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PrintableEmotions said: DiscoballStallion said: I don't hate anybody. I would only lock the bad ones out of pride. How do you determine a bad one? The ones like my ex. When I met him I was under the impression that he was completely gay. Then he told me that he used to be married and he has 2 kids, which didn't bother me. I know plenty of gay people who have kids and who used to be married. I just thought the he "found" himself and that he realized he was completely gay. Then he cheats on me with some chick. The exact reason why I didn't want to be involved with a bisexual in the first place, but I didn't think he was bi at all. Then I found out that he is. So that kinda had me pissed a little bit. So now he's dating a guy again. But a couple weeks ago he was telling my co-worker how he wants to fuck her female best friend. It's confused bitches like that I can't stand. I know plenty of cool as bisexual people though. So I don't have anything against all of them. You know, just the ones who can't make up their mind or don't know what they want and drag other people into that bullshit. [Edited 7/27/06 23:37pm]  Lance is SO a bottom  | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: How do you determine a bad one? The ones like my ex. When I met him I was under the impression that he was completely gay. Then he told me that he used to be married and he has 2 kids, which didn't bother me. I know plenty of gay people who have kids and who used to be married. I just thought the he "found" himself and that he realized he was completely gay. Then he cheats on me with some chick. The exact reason why I didn't want to be involved with a bisexual in the first place, but I didn't think he was bi at all. Then I found out that he is. So that kinda had me pissed a little bit. So now he's dating a guy again. But a couple weeks ago he was telling my co-worker how he wants to fuck her female best friend. It's confused bitches like that I can't stand. I know plenty of cool as bisexual people though. So I don't have anything against all of them. You know, just the ones who can't make up their mind or don't know what they want and drag other people into that bullshit. [Edited 7/27/06 23:37pm] He's not confused You were under the impression he was gay. I'm guessing he never said "I'm 100% gay" | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: what do you think being "queer" means? It doesn't mean "bisexual"  | |
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Emotions said: DiscoballStallion said: The ones like my ex. When I met him I was under the impression that he was completely gay. Then he told me that he used to be married and he has 2 kids, which didn't bother me. I know plenty of gay people who have kids and who used to be married. I just thought the he "found" himself and that he realized he was completely gay. Then he cheats on me with some chick. The exact reason why I didn't want to be involved with a bisexual in the first place, but I didn't think he was bi at all. Then I found out that he is. So that kinda had me pissed a little bit. So now he's dating a guy again. But a couple weeks ago he was telling my co-worker how he wants to fuck her female best friend. It's confused bitches like that I can't stand. I know plenty of cool as bisexual people though. So I don't have anything against all of them. You know, just the ones who can't make up their mind or don't know what they want and drag other people into that bullshit. [Edited 7/27/06 23:37pm] He's not confused You were under the impression he was gay. I'm guessing he never said "I'm 100% gay" Oh he's confused alright. If you knew him like I did, you'd see that too. It didn't matter to me if he was 100% gay or not. I even convinced myself that. I loved him so much it didn't even matter. And then he goes and does that shit to me. And I even asked him if he was completely gay and he said "yes" and I left it at that, even though he would still talk about chicks all the time. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: He's not confused You were under the impression he was gay. I'm guessing he never said "I'm 100% gay" Oh he's confused alright. If you knew him like I did, you'd see that too. It didn't matter to me if he was 100% gay or not. I even convinced myself that. I loved him so much it didn't even matter. And then he goes and does that shit to me. And I even asked him if he was completely gay and he said "yes" and I left it at that, even though he would still talk about chicks all the time. So, you are basing your perception of an entire group of people by your experience with one guy? | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: He's not confused You were under the impression he was gay. I'm guessing he never said "I'm 100% gay" Oh he's confused alright. If you knew him like I did, you'd see that too. It didn't matter to me if he was 100% gay or not. I even convinced myself that. I loved him so much it didn't even matter. And then he goes and does that shit to me. And I even asked him if he was completely gay and he said "yes" and I left it at that, even though he would still talk about chicks all the time. well, he's just messed up. Has nothing to do with being bisexual. He needs to talk to someone about his behavior | |
