I picked the babe up, took her out for something to eat and paid for it, paid for the popcorn and drinks, enjoyed Pirates, asked if she wanted to go to harbourfront tomorrow to see some live music and have good food (she said yes) and dropped her off at home.

Jesus H Christ, Losing your dignity and compromising your principles is f**king exhausting.

How do you other guys do this shit on a regular basis without blowing your brains out???

Spats said:

I think regular sex helps

Spats said:

I'm think you really must be homosexual and unwilling to accept it.

Taking girls out for their company is what real men do.

Lets see...?

You take a girl out, and you don't enjoy yourself, you come and bitch about it, maybe you are homosexual.

MickG said:

I do enjoy her company and want to nail her but i don't like taking charge of everything. I am behaving like a damn hypocrite all because i am honry and want sacktime.

Spats said:

Maybe your dad never explanied it to you. You Date. Date alot. One of them girls, will end up being a girl you don't mind being around just to be around. And then you will be able to have "sacktime" for the rest of your life.

MickG said:

I don't want to have sacktime with just one girl for the rest of my life. I want to have sacktime with many different girls for the rest of my life.

Spats said:

why?

do you even have an idea of what that is?

Let me tell it to you this way son. I'd rather eat Steak every night then a buffitt from a trashcan.

MickG said:

Because i like variety. I like change. After awhile i want something new. That's not bad.

Spats said:

People are all about change. I've got change and I've got love, and it is all from the same woman.

MickG said:

I am talking about change in looks, variety in looks, new faces.

Is sex all that women are good for, for you, Spats?

It doesn't sound like you enjoy non-sexual interaction with women. Neither does it sound like you expect women to particularly enjoy sex or respect those who do.

What prompts such extreme dislike of women in you? Do you think women should like you?

Do you think you're worthy of a woman's love?

Spats said:

I married a brunet, she's now blond, her face isn't that of the girl I met.

P.S.

You titled this thread "i'm drained", but that is a falicy.

You've expressed your interest in being drained, but you are not drained.

Me however, I am drained.

MickG said:

No it isn't. It's older.

Spats said:

That's perspective. It's more womanly. I'm not a homosexual. I Like Women.

ThreadBare said:

I like talking with women and the babe. Depending on what we are talking about.I didn't like the talk i had with her the other day where she wanted to clear the air about the things. That was not fun. And as long as they don't talk to much. I mean the girls that only talk about themselves and who believe there should be no silence or pauses. I don't know ho many times a girl has been talking non stop and then has the nerve to say.. "You don't talk much do you?" Good grief.

I definately want them to enjoy themselves in the sack because if they aren't it is not gonna much fun. Just no stupid behavior.

I don't have an extreme dislike for women. Do i think i am worthy of their love? I could care less if they love me or not. I haven't been in love with most of my girlfriends. Just lust. I haven't met many women that are worthy of my love.

MickG said:

Believe what you want.

Spats said:

I'd rather believe you are a homosexual then a pedophile. Being that the last comment was about "the looks of woman" as they mature, for one second I thought "spats is a pedophile", but I wouldn't want to think that about anyone.

Spats said:

I think you could successfully run for public office.

MickG said:

And people say my views are warped.

Oh one thing i forgot. I mentioned once to her how i liked how it looked when she wore her hair in ponytail. (I have a thing for that. ) and after that she has been wearing her hair like that most of time when we are out. Including tonight. Interesting.

Spats said:

Yes, isn't that nice? She's doing it for you.

MickG said:

Blame it on the karma

MickG said:

It's a real turn on. She has a great neck. (I am popping a boner just thinking about it) She's probably doing it thinking it will spur me on to make a move.
[Edited 7/15/06 0:45am]

Spats said:

Maybe she just wants to please you. Isn't it nice when another human would care for you in such a way as they would want to do something to fetch your approvial?

I really hate the word sacktime - and it's connotations. You what? Oh, you dip your scrotum into women's vaginas for an unconfirmed period of time. LOVELY.

Oh, and if you don't enjoy doing shit like that then what's the point in even trying. Despite my rampantly chauvenistic views from being at an all-boys school, even I enjoy taking girls out.

Spats said:

There's this thing about love that compels us to give of ourselves -- without an agenda or a desire to manipulate. It's one of the gifts of giving love. You do because you love.

I hope you get a real revelation about love soon.

MickG said:

Yes, it is nice. But i am hoping she is doing it because she wants to get to sacktime quicker.

Spats said:

Unlikely my friend. Women don't think with that hole between their legs. Why? Because it's a hole, it doesn't have it's own head like our willies do.

...and if it does, it's too small to think - what do they call that thing again, oh yeah the "clitororroroororis" or something anyway, it's a myth.