TMPletz said:

Yeah, but i am not turned on by a girl who does not look good in a bikini. It means she does not have a very good body.

TMPletz said:

Yeah, but i am not turned on by a girl who does not look good in a bikini. It means she does not have a very good body.

Spats said:

How long in life do you think you can continue thinking and behaving the way that you do? You think you're not getting enough sacktime now, just wait and see how things are for you in 10 years... 20 years.... You're running on a short clock, man. Your ideal woman is not even going to give you the time of day in those years to come.

TMPletz said:

Why?

Spats said:

Dude...aw fuck it all. I'm going to bed.

TMPletz said:

Maybe like other people my standards will go into the crapper and i will settle for big asses or bellies or sagging boobies. But not right now. I want the best i can get. Life is too short.

Spats said:

There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want and GOING FOR IT!!!

shanti0608 said:

Is that supposed to be a hint? Ya know, maybe if i get horny enough i will bring the babe home , pick her up and carry her into the bedroom. But right now she is gonna have to make the move. I have done a lot of compromising already.

There's also nothing wrong with knowing what you and waiting for them to go for you.

Spats said:

Then why do you keep whining about it??

shanti0608 said:

I am talking about me.

Spats said:

I know what you are saying.. sorry, I am not picking on you.. you just seem like you are whining and not willing to do anything real about it..

shanti0608 said:

It would defeat the whole purpose if i tried to do anything about it. I want her to.

Spats said:

And if she doesn't, will you cave in and make the move, or will you give up on her and move on?

I would have moved on a long time ago. Waiting around is not my style.

You must either have it bad for her, or you have zero other options...and that must suck.

JustErin said:

I like her a lot but i also don't have any girls better looking than her lined up.

P_R_I_D_E

angelfishseven said:

Right at this moment i don't know. I am losing patience as well as my dignity. My desire for sacktime is at war with my principles.

shanti0608 said:

is the greatest of all sins.

(the wrong kind of pride, that is)

P_R_I_D_E

Spats said:

Why do you think you're losing your dignity and compromising your principles? You'd like to have us believe you're just a straight-forward guy who naturally wants a girl to be attractive and suited to your physical preferences, but all this speaks far more about you than it does any girl. Girls are girls are girls. They can differ in several ways, but there is a way it all generally works and you just don't seem compatible with it. There are issues here beyond you just wanting a particular type of girl physically who will make the first move. I don't understand why you even think that making a move, after all this time, on a girl you are clearly attracted to, would cause you to lose your dignity. What are you so afraid of?

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shanti0608 said:

I have too much or not enough?

mrdespues said:

Damn- I am drained too- bed time..
Maybe when I get up in the morning the answers to Spats' saga will be clearer...
[Edited 7/17/06 22:06pm]

so to you spats, making the move means basically jumping your bones, right? what if she's been making "moves" but not the ones you've been looking for? have you ever thought of the fact that you may be so dense that you've been missing all the "moves" she's been making? there's more to making a move than just pushing you against a wall and kissing you. i mean, come on, get some imagination.

fantasyislander said:

Well women are not very good at telling or showing the guy that they want sacktime so maybe i have missed something. But that would be her fault not mine. I am not a mind reader. I want to be pushed up against the wall or jumped on.

TMPletz said:

It's true, if a woman does not look good in a bikini then she does not have a good body. You don't want to be embarrassed to go to the beach or a pool with your girlfriend.

Spats said:

women aren't good at telling or showing?? maybe you're just too dense to pick up on it. i mean, if you're looking for her to push you up against the wall... which you say you are.... then you are too ignorant to notice the other signs. i believe it's your own damn fault you haven't gotten any "sacktime" with this girl. she's probably been dropping the signs and making moves all over the place and you're too stupid to pick up on it.

why don't you do her a favor and just move on?