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How Do I Handle This Bit of Girl Trouble? I have a friend who was really flirty with me at an Oasis concert last fall. She messed around with me a little(hugging, some kisses, little bit of dirty talk, hand holding), but nothing ever really came of it. Then in February, we were supposed to see another concert together. I emailed her and asked if she wanted to do it and she said "sure". Then she didn't reply to two emails after that and I wasn't able to go(I couldn't drive at that time). I actually had a backup plan with a friend's sister that fell through because I made an extra effort to get in touch with Oasis Girl. So I dropped her from my myspace page and lost her phone number.
Last night, I stopped by my old job to see a friend, and she basically ran over to me and gave me a big hug. Later she stopped by the hookah bar and was getting all cozy with me, like she always does--lots of little touches and things. It was kind of nice because I've been stuck at home for months, but I was also wondering if I was a pussy because I didn't yell at her. I know for a fact--from another friend who i completely trust--that Oasis Girl took off from work and said it was to see the show with me. But that's not what she actually did. Should I just let it go and not really involve myself with her? Or tell her how upset I was? I want to the do the latter, but to be honest, people don't seem to like it when I give them the unvarnished truth. I think they just like me to be funny and go along with their bullshit. Maybe it's easier just to not really worry about her anymore. Any ideas? | |
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moderatorkidelrich said: I have a friend who was really flirty with me at an Oasis concert last fall. She messed around with me a little(hugging, some kisses, little bit of dirty talk, hand holding), but nothing ever really came of it. Then in February, we were supposed to see another concert together. I emailed her and asked if she wanted to do it and she said "sure". Then she didn't reply to two emails after that and I wasn't able to go(I couldn't drive at that time). I actually had a backup plan with a friend's sister that fell through because I made an extra effort to get in touch with Oasis Girl. So I dropped her from my myspace page and lost her phone number.
Last night, I stopped by my old job to see a friend, and she basically ran over to me and gave me a big hug. Later she stopped by the hookah bar and was getting all cozy with me, like she always does--lots of little touches and things. It was kind of nice because I've been stuck at home for months, but I was also wondering if I was a pussy because I didn't yell at her. I know for a fact--from another friend who i completely trust--that Oasis Girl took off from work and said it was to see the show with me. But that's not what she actually did. Should I just let it go and not really involve myself with her? Or tell her how upset I was? I want to the do the latter, but to be honest, people don't seem to like it when I give them the unvarnished truth. I think they just like me to be funny and go along with their bullshit. Maybe it's easier just to not really worry about her anymore. Any ideas? Let it go and move on. | |
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JustErin said: Let it go and move on. Why is she like this though? Just attention-starved? | |
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kidelrich said: JustErin said: Let it go and move on. Why is she like this though? Just attention-starved? Who cares? Honestly, don't worry about why other people do the stupid shit they do. Just accept that they do it and move on. | |
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JustErin said: kidelrich said: Why is she like this though? Just attention-starved? Who cares? Honestly, don't worry about why other people do the stupid shit they do. Just accept that they do it and move on. You're so rad. | |
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jerseykrs said: JustErin said: Who cares? Honestly, don't worry about why other people do the stupid shit they do. Just accept that they do it and move on. You're so rad. You're so transparent.  | |
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kidelrich said: jerseykrs said: You're so rad. You're so transparent. Shut up! 
She's right though. | |
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JustErin said: Let it go and move on. Yup. agreed. |
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kidelrich said: little bit of dirty talk.
What kind of dirty talk exactly?  | |
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2the9s said: kidelrich said: little bit of dirty talk.
What kind of dirty talk exactly? watch it, you.  | |
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