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Printableonenitealone said: So spats.... if or when this girl calls you, I assume these rules you have will end?
Or will you have a new set of instructions she must follow? If we hooked up on a regular basis i would still have my normal likes and dislikes like everybody else. I don't consider them rules. I don't force anyone to do anything they don't wanna do. | |
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WillyWonka said: Spats said: I don't think i am playing games with her. I just want her to make the big move. Oh but you are playing games. You are plotting and scheming and have ulterior motives behind seemingly everything you do and say in regards to this young lady. Be a man and call her again tomorrow and find out what it is she wishes to speak with you about. As it is now, you are coming across as cowardly and manipulative. Yeah but's it's harmless planning. And any woman who is waiting for the guy to make the move is doing the same. I am just countering the game playing. I will most likely call sometime today. I have to eat and do a couple things first. | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: Well if that happens then that's the way the boobies bounce. She's making me uncomfortable with the "we have to talk" routine that women love so much so i will call back when i am ready to call back. if that pisses her off than it's a sign that she needs too much attention.
funny thing is, I bet Spats actually likes her, But he's afraid. He probably tells her that she's cool, pretty, etc, and yet to his friends and the org, he trashes her. who you trying to make happy Spats..your friends, or yourself? I do like her. I do think she is cool and very pretty. I don't hook up with anything less than pretty. But i don't tell her that stuff. After all, looks don't matter right? Cough,Cough. Women don't need compliments like that. Cough, Cough. And i definately don't say that stuff to my buddies. Only sappy whipped guys do that and they would probably laugh at me. I don't need that. | |
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Good Luck w/that approach Spats.
EVERYONE needs to be complimented at one time or another. C'mon, I don't care how secure you are, a compliment is nice to hear. Don't OVERLOAD her w/them, but I mean, dear lawd, you can tell her she looks nice, smells good, somethin'! | |
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luv4all7 said: Good Luck w/that approach Spats.
EVERYONE needs to be complimented at one time or another. C'mon, I don't care how secure you are, a compliment is nice to hear. Don't OVERLOAD her w/them, but I mean, dear lawd, you can tell her she looks nice, smells good, somethin'! If that's the case then everyone should stop preaching that looks are not important when i say they are. | |
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Spats said: luv4all7 said: Good Luck w/that approach Spats.
EVERYONE needs to be complimented at one time or another. C'mon, I don't care how secure you are, a compliment is nice to hear. Don't OVERLOAD her w/them, but I mean, dear lawd, you can tell her she looks nice, smells good, somethin'! If that's the case then everyone should stop preaching that looks are not important when i say they are. I dunno who said that. They are important to me. I care how *I* look. If my spouse wouldn't of had gorgeous blue eyes we never woulda started dating (if that's what ya wanna call it). He's not super hot, but neither am I. I don't think someone has to be f'in drop dead, but they have to atleast be attractive in some way. | |
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Spats said: luv4all7 said: Good Luck w/that approach Spats.
EVERYONE needs to be complimented at one time or another. C'mon, I don't care how secure you are, a compliment is nice to hear. Don't OVERLOAD her w/them, but I mean, dear lawd, you can tell her she looks nice, smells good, somethin'! If that's the case then everyone should stop preaching that looks are not important when i say they are. Of course they are important. It's so silly when people say that they are not. They really shouldn't be...but they are. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: If that's the case then everyone should stop preaching that looks are not important when i say they are. Of course they are important. It's so silly when people say that they are not. They really shouldn't be...but they are. Well at least some people here realize that. | |
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luv4all7 said: Good Luck w/that approach Spats.
EVERYONE needs to be complimented at one time or another. C'mon, I don't care how secure you are, a compliment is nice to hear. Don't OVERLOAD her w/them, but I mean, dear lawd, you can tell her she looks nice, smells good, somethin'! If the girl needs to hear that then she will just be a headache. | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: Well if that happens then that's the way the boobies bounce. She's making me uncomfortable with the "we have to talk" routine that women love so much so i will call back when i am ready to call back. if that pisses her off than it's a sign that she needs too much attention.
