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Printablepurplerein said: JustErin said: It's still very immature. do you have any negative feelings about anyone who's broken up with you?..any? That's not what we are talking about. This is not about a relationship that ended. We are talking about someone that is interested in you and you are just not interested back. But to answer your question, it depended on what caused the breakup. It's not the breakup that usually leads to negative feelings, it's what happened in the relationship that leads to that. But I can honestly say that I do not hate any of my ex's. In fact, I still keep in touch with most of them. | |
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The plain jane coffee shop girl treated me like crap after i turned her down. I can only imagine how bad she would have reacted if i had told her the real reason was because she was plain. It could have got real ugly. | |
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Spats said: The plain jane coffee shop girl treated me like crap after i turned her down. I can only imagine how bad she would have reacted if i had told her the real reason was because she was plain. It could have got real ugly.
switch to plain joe. you'll be happier  | |
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JustErin said: purplerein said: I don't think I expressed myself correctly. I guess what I meant is...If you're not the type of person who worries about what people think about you after the fact, by all means be honest and say, this is going nowhere. The person who you say that too will probably have a negative impression of you forever. that's all I meant..they may have had a good time with you, but their lasting impression of you will probably be negative. It's still very immature. Yea, I don't think that's fair. A person who comes away feeling negative must not have had very realistic expectations going in. Some people put SO MUCH on that other person liking them back & it's just goofy - there's no guarantee your feelings will be returned so how can you BLAME the other person? It's just not cool...   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Spats said: The plain jane coffee shop girl treated me like crap after i turned her down. I can only imagine how bad she would have reacted if i had told her the real reason was because she was plain. It could have got real ugly.
I wish you would have told her so she could spit in your drinks repeatedly  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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There's always a way to respectfully tell someone you're not interested in them. And, usually, you can do so without belittling their appearance, personality, interests, whatever.
You always want to leave that person their dignity, because you really never know what twists life might throw you and cause you to have to be dependent upon them. It's also just the right thing to do. I know this from experience. 
. [Edited 7/3/06 12:39pm] | |
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This thread makes me want to crawl into a corner and die.  | |
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Novabreaker said: This thread makes me want to crawl into a corner and die.
funkensteins bragging makes me want to do that too.  | |
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