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Printablefantasyislander said: Spats said: There was no sacktime. She just wanted to know where we stand. She heard i was out with the guys at some clubs sniffing around the women and she thinks that isn't right if we are together and some people think we are so she thinks it makes her look stupid. Her girlfriends have joked about it. She wanted to know if I was interested in her or not. Because she is getting mixed signals. And if not then she's moving on. I told her how much i liked her (NOT IN A SISSY BOY WAY ) and i liked spending time with her and going out and wanted to keep doing it. I said i was sorry if she thought i was fucking around with her. Our talk got better after that. She had to get going because she had to meet up with a couple friends. Then i gave in and asked if she wanted to go see PIrates of The Caribean this weekend. And she said that would be cool. I hate giving in.  wait a minute.... asking her to a movie is giving in?? so you want her to make every single move, every single effort??? oh my god. you are more hopeless than i thought. i thought you just wanted her to make the move on sacktime. you do realize you are becoming what you hate, right? by expecting/wanting her to make every effort in the relationship you've become just like those women you hate who expect the guy to do everything. whatever happened to both of you making efforts??
you are so dense. are you sure you're not 17? I like giving women a taste of their own medicine. Because it's usually the guy doing everything. But i gave in. And i should not have apologized for anything. I feel like i compromised my principles. I feel like i wimped out so i could get back on her goodside and hopefully get back on the right track to Sacktime. | |
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Spats said: fantasyislander said: wait a minute.... asking her to a movie is giving in?? so you want her to make every single move, every single effort??? oh my god. you are more hopeless than i thought. i thought you just wanted her to make the move on sacktime. you do realize you are becoming what you hate, right? by expecting/wanting her to make every effort in the relationship you've become just like those women you hate who expect the guy to do everything. whatever happened to both of you making efforts??
you are so dense. are you sure you're not 17? I like giving women a taste of their own medicine. Because it's usually the guy doing everything. But i gave in. And i should not have apologized for anything. I feel like i compromised my principles. I feel like i wimped out so i could get back on her goodside and hopefully get back on the right track to Sacktime.  | |
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why don't go out on a real date? I mean, watching a movie is so 1980's..... Oh, I see.....on a real date you might have to talk..... | |
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abierman said: why don't go out on a real date? I mean, watching a movie is so 1980's..... Oh, I see.....on a real date you might have to talk.....
What do you consider a real date? | |
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Relax Spats, you might even have fun. You know, both laugh, enjoy each other's company. Try and forget all this BS around who asks whom to do what and just, you know, go on a date. | |
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sj1600 said: Relax Spats, you might even have fun. You know, both laugh, enjoy each other's company. Try and forget all this BS around who asks whom to do what and just, you know, go on a date.
I have had fun on our dates. But i like things on my terms. My dignity has taken a hit. I am compromising my principles to get sacktime. I am sure i won't be thinking about that when we are getting it on but right now i am. | |
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Spats said: sj1600 said: Relax Spats, you might even have fun. You know, both laugh, enjoy each other's company. Try and forget all this BS around who asks whom to do what and just, you know, go on a date.
I have had fun on our dates. But i like things on my terms. My dignity has taken a hit. I am compromising my principles to get sacktime. I am sure i won't be thinking about that when we are getting it on but right now i am. in what way has your dignity taken a hit? | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: I have had fun on our dates. But i like things on my terms. My dignity has taken a hit. I am compromising my principles to get sacktime. I am sure i won't be thinking about that when we are getting it on but right now i am. in what way has your dignity taken a hit? Because i apologized to much. I owed her an apology for not calling back but that's it. I didn't have to apologize for going out with my buddies to clubs even thugh we were sort of dating. I can do what i want. I am not handcuffed to anyone. But i want to continue seeing her so i said more than i should have and of course i asked her out to the movies. The thought of sacktime made me do things i wouldn't normally do. | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: I have had fun on our dates. But i like things on my terms. My dignity has taken a hit. I am compromising my principles to get sacktime. I am sure i won't be thinking about that when we are getting it on but right now i am. in what way has your dignity taken a hit? What dignity? Is the more appropriate question. | |
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It could have been worse though. I could have offered to buy her a bed. | |
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...well, actually not really.  | |
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I'm a right dildo for even posting on this bullshit, but Spats, your key goal is sex, right?
