superspaceboy said:

kidelrich said:

not necessarily so. I think many are mad at the Dating culture and hate the way straight guys act towards them. They also don't like the way other girls are around them especially the prettier ones that vie for guys attn and get it before they do.

CarrieMpls said:

right! my best friend is a self-professed "fruit fly" and she's had an amazing boyfriend for the past eight years or so, and he loves hanging out with the gays too. he's kind of a male fruit fly by default.

even when my gal-pal was single, she was dating a lot, but she also really enjoyed running around with the gay boys. she said it was because she grew up with a bunch of brothers, so she likes hanging out with guys without having to worry about getting hit on or ogled or whatever...unless that's what she's after.

meanwhile, i think a fag-hag is someone who is so in love with the "gayness" of gay men that they think of their friendships as relationships, and can kind of manipulate a kind of co-dependency that's weirdly girlfriendish without it getting sexual. i've been in that situation before. it was weird and gross.

Aee, your best friend had an awesoem guy then. I have had relationships ruined over my friendship with gay guys, just cuz the punks were so lame!

So like, there are girls that treat the friendships like relationships, you mean?

superspaceboy said:

It's true that if I want male attention, I just haveta walk into a gay bar. It's flattering and sweet and completely harmless at the same time.

luv4all7 said:

i ain't ace, but i'm flattered by the mistake!

yeah, my best friend's boyfriend is cool. he's about 1,000% heterosexual, but he's just so relaxed with who he is that he's able to enjoy other people for who they are. his best friend is queer as a catfart and they've been buddies since high school. it's just a very relaxed atmosphere with them, socially...the way it SHOULD be, i think.

Anx said:

Haha, typo.
That's really cool!
Most guys are so f'in clueless it's pathetic!

luv4all7 said:

luv4all7 said:

It's because we are awesome and we treat them like human beings, unlike their boyfriends and husbands

I have learned something new today... I thought this thread was gonna talk about how to keep pests away from your produce

Then again, maybe it is

Let's get down to the truth. The ONLY reason straight women hang around gay men is because they think that the man is so "perfect" for them so they hang around them under the illusion that one day the man will "snap out" of his gayness and she's the first person he runs to, or this his "gayness" is just a phase, or hoping for that one drunken night. Point Blank.

CalhounSq said:

I can't take it!

DiscoballStallion said:

Well I can't speak for anyone else, but I've never felt that way.

I dunno, just because I'm gay and one of my friends happens to be a female, doesn't mean she's a "fruit fly" or a "fag hag", she's just one of my friends. I don't like calling people names like that because it kind of implies they're not really a true friend, they're some kind of pseudo-aquaintance.

The only time I would use "hag" when referring to someone would be if she's getting on my nerves with the whole "I Love Gay People!" routine, and I'm trying to drop a hint for her to stop it.

DiscoballStallion said:

I don't think so. yes, many of them come to love us but I think it's because we are safe and treat them like women, like humans instead of objects.

DiscoballStallion said:

That's the biggest bunch of bull I've ever heard.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Rite like your not gonna slip ruffies in our drink!

DiscoballStallion said:

There's also gay men that are convinced any straight man can be had if they get them drunk enough and keep talking dirty to them.

CarrieMpls said:

Please motherfucker, Please!!!
It's the damn truth. I'm not speaking on all women though. And i'm not necessarily speaking for myself, even though it has happened to me. Chicks try talking to me and I tell them I'm strictly dickly, either they COMPLETELY don't believe me, or say "Well, maybe you haven't found the right girl yet." or "A little pussy will clear that right up" or some dumb shit. And it's annoying. Dismissing my sexuality as nothing just because I won't get with them. It's highly annoying and why I prefer to hang around lesbians who don't want anything from me.

Tom said:

Yeah, there are also straight guys who think just cuz a guys gay, he want HIM!

DiscoballStallion said:

Hm, yeah I could see how that would be annoying. Well that would be a hag then rite?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Well, GBS/GSK loves to make narrow proclamations and sweeping generalizations so that we'll disagree with him and he can get offended and pissy.

And we love him for it.

DiscoballStallion said:

You're hilarious, dude. I'm not saying that hasn't happened to you, and yeah, that's lame. But just cause you've encountered a few impolite women doesn't mean:

Tom said:

I am NOT one of those gays. There are enough gay men to go around without me having to resort to breeders.

Wow, this discussion is flaming.

luv4all7 said:

The best hags are fat and moderately attractive women. Gay men have that "she's the coolest bitch in the world but even if I was the last straight man on earth I STILL wouldn't hit that"mindset and she has that "She's the coolest bitch in the world, but even if he was the last man on earth he wouldn't hit this mindset." That's how me and my hag were. Well, she's more than a hag. We were best friends WAY before I came out and we just have a cool ass friendship. I don't want her and she doesn't want me. The way it should be.

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DiscoballStallion said:

I said I wasn't generalizing. But there are a lot of women like that. Let's be real.

DiscoballStallion said:

yeah, SOME women. not ALL. not even MOST. not even a LOT. let's not overgeneralize. it's like a female saying the only reason gay guys hang out with straight women is so they can sneak in a snatchie treat under the radar or some nonsense.

Anx said:

Come the fuck on now. There are a lot of women like that. And by saying "a lot" there is no way I'm overgeneralizing. I didn't say "most" or "every" woman. But there is a huge number who deep down think like that. I bet they wouldn't admit it though.
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DiscoballStallion said:

I think it's far, far fewer than you want to believe. From personal experience, I'm truly not sexually attracted to gay men in general and I know very few women who are. Not to say there aren't ever any exceptions, as we can all appreciate a nice looking man walking down the street, but the second I find out a man is gay it's like a defense mechanism or something, cause it totally turns me off.