Wow...
I've been called an asshole and spoken down to.
Yet, I still don't have an answer to my question.
Why do I even bother....

DiscoballStallion said:

funny you thought i was calling you an asshole when i wasn't referring to you at all.

should i have been?

Anx said:

Then who were you calling an asshole?
You know what? Fuck this thread. I don't even care anymore.

This shit is priceless!

DiscoballStallion said:

mdiver said:

Tell me about it. I should just change my username to "AttackMeInMyOwnThreads"
More oy-ness.

DiscoballStallion said:

Who is attacking you?? You stated your POV and so has everyone else. No one has personally attacked you.

JustErin said:

Well no one's answering my question. If you're not going to, then how about you shut up. I didn't make a thread to argue. No one else stated their point of view, they're just disagreeing with mine.

I happen to believe that anyone coming out in any form tends to be hard. Your brought up and believed to be straight by your parents. When you decide to tell them that your either bi or gay, you are breaking the image that they have of you. That is hard on both the person coming out and the parents. I do believe that society is coming up in the thinking process of this. Society in general is more accepting of gays & bi's than they were 10 years ago.

DiscoballStallion said:

You're a bundle of joy, aren't you?

No one is even arguing. You just seem to be having a fit because this thread isn't going the exact way you want it to.

It's a public thread, open to all to post. If you don't like the responses you are getting, log off.

I mean geez, give it a little time, someone will eventually answer your question.

DiscoballStallion said:

so if someone else's point of view isn't in line with yours, then it's just arguing?

i know someone who's like you, only when people disagree with him, he says they hate freedom.

alexnevermind319 said:

I understand that but still...
Society doesn't look down on bisexuals as they do with us, yet they still think they have it as hard as we do. Bullshit. Are they trying to prove something?

DiscoballStallion said:

WHY are you talking on behalf of bisexuals when you aren't one? I'm not either, so I don't presume to know what they feel/think.
[Edited 7/27/06 8:27am]

onenitealone said:

Then YOU can shut up to.
You're not answering my question. And I'm not talking about what they "feel" or "think" since we know they don't do that. And they haven't done it ever since they came from France. I know a huge part of the bisexual community, and I'm speaking in general about them. They think they have it just as hard coming out as bi as a gay person does when they don't. I just want to know why they think that. Apparently, I'm on the wrong website. Usually the bi's are crawling up, down, left, right out the woodwork, but when I call them out, they're nowhere to be found.

onenitealone said:

i used to know a bisexual but i was never awake when he came out to feed at night. bis are cool though. i like the capes they wear. they're like the amish - i wish i knew where they bought their clothes.

Let's take that part of the conversation out of his thread, since he doesn't want it in here.

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/197041
[Edited 7/27/06 8:36am]

DiscoballStallion said:

So, let me get this straight. This question is aimed solely at bisexual people?? Okay. Everyone - unless you go both ways - off this thread at once.


Yes, I may not be one but I don't make sweeping statements and then act like the sky is falling in when somebody disagrees with me.

Maybe you should lay off the drink - it makes you aggressive.

onenitealone said:[quote]

DiscoballStallion said:

Yes it is. Read the thread title. That should be a dead giveaway. And not all people who "go both ways" label themselves as bisexuals, but that's a COMPLETELY different thread and even I'm not going there.




I'm not making a sweeping statement at all. If this wasn't the truth, I wouldn't have brought it up.

DiscoballStallion said:[quote]

onenitealone said:

A truth to whom? You? You speak for everyone?

I go home soon - I can't wait to come in tomorrow and see all the Orgers agreeing with you. Man, I'm going to feel sooo foolish. Silly me.



Listen, I'm not being funny or anything with you. So no hard feelings, I hope. But if you cannot see why your comments cause so much grief well - good luck to you.
[Edited 7/27/06 8:45am]

onenitealone said:

I'm not asking anyone to agree with me.

DiscoballStallion said:

no, you're telling us to.

Anx said:

Exactly. and ya'll are being hard headed as usual.
Actually, I didn't say "Bisexuals think they have it rough as gay people, but they're wrong, and ya'll should agree with me."

i think because most people see bisexual as gay. they know what it means, but part of the bisexuality is in fact being with the same sex. so in their minds it = only gay. people want to pigeonhole you. there's no way you can be black & white. you're only this or that. there's no such thing as bisexual. you are gay. that is what they choose to see and believe. how dare you like vanilla AND chocolate ice cream. so regardless of one's sexual preference, society will only see the part that they consider negative. so coming out as bisexual is or can be just as difficult as if you were gay.



i wonder if straight children hve to come out to their two mommies or daddies.

CHIC0 said:

Not really the answer I was looking for, but I'll accept it for now.

Anyone in the realm of queerdom has it hard when it comes to coming out, whether the are L, B, G, or T

Emotions said:

But aren't bisexuals only coming halfway out, or "in the closet with a window"? I'm assuming you're one by your avatar.

DiscoballStallion said:

in the closet with a window No. I think bisexuals have it harder because they are not accepted by gays or straights. Everyone thinks they're liers, promiscuous, unfaithful, etc. Many bisexuals are deep in the closet

Emotions said:

People are like that despite they're sexual orientation. Some of them are "confused" though..Like my ex.

DiscoballStallion said:

Glad you recognize that, but a lot of people on both sides of the fence have ill-will towards bisexuals. You believe your experience (or coming) is/was harder, but honestly you don't know that

Emotions said:

Have you ever heard of someone being beat up or kicked out their home or being fired for being bisexual?