Spats said: jerseykrs said: It's bad dude!! She can't give you bad news if she can't get a hold of you! Avoid her at ALL COSTS!!!
She called again. So far i haven't called her back. I am deciding what to do. Maybe calling back is her way to make the first move : your turn now | |
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Spats said: Fauxie said: So you never, ever make the first move? That doesn't sound like something done by design or choice but rather just plain old fear. Perhaps you're actually scared of women?
No, i used to. When i was younger i did. But i couldn't stand the risk taking anymore and there is no way to avoid rejection. For every yes you get there will be a no or two. It's not fun. Women don't understand this because they take no risks when it comes to this stuff. One day i just decided that enough was enough and to turn the tables and have them do the work. It worked and it's a real turn on when it does. Instead of the women deciding my fate with them. I am in the position to reject and accept. I feels good doing the rejecting or the playing hard to get before giving in. I remember asking a girl to dance in high school and being rejected. Now i have been at clubs and a girl asks me to dance and i am the one saying no. Feels good to be on the other end. | |
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Spats said: Fauxie said: So you never, ever make the first move? That doesn't sound like something done by design or choice but rather just plain old fear. Perhaps you're actually scared of women?
No, i used to. When i was younger i did. But i couldn't stand the risk taking anymore and there is no way to avoid rejection. For every yes you get there will be a no or two. It's not fun. Women don't understand this because they take no risks when it comes to this stuff. One day i just decided that enough was enough and to turn the tables and have them do the work. It worked and it's a real turn on when it does. Instead of the women deciding my fate with them. I am in the position to reject and accept. I feels good doing the rejecting or the playing hard to get before giving in. I remember asking a girl to dance in high school and being rejected. Now i have been at clubs and a girl asks me to dance and i am the one saying no. Feels good to be on the other end. At least you keep on being attracted by girls, and it's courageous. If you're a beautiful guy it's maybe you're too shy and too beautiful. The girl might think you look so fine she won't ever make the first move (saying to herself : he's so hot, for sure this guy is gay or in a relationship already) See ? Oh, and: http://www.waece.org/webp..._mismo.htm Maybe you can look at yourself now and see you're a beautiful swan now ? You've been rejected once on a dance floor, ok, a long time ago, but does every single woman who find you attractive has to pay for that ? (Edit - I'm just asking...) [Edited 6/27/06 3:49am] | |
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virginie74 said: Spats said: She called again. So far i haven't called her back. I am deciding what to do. Maybe calling back is her way to make the first move : your turn now If that were the case i wish she would just jump me and rip my clothes off. I would enjoy that a lot more. | |
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Spats said: The babe has left a message on my voice mail saying she wants to talk about our situation. Is this good or bad? When women want to talk it's usually bad. I am not looking forward to this.
[Edited 6/26/06 10:51am] Bad bad bad. "We need to talk" never ends with "about insane sex with all of my hot girlfriends" This is no prelude to sack-time. | |
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virginie74 said: Spats said: No, i used to. When i was younger i did. But i couldn't stand the risk taking anymore and there is no way to avoid rejection. For every yes you get there will be a no or two. It's not fun. Women don't understand this because they take no risks when it comes to this stuff. One day i just decided that enough was enough and to turn the tables and have them do the work. It worked and it's a real turn on when it does. Instead of the women deciding my fate with them. I am in the position to reject and accept. I feels good doing the rejecting or the playing hard to get before giving in. I remember asking a girl to dance in high school and being rejected. Now i have been at clubs and a girl asks me to dance and i am the one saying no. Feels good to be on the other end. At least you keep on being attracted by girls, and it's courageous. If you're a beautiful guy it's maybe you're too shy and too beautiful. The girl might think you look so fine she won't ever make the first move (saying to herself : he's so hot, for sure this guy is gay or in a relationship already) See ? Oh, and: http://www.waece.org/webp..._mismo.htm Maybe you can look at yourself now and see you're a beautiful swan now ? You've been rejected once on a dance floor, ok, a long time ago, but does every single woman who find you attractive has to pay for that ? (Edit - I'm just asking...) [Edited 6/27/06 3:49am] I don't think i have made innocent women pay for any rejection i recieved when i was young. But i have to admit that i enjoyed doing the rejecting. | |
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Spats said: virginie74 said: Maybe calling back is her way to make the first move : your turn now If that were the case i wish she would just jump me and rip my clothes off. I would enjoy that a lot more. just imagine her doing that and before you know it she's sucking your dick.....what will you do then????? | |
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abierman said: Spats said: If that were the case i wish she would just jump me and rip my clothes off. I would enjoy that a lot more. just imagine her doing that and before you know it she's sucking your dick.....what will you do then????? I don't want to think about that. I would rather her break up with me. Although, we aren't really a couple because i still go out looking for babes at clubs. So there really isn't anything to break up. | |
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Spats said: abierman said: just imagine her doing that and before you know it she's sucking your dick.....what will you do then????? I don't want to think about that. I would rather her break up with me. Although, we aren't really a couple because i still go out looking for babes at clubs. So there really isn't anything to break up. has this stategy worked for you?...have you scored?...and why are you treating this girl in a way you wouldn't want to be treated yourself? | |
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kidelrich said: Spats said: The babe has left a message on my voice mail saying she wants to talk about our situation. Is this good or bad? When women want to talk it's usually bad. I am not looking forward to this.
