There is this guy, he is an annoying terd who only talks about his truck and being drunk. Yes that is all, and I mean it. Anyway he just can't get the hint that I really don't like him, and I have been told that I come across as too harsh when I tell people I don't like them.

Okay still with me?

And I have this girl who I am seeing, not too serious, but more than dating. Anyway he sends me a text on my phone saying they are hanging out at the neighborhood pub.

So how do I get rid of him with out coming across as an arsehole to her?

Go hang out with them both at the pub and suffer through it...then when you and this girl are alone, find a way to bring up how you feel about this guy's presence, and do it in a nice way. You may find out that she feels the same...and then whatever steps you take afterwards will already be prefaced with the convo you and she had previously...

actionthisday said:

Invite him to meet you out in a area where there will be no people so that you might drink beers and talk about trucks. Drink a beer with him. When you are finished ask if he will grab you another out the cooler. When he bends down to get your beer. Bash him in the head a couple of times, make sure he's dead. Burry him where someone isn't likely to find him. that should solve your problems.

MickG said: