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Guys, why do U get so mad when your yelling at your girlfriend, wife, kids or whoever and they start laughing at you? Does this make you even more outraged? Why? Is it because you realize your acting like an idiot in the first place? Or is it cause you don't know your acting like an idiot, and can't understand why the persons laughing? | |
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I have known Michael ( TR my husband ) 20 yrs and not once has he ever raised his voice or yelled at anyone I could not spend my life with another that feels need to yell or raise their voice to be heard | |
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i hate it when i get yelled at
it's like a trigger that starts me bawling... *sensitive like that* | |
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I cant stand yelling men, it just makes me want to puke! | |
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I've got a very short fuse ... it would usually be at the pathetic little tasks that take up so much time and emotional energy to fix afterwards. Most of my anger comes out destruction of personal property or angry work just cuz it's the best way to calm down when there is no other alternative left.
Oh, this thread was for the guys, my bad. | |
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Real men don't yell Wer ist dort? Unterbrechende Kuh. Unterbrech... Muh!!! | |
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LleeLlee said: I cant stand yelling men, it just makes me want to puke!
I was trying to think if i knew any .. yes i knew a few in my teens and before i turned 21 i can not think of any men in my life or that i spend time around that yell or raise their voice ... EXCEPT cheering at spots events | |
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Mach said: LleeLlee said: I cant stand yelling men, it just makes me want to puke!
I was trying to think if i knew any .. yes i knew a few in my teens and before i turned 21 i can not think of any men in my life or that i spend time around that yell or raise their voice ... EXCEPT cheering at spots events Even that's gay Wer ist dort? Unterbrechende Kuh. Unterbrech... Muh!!! | |
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GaryTheNoTrashCougar said: Mach said: I was trying to think if i knew any .. yes i knew a few in my teens and before i turned 21 i can not think of any men in my life or that i spend time around that yell or raise their voice ... EXCEPT cheering at spots events Even that's gay | |
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LleeLlee said: I cant stand yelling men, it just makes me want to puke!
Does Yelling at your football/basketball team count? Sometimes you gotta yell at those little knuckleheads! Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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slicksight said: I've got a very short fuse ... it would usually be at the pathetic little tasks that take up so much time and emotional energy to fix afterwards. Most of my anger comes out destruction of personal property or angry work just cuz it's the best way to calm down when there is no other alternative left.
Oh, this thread was for the guys, my bad. Okay, your one of THEM!!! Do you get even more flip outish if the person your yelling at or around smirks or starts laughing. [Edited 7/29/06 17:13pm] | |
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ok well the question is
why are you lauging or smiling? it would get me mad if someone was laughing or smiling without verbalizing why if it is to void my reasons of getting mad, and basically saying that my reasons mean nothing, then yes i too would start yelling if its to calm me down and see things a lil more clearly, then verbalize it, laughing isn't always the smartest thing to do in such a situation unless you're verbalizing it... maybe that's where your problem lies... | |
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Mach said: LleeLlee said: I cant stand yelling men, it just makes me want to puke!
I was trying to think if i knew any .. yes i knew a few in my teens and before i turned 21 i can not think of any men in my life or that i spend time around that yell or raise their voice ... EXCEPT cheering at spots events That's cool Mach. | |
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karmatornado said: LleeLlee said: I cant stand yelling men, it just makes me want to puke!
Does Yelling at your football/basketball team count? Sometimes you gotta yell at those little knuckleheads! no, I dont mind comedy yelling. | |
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LleeLlee said: Mach said: I was trying to think if i knew any .. yes i knew a few in my teens and before i turned 21 i can not think of any men in my life or that i spend time around that yell or raise their voice ... EXCEPT cheering at spots events That's cool Mach. it's a dang good thing really ... i'd prolly just kill them if they did | |
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I'm a yeller.
