Byron said:

The only time i ever recall saying something was when there was some woman in a bridesmaid outfit and i said it looked silly or something. I didn't knock the woman's looks that i recall.

abierman said:

I was just going by what i saw. her face looked oily.

Spats said:

like I said, it was a hot evening last week.

alright spats. give me an answer. you have two choices:

a) post a picture. many means available to you to accomplish this..... accept the help of byron or erin, scan a photo and post it. or actually mail me a copy and i'll do the work for you.

b) shut the hell up about pictures in general. if you don't have the balls to post one then you can't be giving anyone else any shit about the pictures they've posted.

so what's it gonna be? like i said, put up or shut up. simple as that.

and i can guarantee you that any excuse you come up with i'll have an answer to resolve it.

abierman said:

Oh please you were both gorgeous in the pic .. Spats is just jealous his babe won't be photographed with him...

abierman said:

Sorry- double post..
[Edited 8/2/06 12:01pm]

shanti0608 said:

The babe got a stranger to take our picture at harbourfront. One of those cosy couple shots. WHY??? It was silly. Why do women like to do that stuff. Well she better save it in her digital because i am not doing that again.

fantasyislander said:

A woman trying to tell me what to do.

I don't respond to this stuff from women in my real life nevermind internet women. You've got spunk though.I like that.

Spats said:

oh my GOD!!! you have got to be kidding me!!!!

ok fine. will a MAN please ask spats the same thing i just did??

spats you are such a big pussy. You can’t even come up with a good excuse so you fall back on the old stereotypes which you SAY you are all about breaking….. but I guess that’s only when it’s to YOUR benefit.

Well, now everyone can see through your transparent macho piggishness and see you for the asshole you truly are.

Have a great time with “the babe” and give betty my regards

Spats said:

I am sure she would be smart enough to figure out how to post the picture here on the org..

[Edited 8/2/06 12:52pm]

fantasyislander said:

I am an asshole because i won't take orders from you? Give me a break.

shanti0608 said:

Val, you're making me warm.

shanti0608 said:

I am gonna get a hold of her digital the next time we are out and pretend i want to take pictures and i am gonna accidently delete the pic. I hope she has not developed it already and is showing girlfriends, or has it tacked to her fridge or at work. Good lord.

TMPletz said:

Spats said:

i'm not ordering you. and you're a pussy. you keep coming up with excuses NOT to post a picture of yourself, and when no excuse is available you just say i'm "ordering" you and you won't accept orders from a woman.

and yet, your whole motto is about breaking down the 1950s stereotypes. guess when you come up against a REAL WOMAN that will actually do this you turn your tail and run.

Spats said:

Too late. She's already posted it on the internet.

fantasyislander said:

If a guy had posted the same thing i wouldn't have responded either.

Spats said:

because you're a pussy. fair enough. that's fine. you don't want to post pics of yourself. but if you're too chicken to post a picture you can't go ragging on anyone else who has posted a picture.

like i said, put up or shut up. you didn't put up, now you have to shut up. get it? or is that still too complicated for your neanderthal brain to understand?

fantasyislander said:

I was not ragging on anyone. I told the guy if he posted a pic of him and his woman i would post a pic. He never did. That's the story.

Spats said:

he posted a pic of himself. now you post a pic of yourself.

and be sure to hold your hand up... we want to get a good view of betty.

fantasyislander said:

No pic of his woman though.

"Anticipation. Anticipation
Is making me late
Is keeping me waiting."

Spats said:

you haven't even posted a picture of yourself yet!! you can't go demanding something from him until you've at least done the same he has!! post a picture of yourself, then you can try to up the ante. my god, haven't you ever played poker??

what a child.

Spats said:

OMG you mysoginistic (sp) motherfucker
[Edited 8/2/06 16:58pm]

I have never in my entire life heard,seen or posted against a bigger pussy than this peice of .....well you know what i mean. Thank fuck you can't get laid. At least that way there will never be perpetuated the fucked up warp minded viewpoint that is "sacktime". You even got called out by fantasy.....one of the girls you wanted on your "roadtrip" It scares me that people with such inability to understand, learn or relate are out there .....i mean ....what are you....some kind of a psychologists project or what? You have trouble even working a PC or scanner and yet you are allowed to vote!!! OMFG .....
All you see is what pleases you...what you want or what makes Spats happy.....kids stop doing that at about 4-6...they realise that their actions affect others....i guess mommy never taught you that....FFS, maybe we should blame her....i mean goddamn....what kind of a warped motherfucker are you?

Its all about you.....


I would actually respect you if you actually put up...but you dont...you just whine like a bitch about how no-one else does anything or how the rules are fucked up....what are you Nelson Mandela????? At least what he fought about we all agreed with!

I have crushed more than you under my shoe on a hot summer night.....

I sort of thought you were an interesting side line.....but you are not...you are another piece of dross floating on the sea of life...a sad and very lonely person.

Ijust hope that one day a light will go on.....and the haze will be lifted.....life will appear...and you will see.

We can dream.

I actually wish you would accept my offer...i am serious i will pay for you to fly here....get out...learn.....but you won't...you live life scared.... afraid that youmay be wrong....trust me you are.....29 years old and no hope.....its actually sad.....really sad.... I am glad you are no child of mine....failure would stare me in the face everyday.....

Sleep well.....alone.....

mdiver said:

I agree with all you have said, but the guy might seriously have a problem, you know. Actually he reminds me of some people I have known with Asperger's Syndrome, which is a mild form of autism; the primary symptom of which is an inability to relate or connect to people on an emotional level.

It's incredibly common in this day and age... so, maybe it's best to be kind to the potentially unwell and/or afflicted?



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[Edited 8/2/06 17:24pm]

mdiver said:

OMG!!! i SOOOOO co-sign this post!!!

mrdespues said:

Actually you may be right...my other half works with 16-19yr olds with that i will ask her