papaa said:

Spats said:

every girl is different. that's why a smart man keeps his eyes open and looks for it.... they don't just wait for someone to jump their bones. b/c unless you're living life in a porno, that just ain't gonna happen.

fantasyislander said:

But signs like what? And then I can recall if she is done any of them.

It would be so much easier if she just came out and said it.

Spats said:

geez man, you already mentioned her wearing her hair in a ponytail for you... it could be a look she gives you, positioning her body in a "kiss me" pose, touching your hand or arm in a certain way, sitting closer to you... there's a million more. like i said, it all depends on the girl. she could be giving you "come take me" signals all over the place and wondering what your problem is. take your head out of your butt, open your eyes, and then be a man and do something!

or, i could be wrong, and maybe she doesn't even like you that much. personally, unless you put on a complete facade in real life i can't see what she could possibly see in you.

Spats said:

Some girls are bold to do that .
The key in your situation obviously = subtle :

- The fact that she asked your friend if you still we're interested in her and called you back after the first date .

- The ponytail , cause she paid attention to what you like about her , and obviously wanting to please you .

- Subtle touches on the knee or shoulder , like when she's talking with you or laughing about a subject you're both having fun about .

- When she's waving her hair in a more seductive but still subtle way .

- A clear difference of her make-up ( on which she took effort ) than maybe another time when you saw her without that specific mascara of the actual date .

- Subtle signs in the conversation and ofcourse the shine in her eyes .
The look that clearly tells : " i really like you and want to be closer "

lilgish said:

I just hope he is not one of those men who think she needs to look like a supermodel to look hot in a bikini while he looks like an average white boy.. I do not like double standards...

Of coarse we all have our deal breakers...
for me if I found out a guy was not the least bit intersted at all in oral sex.. that would be a deal breaker for me.. hey- maybe I am shallow after all..

shanti0608 said:

He's said in the past that he considers himself average.


So, you're saying it would be a good thing to like oral sex with you?

TMPletz said:[quote]

shanti0608 said:

fantasyislander said:

What is with this "be a man" stuff again. A guy who does not make a move is not a man????

She's touched me tons of times, sat close to me. But what's with All this hinting stuff. Why don't women just get aggressive and drop the hinting crap?

100MPH said:

She's done the touching, the hair, etc,etc. I don't want subtle. I want her to tell me what she wants or show me what she wants. All this hinting crap is not good enough.
[Edited 7/18/06 20:38pm]

Spats said:

some women are hinters. they should be with a man who makes the move. some women are movers. they should be with a man who drops hints. i guess she's not your type. give up and move along.

fantasyislander said:

No women here have got that aggressive with a guy?

Just make a move man

i am soooo laughin at "sacktime"

Spats said:

Of course, but usually only when I know 100% that the guy is really into me and wants it too.

Women do not like to be rejected either...I sure as hell don't.

You're so gonna blow this Just promise you'll post word for word when she tells you to fuck off???

fantasyislander said:

I agree. Then restart and repeat ad infinitum, or at least until lonely old age.

CalhounSq said:

if only it was on a reality tv show. 'Sacktime' would be a huge catchphrase tho

Spats said:

Dude , just make that fucking move or your coldshowers will be a daily routine .
You can crave what you want for her to make the move but clearly that ain't the case and her patience eventually will reach it's limit .
Just do it or move on , like said above .
Life's too short like you stated yourself .

Fauxie said:

Spats said:

Sacktime with just the one girl is great - Especially after you been at it a few years - You learn more about each other and what you both like then the sex gets better and better until you can write your own personal Kama Sutra book.....Much more enjoyable than Wham Bam thank you Mam.....

CalhounSq said:

If anything she is blowing this.

100MPH said:

I will decide over the next couple of days. Looks like we will be spending most of the weekend together. I was gonna be hanging out with some buddies but they said that if i want sacktime soon i better be spending the weekend with her instead. Now they are pushing me to give in. I haven't made the move in awhile. With most of my ex girlfriends the hard to get routine worked and i didn't have to.

Spats said:

Are you currently pointing at your Genitals ?????

purpledisc said:

He doesn't like giving or receiving oral. I doubt it.

purpledisc said:

You're forgetting that Spatula can't connect on a human/emotional/caring level, aren't you

Spats said:

if it makes you feel good to think that you go right ahead and think that.

guys, spats is really opening up to us.....the kid is fucking clueless! He actually believes that a ticket to a pirates-movie and a bucket of popcorn will get him 'sacktime'.....




really spats, in all those months that you've been trying, I've.....aw, nevermind!

abierman said:

not only does he think it should get him some... but he thinks she's going to jump him!!

abierman said:

... actually dressed up like a pirate, taken a gaggle of girls on some flashy boat and laid all of them, doing sex acts that involved a bucket of popcorn?