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Nikster said: DiscoballStallion said: Oh he's confused alright. If you knew him like I did, you'd see that too. It didn't matter to me if he was 100% gay or not. I even convinced myself that. I loved him so much it didn't even matter. And then he goes and does that shit to me. And I even asked him if he was completely gay and he said "yes" and I left it at that, even though he would still talk about chicks all the time. So, you are basing your perception of an entire group of people by your experience with one guy? I KNEW someone was gonnas say that! It was just a matter of seeing who would first. No, i'm not doing that at all. Though, it'll be a long time before and a matter of desperation before I date another one. And once AGAIN, one of my threads have turned into a "Why Does Lonnie Hate Bisexuals?" thread, which wasn't its intended purpose. Since I can't get an honest answer to my initial question, I think that it's safe to assume that there isn't one. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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Emotions said: DiscoballStallion said: Oh he's confused alright. If you knew him like I did, you'd see that too. It didn't matter to me if he was 100% gay or not. I even convinced myself that. I loved him so much it didn't even matter. And then he goes and does that shit to me. And I even asked him if he was completely gay and he said "yes" and I left it at that, even though he would still talk about chicks all the time. well, he's just messed up. Has nothing to do with being bisexual. He needs to talk to someone about his behavior You can be jacked-in-the-head regardless of youe sexual orientation. | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Nikster said: So, you are basing your perception of an entire group of people by your experience with one guy? I KNEW someone was gonnas say that! It was just a matter of seeing who would first. No, i'm not doing that at all. Though, it'll be a long time before and a matter of desperation before I date another one. And once AGAIN, one of my threads have turned into a "Why Does Lonnie Hate Bisexuals?" thread, which wasn't its intended purpose. Since I can't get an honest answer to my initial question, I think that it's safe to assume that there isn't one. I thought I gave an honest answer. The experience of an average homosexual are not majorly different than a bisexual's. Bisexuals don't have it easier. Step outside the box. You seemed trapped in you homoness | |
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Nikster said: Emotions said: well, he's just messed up. Has nothing to do with being bisexual. He needs to talk to someone about his behavior You can be jacked-in-the-head regardless of youe sexual orientation. People in general who are jacked in the head don't jump between genders though. Or maybe he's ANOTHER sexual orientation: Whore. [Edited 7/27/06 23:50pm] Lance is SO a bottom | |
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Emotions said: DiscoballStallion said: I KNEW someone was gonnas say that! It was just a matter of seeing who would first. No, i'm not doing that at all. Though, it'll be a long time before and a matter of desperation before I date another one. And once AGAIN, one of my threads have turned into a "Why Does Lonnie Hate Bisexuals?" thread, which wasn't its intended purpose. Since I can't get an honest answer to my initial question, I think that it's safe to assume that there isn't one. I thought I gave an honest answer. The experience of an average homosexual are not majorly different than a bisexual's. Bisexuals don't have it easier. Step outside the box. You seemed trapped in you homoness 
I'm not even going to dignify that with a response. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Nikster said: You can be jacked-in-the-head regardless of youe sexual orientation. People in general who are jacked in the head don't jump between genders though. Or maybe he's ANOTHER sexual orientation: Whore. [Edited 7/27/06 23:50pm] Jumping genders has nothing to do with him cheating. Cheating is cheating. Don't blame his bisexuality on it | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: I thought I gave an honest answer. The experience of an average homosexual are not majorly different than a bisexual's. Bisexuals don't have it easier. Step outside the box. You seemed trapped in you homoness
I'm not even going to dignify that with a response. Believe what you want, but it's attitudes like yours that keep bi's in the closet | |
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Emotions said: DiscoballStallion said: People in general who are jacked in the head don't jump between genders though. Or maybe he's ANOTHER sexual orientation: Whore. [Edited 7/27/06 23:50pm] Jumping genders has nothing to do with him cheating. Cheating is cheating. Don't blame his bisexuality on it I didn't say he cheated because he's bisexual. I thought(silly me) with him being gay, If he would cheat on me, it'd be with another guy, and not a chick. That's saying something. Or maybe it's a compliment. Maybe I was the only desirable male in his life, and if he was gonna cheat on me with someone, it'd have to be a chick because he couldn't have sex with any man unless it was me. Yes, that's my story and i'm sticky to it. I'm still hurt nonetheless. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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I never had problems coming out as a bisexual. I just told my friends, and they said: "Oh alright... that's cool."
