Spats said:

You know you want me.

notoriousj said:

I do too!

notoriousj said:

You would have to make some changes if I were to consider hooking up with you.

abierman said:

Who is that?

Spats said:

step off, Spats!!! She's mine!

abierman said:

god I was so waxed that night when Byron took that pic of me

Spats said:

Like what hair color, boob size...what? Tell me I wanna know so I can be exactly what you want me to be....

gemini13 said:

There is nothing wrong with me. I just want her to make the first move. What's wrong with that?????

jerseykrs said:

She called again. So far i haven't called her back. I am deciding what to do.

Spats said:

She's made all the moves so far, just call her back or you'll look like a coward.

Spats said:

that train of thought just leads to trouble.. you know that.. right?

So you never, ever make the first move? That doesn't sound like something done by design or choice but rather just plain old fear. Perhaps you're actually scared of women?

Fauxie said:

That's what I was about to say. Ear what she has to tell you, you'll save the money of your therapy.

Just do what you usually do and fake it till you make it. Lord knows you're good at the "faking"... somehow I doubt the "making".

twister6 said:

What do you mean?

Spats said:

everything you think, sometimes even small things can contribute to how your life turns out. just be careful you don't think too negatively of women or you might end up alone forever.



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JPW said:

what did u do? or not do 4 that matter?

Fauxie said:

No, i used to. When i was younger i did. But i couldn't stand the risk taking anymore and there is no way to avoid rejection. For every yes you get there will be a no or two. It's not fun. Women don't understand this because they take no risks when it comes to this stuff. One day i just decided that enough was enough and to turn the tables and have them do the work. It worked and it's a real turn on when it does. Instead of the women deciding my fate with them. I am in the position to reject and accept. I feels good doing the rejecting or the playing hard to get before giving in.

I remember asking a girl to dance in high school and being rejected. Now i have been at clubs and a girl asks me to dance and i am the one saying no. Feels good to be on the other end.

twister6 said:

huh? what chu talkin' bout, willis?

JPW said:

But how is wanting her to make the move going to do that?

Spats said:

just try and think of everyone, including all women, as no different from yourself.

in time you'll see what i mean, if you just try it.

Spats said:

Ah, I see. Psychological issues from childhood. Well your attitude towards women makes more sense now. You obviously dislike women on at least one level. Do you feel angry spats?

JustErin said:

I would like to avoid getting dumped though if that is what she is doing. I wouldn't mind putting that off. I don't know what she wants to talk about. I am not used to being dumped. I usually do the dumping.

Spats said:

sure u do

Spats said:

You'll be fine. I say just get it over with and see what she has to say. Maybe she wants to dump you, maybe not. Whatever happens is no biggie, right?

Afterall, remember..."women are like subways, another one always comes along".

True, she is just a woman. It's just that i am very close to sacktime i think. It would suck if all the time i put into it would be a waste.

Spats, are you real ????

jerseykrs said:

You've got to stay away from her, and all your friends... You can't talk to anyone!!!

virginie74 said:

Very much so. Why is everyone asking this?

Why are you asking our advice?

I thought you knew everything there was to know when it comes to women?