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See bold type.....

As I said don't lump us all into one category...you already look like a dumb ass to some people don't make it any worse then it already is.

How did I know that you would use that as your main example. Have you done ANYTHING for the benefit of any female you were interested in without having any impact on your own happiness?

Like what?

You are the minority.

I doubt it.....

I doubt it.....

Most women do not come right out and say it when they want sacktime.

Most women do not come right out and say it when they want sacktime.

Most women do not come right out and say it when they want sacktime.

Most women do not come right out and say it when they want sacktime.[/quote]

You've already said that the ones that do are whores.

What you are failing to see is that she is making all the moves and you are just not responding. Wanting everything to be done for you is needy and just makes you look like you want a mommy to do everything for you, not a "babe" to have fun with.
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But she has not made the big move. That's all i want.

Isn't ANYONE on my side on this?

Exactly!

Give me examples.

I'm on your side Spats I want to you continue your quest on switching gender roles, do absolutely nothing & let the chick make all the moves. I want you to have this dialogue with yourself over & over & over until it's 20 years down the road, you're bald & toothless, your hand is fused to your dick & you STILL haven't had sacktime

Give me examples.

You obviously don't hold out much hope that women will stop being stuck in the 50's do you. you are right in thinking that. I don't think women will change their way of thinking.

What the hell do I need to give you examples for? I asked YOU for examples of things YOU'VE done!

Stuck in the 50's??? I don't think any of us around here or any women for that fact is going by the name June Cleaver these days....

I don't know what you mean by doing things for a woman you are interested in that does not benefit me. Like what? What can a guy do for a woman he is interested in that won't benefit himself??

Your buddies did not let you down you let yourself down, do not blame your mistakes and faults on your friend. That is my biggest pet peve when other people blame THEIR shit, faults, problems and mistakes on others. Face is you fucked up, and the faster your realize you are in denial of how YOU fucked this one up with "the babe" who is prolly the girl you refer to as "plain Jane coffee shop girl" then the better off you will be. Denial is a bitch, but fuckin get over yourself. You aint all that and obviously this chick has realized it and come to her sense. Fuck if a girl does not hear from a guy when he says he will call, then she figures you are not interested so she moves on like a smart girl. You on the other hand are the typical stupid as playa male. That in all reality women do not want to waste their time on.
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And that's why you will die alone.

Give me examples of doing something for a woman you are interested in that won't benefit yourself.

making her dinner at 2am.

If the woman expects the man to be the pursuer then she is stuck in the 50's. And most women still do.

You are already a couple. He is saying a woman that you are interested in hooking up with. Not someone who you are already with.
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Spats tell me where you live so I can come and punch you multiple times.

Because you know it's true.