I recently told my mom, out of the blue, and she didn't even blink with her eyes. So sorry to hear you had a hard time coming out. I wish people would just accept others for who they are, not for their likes and dislikes.  | |
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... oh and I totally understand why gay men or women have it harder. I would expect it to be harder as well. Being bisexual makes less difference (if you want to call it something "different", I mean... as long as it is love4oneanother right  )
Just stay who you are. | |
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billyjackbitch said: ... oh and I totally understand why gay men or women have it harder. I would expect it to be harder as well. Being bisexual makes less difference (if you want to call it something "different", I mean... as long as it is love4oneanother right
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Just stay who you are. So you're still alive. Wasn't it you that got your life threatened in a thread here not long ago?  | |
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Not to compare or anything, but
as a mono-sexual, I've got it pretty hard. I'm horny & my girlfriend won't give me any. So I have to rely on my mono.   | |
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DiscoballStallion said: alexnevermind319 said: I happen to believe that anyone coming out in any form tends to be hard. Your brought up and believed to be straight by your parents. When you decide to tell them that your either bi or gay, you are breaking the image that they have of you. That is hard on both the person coming out and the parents. I do believe that society is coming up in the thinking process of this. Society in general is more accepting of gays & bi's than they were 10 years ago.
 I understand that but still... Society doesn't look down on bisexuals as they do with us, yet they still think they have it as hard as we do. Bullshit. Are they trying to prove something? 
You seriously believe that? You fucking kill me!  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: Glad you recognize that, but a lot of people on both sides of the fence have ill-will towards bisexuals. You believe your experience (or coming) is/was harder, but honestly you don't know that Have you ever heard of someone being beat up or kicked out their home or being fired for being bisexual? Yes. Haven't you? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: what do you think being "queer" means? It doesn't mean "bisexual" Oh yeah? So what's the "B" in LGBT stand for? "But DiscoballStallion is always right"? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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A person's experience with coming out has everything to do with their own psychological strength and the people and environment surrounding them. Whether someone is gay or bi or trans or intergendered is secondary. I'm sorry your mom behaved so poorly towards you, but her reaction is not a solid basis for assuming you have it harder than another sexual minority. I'm also sorry that your ex fucked you around like that, but chances are he'd have slept around and treated you like that even if he had been fully gay. Cheating is cheating, the crotch accessories shouldn't be a factor in a person's reaction to it.
As a whole bisexuals have to go through the same experiences gays do -including being denied/losing a job or housing, losing parental rights of biological children, being beaten up or killed because of who they are. But on top of that we also have to deal with gay and straight people that look down on us, that think we're on the fence, confused, or greedy. I am no whore just because what appeals to me is broader than what appeals to you. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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DiscoballStallion said: Emotions said: Glad you recognize that, but a lot of people on both sides of the fence have ill-will towards bisexuals. You believe your experience (or coming) is/was harder, but honestly you don't know that Have you ever heard of someone being beat up or kicked out their home or being fired for being bisexual? Have you ever heard of gaybashers standing around with a clipboard asking their victims where they rate on the kinsey scale before commencing with a beatdown? | |
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meow85 said: DiscoballStallion said: It doesn't mean "bisexual" Oh yeah? So what's the "B" in LGBT stand for? "But DiscoballStallion is always right"? | |
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Anx said: DiscoballStallion said: Have you ever heard of someone being beat up or kicked out their home or being fired for being bisexual? Have you ever heard of gaybashers standing around with a clipboard asking their victims where they rate on the kinsey scale before commencing with a beatdown? What are you? a six!    
What are you? Two point Five! Oh, we'll just take your wallet then. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: DiscoballStallion said: I understand that but still... Society doesn't look down on bisexuals as they do with us, yet they still think they have it as hard as we do. Bullshit. Are they trying to prove something?
You seriously believe that? You fucking kill me! Come on now. Don't disagree with me on that just for the sake of disagreeing. We both know that shit is true to the core. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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Emotions said: DiscoballStallion said:
I'm not even going to dignify that with a response. Believe what you want, but it's attitudes like yours that keep bi's in the closet oh for the love of jeff...wow. a glass closet. but I don't keep anyone in the closet. In fact, I encourage coming out. I'm one recruit short of a toaster oven. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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meow85 said: DiscoballStallion said: Have you ever heard of someone being beat up or kicked out their home or being fired for being bisexual? Yes. Haven't you? NEVER. My PrideFest is this Saturday. I'll make it a point to ask around and report back to ya'll on this because it's new to me. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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meow85 said: DiscoballStallion said: It doesn't mean "bisexual" Oh yeah? So what's the "B" in LGBT stand for? "But DiscoballStallion is always right"? I don't think anyone on here was questioning that  I sure the hell wasn't. Lance is SO a bottom | |
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DiscoballStallion said: meow85 said:
You seriously believe that? You fucking kill me! Come on now. Don't disagree with me on that just for the sake of disagreeing. We both know that shit is true to the core. Don't you get it? With YOUR attitude you are looking down on bi's too. | |
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