GangstaFam said:

im doin what i can, but it doesnt seem to be helping,as much as id like to quit my damn job i cant do that right now. and im sure that has a factor in it

Finess said:

I hope you feel better soon, and yes you should go to the doctor right away. Why suffer if you don't have to?

Finess said:

Damn, that's not good.

so how is PK feeling ...is her sleep being interuppted
( other then by you waking ? )

Take care. I hope you feel better soon.

Mach said:

you know what? i look at it this way people try to stress you out because they know they cannot rattle you, so they do what they can to try and rattle you due to no security, i have one manager at my job who refuses to look me in the eye, why?.. because i pose a threat.

so he does what he can to rattle my fuckin' cage. so guess what, i thought to myself this morning to snap the fuck out of it, there's no reason to stress out because of some clown. time to move forward and grooooove. pk has been a great help to me with this. cus trust me had i been by self?... oh man..
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and behind this new strength, there will be more mixes than you have ever been witness to.i wanna thank the folks who posted on this thread and were worried about a cat. but stress is a mutha fucka and can wipe someone out. it aint gonna happen again

Definitely does sound stress and job related...especially since you hate it and would like to quit.

Someone gave me wise advice in that regard: nothing is in the unwritten rule book that says you have to love your job. If you are stuck in one (because of financial reasons or otherwise), begin to live for your personal life, and just recognize your job as 'what you do during the day in order to be able to do the things you want to when work is over'....

It helped me a lot to put things into perspective.....the role I am in right now is not me...it doesn't define who I am, it doesn't reflect my persona, it does not allow expression of my creativity....but I come in to work do the best job I can...then I am happy to leave at night to really do what I love and enjoy...

I hope this helps....and I agree with the person who said you need to make sure you eat right, take vitamins, exercise.....and do what makes you happy on your off-hours.

cubic61052 said:

i can dig it 200% sometimes as humans we forget what is important to us inside, ya know? we always give people advice and yet forget to take our own.im doin the best i can to take care of myself and get it together.no one is going to get between me and what makes me be me. and those who know me... being me, can be a fuckin' handfull

Go for it, my friend.....trying to be or when you are expected to be something/somebody you are not can be a bitch....

Take care of yourself first....if Daddy ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!

cubic61052 said:

true indeed, true indeed

Finess said:

Thats' it brother Ness

Mach said:

i know im just so damn cute when i get in smart mode

Finess said:

you're just so damn cute ALWAYS

Finess said:

A suggestion: google "sleep apnea" and see if you have any of the symptoms listed. I discovered that I have this sleep disorder, which can cause a variety of health problems. Your description of waking up and being unable to breathe is the very definition of sleep apnea: you stop breathing during sleep and you wake yourself up because your brain realizes it's not getting the oxygen it needs. This happens over and over, without the sleeper even realizing it.

AnotherLoverToo said:

nah, that isnt it really, i know what sleep apnea is and that isnt it, all it was is just a stress moment but i put all the negative energy in a ball, and let it fly away.

So Mr. Finess, did you make that appointment?

sag10 said:

err,umm..errrrr..

I am glad you are feeling better, but really when was the last time you had a wellness exam?


just put it on your list ok?

butterfli25 said:

i am, its on the things to do list thanks for everyone's concern it actually makes me feel better.most importantly my wife having lenghty discussions about my health has actually helped me snap out of this stress shit.

what did you do to Prince?

butterfli25 said:

LOL brotha said i did him wraaaaawng...but im still his "Good brotha"

Finess said:

YAY PK!

Finess said:

glad to hear you're feeling better. Sounds like you have a good partner in your wife

purplerein said:

yeah. i'll keep her, she's pulled me through some shit that i couldnt possibly do by myself yanno?

Finess said:

it only works when you trust the other partner to not judge you, but love you and help you.

purplerein said:

and thats how we roll

Finess said:

lets roll..and HEY...lets be careful out there!

Finess said:

damn skippy.... now if i can get you to actually listin

purplekisses said:

hahahahha, i do listen