Ew.
3.
2 ended in engagements.
1 in marriage.
I suck!

Umm...

I dated a guy in highschool for 3 years... wonder if that counts?

If it does than 3, if not than one less.

althom said:

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Only one which lasted 10 years. but its looking like the one i'm in now is getting serious.

2.....both went up in flames

Spats said:

We're talking about more than just some sacktime. That makes your answer "zero".

For me, one. It's been continuing for 16 years.

I don't need a serious relationship in my life. Just complicates things and handcuffs you.

Holy double post, Batman!
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Spats said:

That's fine with me. I like to be handcuffed.
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TMPletz said:

Yes. A serious relationship involves putting up with crap. I don't do that.

TMPletz said:

Don't ever forget how blessed you are!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Why is having a very long relationship looked at as good?

Spats said:

Because it means I've found the love of my life and wouldn't want to spend it with anyone else. I've found bliss with her.

Spats said:

Because we are human beings.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

You bet!

Spats said:

It's not just the length, it's the joy he expresses when he talks about it.
Many of us are looking for a life partner. Some are not. It's fine either way, no matter what it is you want.

TMPletz said:

Uh-Huh. Anyways, You could be missing out on something better out there. There is always something better out there. I would always wonder what i was missing out on and it would drive me crazy.

Spats said:

Spats said:

if you keep thinkin your gonna miss something your gonna end up like one of those old men who think they can still hang out in the club

brownsugar said:

But what if i missed out on something great and better than what i had?

Spats said:

The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence but just remember, you need to fertilize the hell ouf of a beautiful yard. And we all know what fertilizer is made of....

Spats said:

As long as we're both happy and content, who gives a shit? If I wondered about missing out, then there would obviously be something wrong with the relationship to put me in that state of mind.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

AMEN!

and as Brighteyes says "I'd rather be working for a paycheck, than waiting to win the lottery."

3.....


M

3

1st one = 5+ yrs til he cheated and lied
2nd one = 3+ yrs til he cheated lied and broke my ribs

3rd one 20 + yrs and growing stronger with each passing day

Mach said:

OK, I'm sworn off violence but I need to know where that second asshole lives so he can get a beatdown!

"Serious" in the sense that I expected them to last indefinately? 3, including my current one.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

bring your bat my friend

in all seriousnes though

i invested faith in Karma ...

she paid of BIG time on that guy

we still speak ( 2-4 times a yr )

he cant seem to figure out why his life sucks so much and so often ( see he never really changed much )


so...there it is

Mach said:

For me it has been 2
1st one = 6 years (not enough words to say what went wrong there..)
2nd one = maybe 10 years if we make it to Aug 16th..have been in limbo-that is how it lasted so long..

I am hoping the 3rd one will be a charm..
Those other 2 were just practice for the REAL thing..
Doesn't hurt to hope & dream- right?


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