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PrintableWe had fun but no sacktime tonight. I was hoping this weekend was going to be even better than last weekend. Not so far. | |
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XxAxX said: Spats said: Either i get bored or they become clingy. Right now everything is fine with the babe. But if i start getting phonecalls every single day where she is wondering what i am doing or where i am. Or expectations start to increase, etc,. Then i am moving on. I have seen it with my buddies. Everything is fine at first. The women don't mind his habits and routines etc, etc. But as time goes on the women change and they start to try and change the guy and what he likes to do and who he likes to do it with. It's sad. [Edited 7/27/06 21:15pm] hmm. i noticed this too. as a matter of fact guys do that to gals, too. but here's my theory on that: there's different types of love. real love is where you just can't help yourself. you just... love that person. just because they exist. then, there's other types of love which are more like reflective loves. you don't love that person, you love the way they make you feel. so, it's a kind of selfish love where you only matter to that other person insofar as you fit into their expectations. i agere that kind of crap freaks things up wise words my favorite bird  | |
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XxAxX said: Spats said: Either i get bored or they become clingy. Right now everything is fine with the babe. But if i start getting phonecalls every single day where she is wondering what i am doing or where i am. Or expectations start to increase, etc,. Then i am moving on. I have seen it with my buddies. Everything is fine at first. The women don't mind his habits and routines etc, etc. But as time goes on the women change and they start to try and change the guy and what he likes to do and who he likes to do it with. It's sad. [Edited 7/27/06 21:15pm] hmm. i noticed this too. as a matter of fact guys do that to gals, too. but here's my theory on that: there's different types of love. real love is where you just can't help yourself. you just... love that person. just because they exist. then, there's other types of love which are more like reflective loves. you don't love that person, you love the way they make you feel. so, it's a kind of selfish love where you only matter to that other person insofar as you fit into their expectations. i agere that kind of crap freaks things up It's very hard to find women really worth loving. I have only been in love once. That's why I go with the these lust relationships. They are a lot easier to find. Looking for a woman to love is too damn hard because there isn't much to choose from. I find so many annoying things in most women i meet and get to know. That's why i have been as patient as i have with this girl because i like her and she has not really annoyed me yet or turned me off. This isn't going to be a long term relationship but i want to have fun with her while i can. Some sacktime this weekend would help things. Hope, Hope. | |
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Spats said: XxAxX said: hmm. i noticed this too. as a matter of fact guys do that to gals, too. but here's my theory on that: there's different types of love. real love is where you just can't help yourself. you just... love that person. just because they exist. then, there's other types of love which are more like reflective loves. you don't love that person, you love the way they make you feel. so, it's a kind of selfish love where you only matter to that other person insofar as you fit into their expectations. i agere that kind of crap freaks things up It's very hard to find women really worth loving. I have only been in love once. That's why I go with the these lust relationships. They are a lot easier to find. Looking for a woman to love is too damn hard because there isn't much to choose from. I find so many annoying things in most women i meet and get to know. That's why i have been as patient as i have with this girl because i like her and she has not really annoyed me yet or turned me off. This isn't going to be a long term relationship but i want to have fun with her while i can. Some sacktime this weekend would help things. Hope, Hope. Not to freak you out or anything but remember your inability to deal with all things downtown will be a disapointment for the girl. You will have to up your game in other areas of sacktime to compensate - no pressure!  [Edited 7/29/06 0:46am] | |
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