However, I have been known to bust out laughing when my ex wife was yelling at ME. | |
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SammiJ said: ok well the question is
why are you lauging or smiling? it would get me mad if someone was laughing or smiling without verbalizing why if it is to void my reasons of getting mad, and basically saying that my reasons mean nothing, then yes i too would start yelling if its to calm me down and see things a lil more clearly, then verbalize it, laughing isn't always the smartest thing to do in such a situation unless you're verbalizing it... maybe that's where your problem lies... good points sammi ...i thought of this too though i wasnt sure if luv was just asking a random question or if she is sharing an experience she had / has | |
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GaryTheNoTrashCougar said: Real men don't yell
Really? Never met one of them before. | |
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Mach said: SammiJ said: ok well the question is
why are you lauging or smiling? it would get me mad if someone was laughing or smiling without verbalizing why if it is to void my reasons of getting mad, and basically saying that my reasons mean nothing, then yes i too would start yelling if its to calm me down and see things a lil more clearly, then verbalize it, laughing isn't always the smartest thing to do in such a situation unless you're verbalizing it... maybe that's where your problem lies... good points sammi ...i thought of this too though i wasnt sure if luv was just asking a random question or if she is sharing an experience she had / has thanks | |
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SammiJ said: ok well the question is
why are you lauging or smiling? it would get me mad if someone was laughing or smiling without verbalizing why if it is to void my reasons of getting mad, and basically saying that my reasons mean nothing, then yes i too would start yelling if its to calm me down and see things a lil more clearly, then verbalize it, laughing isn't always the smartest thing to do in such a situation unless you're verbalizing it... maybe that's where your problem lies... Well just because the person looks like a goofball turning all red and waving their arms around and screaming over something very stupis. I laugh. | |
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Mach said: LleeLlee said: That's cool Mach. it's a dang good thing really ... i'd prolly just kill them if they did | |
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luv4all7 said: GaryTheNoTrashCougar said: Real men don't yell
Really? Never met one of them before. You never will, just like Chuck Norris they strike without warning Wer ist dort? Unterbrechende Kuh. Unterbrech... Muh!!! | |
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luv4all7 said: SammiJ said: ok well the question is
why are you lauging or smiling? it would get me mad if someone was laughing or smiling without verbalizing why if it is to void my reasons of getting mad, and basically saying that my reasons mean nothing, then yes i too would start yelling if its to calm me down and see things a lil more clearly, then verbalize it, laughing isn't always the smartest thing to do in such a situation unless you're verbalizing it... maybe that's where your problem lies... Well just because the person looks like a goofball turning all red and waving their arms around and screaming over something very stupis. I laugh. well there you go you're a firestarter and u know it u need to verbalize things instead of just sitting there and laughing it might make matters better... u dont want to give the poor guy a stroke and again, its not just guys that do it i'd be pissed to... | |
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SammiJ said: luv4all7 said: Well just because the person looks like a goofball turning all red and waving their arms around and screaming over something very stupis. I laugh. well there you go you're a firestarter and u know it u need to verbalize things instead of just sitting there and laughing it might make matters better... u dont want to give the poor guy a stroke and again, its not just guys that do it i'd be pissed to... It's not like being mean laughing though, it's like when you have a substitute teacher and shes yelling cuz all the kids are making an ass out of her and you giggle type laughing. | |
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luv4all7 said: when your yelling at your girlfriend, wife, kids or whoever and they start laughing at you? Does this make you even more outraged? Why? Is it because you realize your acting like an idiot in the first place? Or is it cause you don't know your acting like an idiot, and can't understand why the persons laughing?
My guess is that they think it's disrespectful. If someone is yelling at me, I just walk away. I don't have time for that shit. Come back to me when you can discuss the problem in a calm, rational manner. If you can't do that, that's your problem not mine...don't even attempt to make it mine. Yeehaw! | |
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luv4all7 said: SammiJ said: well there you go you're a firestarter and u know it u need to verbalize things instead of just sitting there and laughing it might make matters better... u dont want to give the poor guy a stroke and again, its not just guys that do it i'd be pissed to... It's not like being mean laughing though, it's like when you have a substitute teacher and shes yelling cuz all the kids are making an ass out of her and you giggle type laughing. well let the person know so he doesnt think you're being insincere, surely you don't think he already knows what you're thinking? | |
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SammiJ said: luv4all7 said: It's not like being mean laughing though, it's like when you have a substitute teacher and shes yelling cuz all the kids are making an ass out of her and you giggle type laughing. well let the person know so he doesnt think you're being insincere, surely you don't think he already knows what you're thinking? Mmmmmm, I honestly don't know. | |
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JustErin said: luv4all7 said: when your yelling at your girlfriend, wife, kids or whoever and they start laughing at you? Does this make you even more outraged? Why? Is it because you realize your acting like an idiot in the first place? Or is it cause you don't know your acting like an idiot, and can't understand why the persons laughing?
My guess is that they think it's disrespectful. If someone is yelling at me, I just walk away. I don't have time for that shit. Come back to me when you can discuss the problem in a calm, rational manner. If you can't do that, that's your problem not mine...don't even attempt to make it mine. Yeehaw! Yeah, I have to start doing that I think. Your pretty level headed for such a slut face. | |
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luv4all7 said: SammiJ said: well let the person know so he doesnt think you're being insincere, surely you don't think he already knows what you're thinking? Mmmmmm, I honestly don't know. well chances are, he doesn't so while you are giggling, try to explain why people can't just figure out why others do what they do... | |
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SammiJ said: luv4all7 said: It's not like being mean laughing though, it's like when you have a substitute teacher and shes yelling cuz all the kids are making an ass out of her and you giggle type laughing. well let the person know so he doesnt think you're being insincere, surely you don't think he already knows what you're thinking? I understand BUT he's an adult and if he's going to stand there screaming then he needs to know its not on to do that, laughing is one way of letting him know. There are other ways, yell back even louder till his ear drums pop, or walk away. First you need to deal with the hysterical yelling before you get to the actual arguement, dont you think? ... [Edited 7/29/06 17:53pm] | |
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