[Edited 6/26/06 10:51am] Bad bad bad. "We need to talk" never ends with "about insane sex with all of my hot girlfriends" This is no prelude to sack-time. Terrific. I was about to call and now i am hesitating again. | |
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Call, call her now.
I am mildly curious. You have to call. | |
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Spats said: abierman said: just imagine her doing that and before you know it she's sucking your dick.....what will you do then????? I don't want to think about that. I would rather her break up with me. Although, we aren't really a couple because i still go out looking for babes at clubs. So there really isn't anything to break up. ladies & gentlemen.....Spats would rather have a girl dump him than receiving a spontaneous blowjob from her..... | |
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abierman said: Spats said: I don't want to think about that. I would rather her break up with me. Although, we aren't really a couple because i still go out looking for babes at clubs. So there really isn't anything to break up. ladies & gentlemen.....Spats would rather have a girl dump him than receiving a spontaneous blowjob from her..... Well, we might all think it's insane to think that, but he believes that it's a degrading act and, believe it or not, he's certainly not alone in thinking that. I on the otherhand... | |
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could Spats "girl" actually be one of the infamous ladies that post ads in London
telephone booths? | |
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JustErin said: abierman said: ladies & gentlemen.....Spats would rather have a girl dump him than receiving a spontaneous blowjob from her..... Well, we might all think it's insane to think that, but he believes that it's a degrading act and, believe it or not, he's certainly not alone in thinking that. I on the otherhand... I'll make you forget Jersey..... | |
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abierman said: JustErin said: Well, we might all think it's insane to think that, but he believes that it's a degrading act and, believe it or not, he's certainly not alone in thinking that. I on the otherhand... I'll make you forget Jersey..... Oh he's looooong forgotten. | |
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JustErin said: abierman said: I'll make you forget Jersey..... Oh he's looooong forgotten. good, that only makes it less complicated!!!! I'm anice guy.....yeah yeah.... | |
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this whole thread is just absolutely hilarious....
and i truly believe spats is either a) the most dense person on the face of this planet and has absolutely no right even talking to a woman let alone having "sacktime", or b) a character made up by someone very juvenile and very bored. maybe it's a mixture of both. | |
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I'm seriously considering making myself a t-shirt that says:
"SACKTIME?". White print on purple of course. | |
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Novabreaker said: I'm seriously considering making myself a t-shirt that says:
"SACKTIME?". White print on purple of course. I'll pay for one if it says "No Ugos or Non-blondes" on the back. | |
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kidelrich said: Novabreaker said: I'm seriously considering making myself a t-shirt that says:
"SACKTIME?". White print on purple of course. I'll pay for one if it says "No Ugos or Non-blondes" on the back. omg... and a whole new marketing prospect opens up.... | |
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purplerein said: could Spats "girl" actually be one of the infamous ladies that post ads in London
telephone booths? Is that what others know as hookers... | |
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fake or crap | |
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fantasyislander said: kidelrich said: I'll pay for one if it says "No Ugos or Non-blondes" on the back. omg... and a whole new marketing prospect opens up.... of course, the 'no non-blondes' comment would be ironic if i was wearing it. we could sell it at hot topic. | |
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fantasyislander said: this whole thread is just absolutely hilarious....
and i truly believe spats is either a) the most dense person on the face of this planet and has absolutely no right even talking to a woman let alone having "sacktime", or b) a character made up by someone very juvenile and very bored. maybe it's a mixture of both. Why am i dense and have no right to get sacktime? | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: I don't want to think about that. I would rather her break up with me. Although, we aren't really a couple because i still go out looking for babes at clubs. So there really isn't anything to break up. has this stategy worked for you?...have you scored?...and why are you treating this girl in a way you wouldn't want to be treated yourself? yes this has worked for me before but this one has been a little more drawn out because it has taken her longer to make the move. This one is becoming a headache. Some women are just set in that typical female mindset that it is the guy that is supposed to do it. | |
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Spats said: purplerein said: has this stategy worked for you?...have you scored?...and why are you treating this girl in a way you wouldn't want to be treated yourself? yes this has worked for me before but this one has been a little more drawn out because it has taken her longer to make the move. This one is becoming a headache. Some women are just set in that typical female mindset that it is the guy that is supposed to do it. So you yourself do not believe in equality between the sexes either, right? | |
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Spats said: fantasyislander said: this whole thread is just absolutely hilarious....
and i truly believe spats is either a) the most dense person on the face of this planet and has absolutely no right even talking to a woman let alone having "sacktime", or b) a character made up by someone very juvenile and very bored. maybe it's a mixture of both. Why am i dense and have no right to get sacktime? How can anybody actually get mad at him? He kills me. No one talks like this in real life. No one. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: yes this has worked for me before but this one has been a little more drawn out because it has taken her longer to make the move. This one is becoming a headache. Some women are just set in that typical female mindset that it is the guy that is supposed to do it. So you yourself do not believe in equality between the sexes either, right? No i do. I think women should do all the things that men do. | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: So you yourself do not believe in equality between the sexes either, right? No i do. I think women should do all the things that men do. So, if you really thought that you would be persuing her as much as she has been persuing you...but you're not. It's almost like you care more about what others do than you do about what you do in your own life. She obviously likes you and has made an effort, you on the otherhand have made no effort. That's certainly not subscribing to the both should be equal mindset. Just sayin'... | |
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