funny thing is, I bet Spats actually likes her, But he's afraid. He probably tells her that she's cool, pretty, etc, and yet to his friends and the org, he trashes her. who you trying to make happy Spats..your friends, or yourself? I was out with my buddies at the movies tonight and they actually think i have taken this too far and that I should have made the move by now. That was disappointing to hear. | |
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Spats said: purplerein said: funny thing is, I bet Spats actually likes her, But he's afraid. He probably tells her that she's cool, pretty, etc, and yet to his friends and the org, he trashes her. who you trying to make happy Spats..your friends, or yourself? I was out with my buddies at the movies tonight and they actually think i have taken this too far and that I should have made the move by now. That was disappointing to hear. We tried and tried to tell you what a  you are.  | |
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Spats said: purplerein said: funny thing is, I bet Spats actually likes her, But he's afraid. He probably tells her that she's cool, pretty, etc, and yet to his friends and the org, he trashes her. who you trying to make happy Spats..your friends, or yourself? I was out with my buddies at the movies tonight and they actually think i have taken this too far and that I should have made the move by now. That was disappointing to hear. Do you think you would have taken it so far if the entire org community weren't watching? To us this is mildly entertaining. However, this is your life. Today is Friday and it's the weekend. If I were her and hadn't heard from you it would be all over in my mind. I would be going out with my friends and forgetting about you. So if you actually like her be polite and return her two 'phone calls. You may have your beliefs but not to reply to her call is quite shabby really - are you that cheap? grammar edit - duh! [Edited 6/30/06 2:40am] | |
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notoriousj said: Spats said: I was out with my buddies at the movies tonight and they actually think i have taken this too far and that I should have made the move by now. That was disappointing to hear. We tried and tried to tell you what a you are. I was not a matter of being scared. I know some here tried to tell me but you all still have the outdated view that the guy should make the move. My buddies usually have more up to date views. They have let me down this time. | |
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sj1600 said: Spats said: I was out with my buddies at the movies tonight and they actually think i have taken this too far and that I should have made the move by now. That was disappointing to hear. Do you think you would have taken it so far if the entire org community weren't watching? To us this is mildly entertaining. However, this is your life. Today is Friday and it's the weekend. If I were her and hadn't heard from you it would be all over in my mind. I would be going out with my friends and forgetting about you. So if you actually like her be polite and return her two 'phone calls. You may have your beliefs but not to reply to her call is quite shabby really - are you that cheap? grammar edit - duh! [Edited 6/30/06 2:40am] Yes, it would have gone this far if the org didn't know about it. It's her fault it's gone on this long. If a woman calls it off after a few days of not calling then she is too needy. Yes, i like her and I replyed to her call by leaving a message saying i would call her back. I just didn't want to call back right away. | |
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Spats said: sj1600 said: Do you think you would have taken it so far if the entire org community weren't watching? To us this is mildly entertaining. However, this is your life. Today is Friday and it's the weekend. If I were her and hadn't heard from you it would be all over in my mind. I would be going out with my friends and forgetting about you. So if you actually like her be polite and return her two 'phone calls. You may have your beliefs but not to reply to her call is quite shabby really - are you that cheap? grammar edit - duh! [Edited 6/30/06 2:40am] Yes, it would have gone this far if the org didn't know about it. It's her fault it's gone on this long. If a woman calls it off after a few days of not calling then she is too needy. Yes, i like her and I replyed to her call by leaving a message saying i would call her back. I just didn't want to call back right away. You call her needy but in all honesty all the things you are asking for from her makes you the one that is really needy. Like REALLY needy. It's not that you don't want to make the first move, it's way passed that now. You just don't want to make a move period. You now are just looking really needy and weird. 
Even your friends see that now. They didn't let you down, they are just telling you the truth. If you can't see that, I'd say that your severe neediness is clouding your judgement. Snap out of it! | |
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Calling her and leaving a message to say that you will call her when you have time, when she called you a week ago (almost) is still rude.
If this was a male friend (and the babe is just a friend at the moment, right?) you wouldn't treat him like that. How's that for equality? | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: Yes, it would have gone this far if the org didn't know about it. It's her fault it's gone on this long. If a woman calls it off after a few days of not calling then she is too needy. Yes, i like her and I replyed to her call by leaving a message saying i would call her back. I just didn't want to call back right away. You call her needy but in all honesty all the things you are asking for from her makes you the one that is really needy. Like REALLY needy. It's not that you don't want to make the first move, it's way passed that now. You just don't want to make a move period. You now are just looking really needy and weird.
Even your friends see that now. They didn't let you down, they are just telling you the truth. If you can't see that, I'd say that your severe neediness is clouding your judgement. Snap out of it! I don't want to be the one to give in. That female mindset wins if i give in and made the move. I come here and say women should be making the move these days and then i turn around and give in an do it? I am betraying my own beliefs if i do that. | |
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sj1600 said: Calling her and leaving a message to say that you will call her when you have time, when she called you a week ago (almost) is still rude.
If this was a male friend (and the babe is just a friend at the moment, right?) you wouldn't treat him like that. How's that for equality? None of my buddies would ever call and say "we have to talk". [Edited 6/30/06 9:01am] | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: You call her needy but in all honesty all the things you are asking for from her makes you the one that is really needy. Like REALLY needy. It's not that you don't want to make the first move, it's way passed that now. You just don't want to make a move period. You now are just looking really needy and weird.
