Okay so say U had a sis or bro in law that U normally couldn't stand just cuz they're annoying. They're nice n all, they just get on your nerves.

Would U confide in them if they seemed genuinley concerned and like they care about U, or would U be wary?

Is blood thicker than water? (Not literally)

Hell no. Don't confide SHIT with them.

No, not unless I was sure I could trust them, which would probably require me to not find them annoying.

I'd ask them what I'd gain by letting them into something new

Tell us what it is you want to confide first so we can better help you.

I tried to be cool with my sister in law until I found out the bitch was nuts! Whenever she got mad at me for not jumping to speak with her, she told her brother (my son's father) lies and he would want to fight with me. I am at work and this fool calls me tripping about God knows what. Now, any future relationships including In Laws will be dealt with minimal words and lots of distance. The first sign of disrespect will get them cut off! Sometimes blood is thicker.

2the9s said:

Ok, that giggling is really starting to unnerve me.

Fauxie said:

ShySlantedEye1 said:

Hmmmmm

jerseykrs said:

oh, ok. I guess it's nice really.

ShySlantedEye1 said:

i'm gonna have to agree. but i guess it depends on whether or not other's are closer to inlaws instead of your own family for whatever reason. but one thing i've learned is in my experience is that no matter how wrong your ex is, they will always, always side with him/her. always. thats something i wont ever forget. so keep 'em at a arms length and do whats best for you.
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So like if they come to U bad mouthing their brother and sayin' what an ass he is blah blah, its better to say nothing?

luv4all7 said:

ShySlantedEye1 said:

Would U take their advice?

luv4all7 said:

Depending on what it is.

So U think No matter WHAT, don't trust them. Even if THEY are the ones opening the topic for conversation?

luv4all7 said:

keep your comments to yourself. they just might use them against you later on. damn i sound paranoid

brownsugar said:

No it's okay U don't sound paranoid. I just don't wanna go trusting someone I shouldn't.

Awesome, Thanks!

luv4all7 said:

Take everything with a grain of salt. If you know your husband tells his siblings stuff, just keep in the back of your mind why they are just willing to share all this stuff with you. Find out intent and then make your own decision. But don't tell them shit. "John likes chocolate cake and football." Okay, I might believe this since they grew up together and know his habits. I'd quiz hubby first on a few things before taking anything to heart. Nonchalant is key. Don't want a riff between hubby and fam or you and hubby.

ShySlantedEye1 said:

Awesome, Thanks!