i you. preach it!

CarrieMpls said:

most people who complain about having a small upper lip actually look better that way than with a plumper upper lip.

it's the truth. look at melanie griffith (sp?)

JasmineFire said:

Hahaha!!

Sooooo true!! You ain't foolin' anyone Mel!!

JustErin said:

You're probably right.
But I still wish I had juicier lips. I can't help it. I'm a sucker for all of that crap.

Krystal666 said:

WOW.

sextonseven said:

and i'm sayin...

CarrieMpls said:

girl don't worry about that. it really doesnt matter. all that matters is what you can do with them

brownsugar said:

and my paper thins know how to win

SammiJ said:

omg!!! I don't even wanna hear it! You've got lovely lips!

Mine are like tiny itty bitty skinny little worms.

fantasyislander said:

You wanna add sumphin' lil lady?

CarrieMpls said:

they only LOOK big in the avatar not only because that's all u see, but because of the makeup i had on

but i even get teased about it from the boyfriend i've always wanted lips like jill scott or erykah badu...big luscious lips...but i got stuck with my mom's lips
so i got a long schnoz and thin lips...which is what im the least happy about

i love your lips! they suit u very well Ms. Org Hottie - o - Month

SammiJ said:

awww...


I really don't think about them ever until someone brings it up. An ex used to tease me about it too, that I gave tiny little kisses. Which I suppose can be cute in its own way. And it was.

CarrieMpls said:

chris says the same thing!
i try to purse my lips as much as possible whenever i kiss (within reason of not looking like a bafoon) to give the illusion that i have bigger lips

and i'm always biting @ them to get them to swell...i'd never go under the knife, i just gotta live with'em

TO THIN LIPS!!!

SammiJ said:

You're beautiful Sammi.

Fauxie said:

brownsugar said:

(Raises hand to see what Brownie means and if she'll demonstrate on me )

Well I suppose a no ass havin no lip havin cracker like me has no buisiness on this thread!

I love full lips on women. When you get kissed by a girl with full lips you feel like you have been really kissed.

CarrieMpls said:

But that's the thing - nobody cared about lips until mags started making a big deal about Angelina Jolie Everyone was FINE w/ their lips!! Now you can barely find a lipgloss that doesn't plump - it's just odd, these little phenomenons they come up with