Even your friends see that now. They didn't let you down, they are just telling you the truth. If you can't see that, I'd say that your severe neediness is clouding your judgement. Snap out of it! I don't want to be the one to give in. That female mindset wins if i give in and made the move. I come here and say women should be making the move these days and then i turn around and give in an do it? I am betraying my own beliefs if i do that. What you are failing to see is that she is making all the moves and you are just not responding. Wanting everything to be done for you is needy and just makes you look like you want a mommy to do everything for you, not a "babe" to have fun with. [Edited 6/30/06 10:16am] | |
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Spats said: notoriousj said: We tried and tried to tell you what a you are. I was not a matter of being scared. I know some here tried to tell me but you all still have the outdated view that the guy should make the move. My buddies usually have more up to date views. They have let me down this time. Your buddies did not let you down you let yourself down, do not blame your mistakes and faults on your friend. That is my biggest pet peve when other people blame THEIR shit, faults, problems and mistakes on others. Face is you fucked up, and the faster your realize you are in denial of how YOU fucked this one up with "the babe" who is prolly the girl you refer to as "plain Jane coffee shop girl" then the better off you will be. Denial is a bitch, but fuckin get over yourself. You aint all that and obviously this chick has realized it and come to her sense. Fuck if a girl does not hear from a guy when he says he will call, then she figures you are not interested so she moves on like a smart girl. You on the other hand are the typical stupid as playa male. That in all reality women do not want to waste their time on. [Edited 6/30/06 10:12am] | |
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WillyWonka said: coolcat said:  This is coming along slower than a soap opera...The suspense is terrible. I hope it'll last.  
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TMPletz said: WillyWonka said: The suspense is terrible. I hope it'll last.
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notoriousj said: TMPletz said:
Hi You Hi Jess!  | |
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TMPletz said: notoriousj said: Hi You Hi Jess! My opinion this is way better then any soap opera!  | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: I don't want to be the one to give in. That female mindset wins if i give in and made the move. I come here and say women should be making the move these days and then i turn around and give in an do it? I am betraying my own beliefs if i do that. What you are failing to see is that she is making all the moves and you are just not responding. Wanting everything to be done for you is needy and just makes you look like you want a mommy to do everything for you, not a "babe" to have fun with. [Edited 6/30/06 10:16am] But she has not made the big move. That's all i want. Isn't ANYONE on my side on this? | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: What you are failing to see is that she is making all the moves and you are just not responding. Wanting everything to be done for you is needy and just makes you look like you want a mommy to do everything for you, not a "babe" to have fun with. [Edited 6/30/06 10:16am] But she has not made the big move. That's all i want. Isn't ANYONE on my side on this? I doubt it. | |
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notoriousj said: Spats said: I was not a matter of being scared. I know some here tried to tell me but you all still have the outdated view that the guy should make the move. My buddies usually have more up to date views. They have let me down this time. Your buddies did not let you down you let yourself down, do not blame your mistakes and faults on your friend. That is my biggest pet peve when other people blame THEIR shit, faults, problems and mistakes on others. Face is you fucked up, and the faster your realize you are in denial of how YOU fucked this one up with "the babe" who is prolly the girl you refer to as "plain Jane coffee shop girl" then the better off you will be. Denial is a bitch, but fuckin get over yourself. You aint all that and obviously this chick has realized it and come to her sense. Fuck if a girl does not hear from a guy when he says he will call, then she figures you are not interested so she moves on like a smart girl. You on the other hand are the typical stupid as playa male. That in all reality women do not want to waste their time on. [Edited 6/30/06 10:12am] I am not in denial about anything. And i just expected my buddies to back me on this. They were with me on it in the beginning. Now they have bailed and think i should have been the one to make the move. They have given in. | |
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Spats said: notoriousj said: Your buddies did not let you down you let yourself down, do not blame your mistakes and faults on your friend. That is my biggest pet peve when other people blame THEIR shit, faults, problems and mistakes on others. Face is you fucked up, and the faster your realize you are in denial of how YOU fucked this one up with "the babe" who is prolly the girl you refer to as "plain Jane coffee shop girl" then the better off you will be. Denial is a bitch, but fuckin get over yourself. You aint all that and obviously this chick has realized it and come to her sense. Fuck if a girl does not hear from a guy when he says he will call, then she figures you are not interested so she moves on like a smart girl. You on the other hand are the typical stupid as playa male. That in all reality women do not want to waste their time on. [Edited 6/30/06 10:12am] I am not in denial about anything. And i just expected my buddies to back me on this. They were with me on it in the beginning. Now they have bailed and think i should have been the one to make the move. They have given in. They have not given in at all....they got smart used their brains and realized what a dumb ass you are and did not hesitate to tell you. | |
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notoriousj said: TMPletz said: Hi Jess! My opinion this is way better then any soap opera! The Young and the Breastless | |
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notoriousj said: Spats said: I am not in denial about anything. And i just expected my buddies to back me on this. They were with me on it in the beginning. Now they have bailed and think i should have been the one to make the move. They have given in. They have not given in at all....they got smart used their brains and realized what a dumb ass you are and did not hesitate to tell you. I don't think giving in to the typical female mindset is the smart way to go. | |
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