Spats said:

So, if you really thought that you would be persuing her as much as she has been persuing you...but you're not.

It's almost like you care more about what others do than you do about what you do in your own life.

She obviously likes you and has made an effort, you on the otherhand have made no effort. That's certainly not subscribing to the both should be equal mindset.

Just sayin'...

Call, call her now.

I am mildly curious. You have to call.

sj1600 said:

I left her a message saying i have been busy and will call her back. Bides me more time.

Spats said:

i didn't have time to read the whole thread, so what is it that she wants to talk to you about? oh but first, did something happen that she wants to talk, or is this all out of the blue?

No. I left her a message saying i would call her. I just haven't decided when.

No. I left her a message saying i would call her. I just haven't decided when.

Spats said:

Tell her what she wants to hear!

Spats said:

Your weird.

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

My buddy says the same thing. But i want to hear that from her. I am not giving in.

You called her and left her a message, saying, I'll call you.

luv4all7 said:

Well she wasn't home so i could not talk to her directly. Thank God.

Spats said:

Dude, just tell her what she wants to hears, plow her like she's never been plowed and then just break it off. Everyone is happy, no one is hurt

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

Dude, I like your attitude. But i can't do it. I want to hear her say it.

luv4all7 said:

Well she wasn't home so i could not talk to her directly. Thank God.

Spats said:

All you are doing is making yourself look like you are either

a) not interested in her

or

b) afraid of her

That may not be your intention, but I bet that's what she is thinking.

If it were me in her shoes (not knowing what you are really doing) both would be a reason to just disappear on you.

JustErin said:

EXACTLY! C-YA!

luv4all7 said:

I mean, I can understand wanting her to take initiative, but she has and that's still not good enough.

It's now just game playing.

luv4all7 said:

I mean, I can understand wanting her to take initiative, but she has and that's still not good enough.

It's now just game playing.

JustErin said:

exactly. when a woman calls a man more than once and he doesn't return her calls, at least for me, i stop calling and assume he isn't interested. this means its time to keep it moving....

playing games is a waste of time and if the woman is worth something, she won't put up with that shit.

missfee said:

It's never smart to call back too soon though.I'll probably call her back tomorrow.

JustErin said:

I don't think i am playing games with her. I just want her to make the big move.

This is coming along slower than a soap opera...

Well if that happens then that's the way the boobies bounce. She's making me uncomfortable with the "we have to talk" routine that women love so much so i will call back when i am ready to call back. if that pisses her off than it's a sign that she needs too much attention.