btw, I see you don't mean drained of jism..

Spats, you do know that you are making us men look reallly bad.

Please post a pic to make me forget about this.

Me and the babe had a pretty cool weekend. She looked really hot. A great thing about the really hot weather is that women wear as little as possible. On Saturday we went down to the lakefront and saw live music and ate. (Again i paid for it all). People were getting up and dancing including her. She tried to get me up but i didn't. But she is a great dancer. I thought i was gonna have to cool myself off in the lake. I took a long cold shower when i got home. i think we are gonna go again next weekend.

Yesterday, we went to one of my buddies places because he has a pool so i got to see her in a bikini for the first time. That alone made my day.

Once again though we are stuck when it comes to getting physical. We haven't even made out yet because she is obviously waiting for me to make that move and i am waiting for her to do it. Is it that hard for a woman to even make the move on kissing?? It's 2006!!!!! Since i have been taking her out these last couple times I think it's her turn and she should make a move and get this over with instead of me having to take cold showers. I have done some giving in and compromising principles. I would like a big reward for that.

Why because i want the women to get up off their ass and do something?

Maybe she is not sure how to read you or you are sending her mixed signals or maybe she is not your type..

I would think if she really liked you- she would have made a move by now..

Please post a pic to make me forget about this.

Why would she? most women don't. I don't think i am giving her mixed signals. Hell that was why we had that talk. She wanted to know if i was interested in her not. And i told her yes.

I don't know then... I guess she is different..
When I like a man- he usually knows it..Straight up!

Does she know you do not like oral sex?
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If your girlfriend does not look good in a bikini then what's the point in continuing.

Jesus Christ, how much more shallow can you get?

It's true, if a woman does not look good in a bikini then she does not have a good body. You don't want to be embarrassed to go to the beach or a pool with your girlfriend.

We have not talked about that stuff. We haven't even made out yet. I have never been involved in a situation like this before. With my ex girlfriends we had already had sacktime by now. I guess the babe is sticking to her guns that i am gonna have be the one to make the move. That's not good.

so you just wanna flaunt her

It's true, if a woman does not look good in a bikini then she does not have a good body. You don't want to be embarrassed to go to the beach or a pool with your girlfriend.

I don't know then... I guess she is different..
When I like a man- he usually knows it..Straight up!

Does she know you do not like oral sex?
[Edited 7/17/06 19:51pm]

so you just wanna flaunt her

We have not talked about that stuff. We haven't even made out yet. I have never been involved in a situation like this before. With my ex girlfriends we had already had sacktime by now. I guess the babe is sticking to her guns that i am gonna have be the one to make the move. That's not good.

I won't lie, if feels good to be out with a good looking woman. You don't want people looking and thinking,,, "She has no business wearing a bikini". And it's a turn off.

I won't lie, if feels good to be out with a good looking woman. You don't want people looking and thinking,,, "She has no business wearing a bikini". And it's a turn off.

I won't lie, if feels good to be out with a good looking woman. You don't want people looking and thinking,,, "She has no business wearing a bikini". And it's a turn off.