Well, regardless of what you think about it, this chick is a CHICK. Be nice to her. Show a little interest, even if you're pretending. Why aren't you willing to sacrifice a little of this to get the ass?! Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: I'm a right dildo for even posting on this bullshit, but Spats, your key goal is sex, right?
Well, regardless of what you think about it, this chick is a CHICK. Be nice to her. Show a little interest, even if you're pretending. Why aren't you willing to sacrifice a little of this to get the ass?! Woman, I LOVE YOU!  
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts  ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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INSATIABLE said: I'm a right dildo for even posting on this bullshit, but Spats, your key goal is sex, right?
Well, regardless of what you think about it, this chick is a CHICK. Be nice to her. Show a little interest, even if you're pretending. Why aren't you willing to sacrifice a little of this to get the ass?! I guess you are right. I can be sweet when i have to be. I will try and give in and throw my principles out this weekend and see if it get's me sacktime. Damn, i hope it's worth it. I don't want to throw my dignity out the window for nothing | |
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treat her with the same amount of care and respect as you'ld want someone to treat your daughter | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: INSATIABLE said: I'm a right dildo for even posting on this bullshit, but Spats, your key goal is sex, right?
Well, regardless of what you think about it, this chick is a CHICK. Be nice to her. Show a little interest, even if you're pretending. Why aren't you willing to sacrifice a little of this to get the ass?! Woman, I LOVE YOU!
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.I just don't like the idea of doing stupid shit to get what i want. | |
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INSATIABLE said: I'm a right dildo for even posting on this bullshit, but Spats, your key goal is sex, right?
Well, regardless of what you think about it, this chick is a CHICK. Be nice to her. Show a little interest, even if you're pretending. Why aren't you willing to sacrifice a little of this to get the ass?! what about you and your dildo? | |
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Spats said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Woman, I LOVE YOU!
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.I just don't like the idea of doing stupid shit to get what i want. and how's that working out for you?...IT ISNT | |
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purplerein said: treat her with the same amount of care and respect as you'ld want someone to treat your daughter
What do mean treat with care? See? we are getting into the bowing down and kissing ass stuff again. That turns my stomach. | |
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Spats said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Woman, I LOVE YOU!
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.I just don't like the idea of doing stupid shit to get what i want. Yeah, well, I don't like the idea of paying $3.50 for a latte, but that's what they cost. Welcome to reality.  oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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Most of us have to work somewhat to get what we want, dude.
It'll be worth it, right? It's no big deal to sauce things up. It's not like you're playing a mandolin under her balcony or anything. Just be friendly and you'll get further. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Spats said: purplerein said: treat her with the same amount of care and respect as you'ld want someone to treat your daughter
What do mean treat with care? See? we are getting into the bowing down and kissing ass stuff again. That turns my stomach. It's not about bowing down, spats. it's treating them with the same respect you'ld like to be treated with. | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Woman, I LOVE YOU!
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.You got it, babe. And I think I love you too.  Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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notoriousj said: INSATIABLE said: I'm a right dildo for even posting on this bullshit, but Spats, your key goal is sex, right?
Well, regardless of what you think about it, this chick is a CHICK. Be nice to her. Show a little interest, even if you're pretending. Why aren't you willing to sacrifice a little of this to get the ass?! what about you and your dildo? Webcams.  Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Woman, I LOVE YOU!
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.So, so, SO true. If one guy is being a pain in the ass (especially this early in the game) it's pretty damn easy to just move on to the next guy that wants to be with you. | |
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Spats said: It could have been worse though. I could have offered to buy her a bed.
come on dude ya gotta come at me with something better then that...that is kinda  I am so disappointed in you | |
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purplerein said: treat her with the same amount of care and respect as you'ld want someone to treat your daughter
If i had a kid i think i would want a boy. The only reason i would want a girl is to bring her up with modern day values and not expect men to bow down to her. I think that's the problem with a lot of women. Their mama's did not teach them right. [Edited 7/14/06 11:38am] | |
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JustErin said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Woman, I LOVE YOU!
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.So, so, SO true. If one guy is being a pain in the ass (especially this early in the game) it's pretty damn easy to just move on to the next guy that wants to be with you. Well she didn't appear to be looking elsewhere. There is something about me she likes. It's either the playing hard to get or the fact i have been told I resemble Keanu Reeves. | |
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JustErin said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Woman, I LOVE YOU!
Yeah, seriously. Either start fucking men (gay men, gawd love 'em, are, as a group, total sluts ), or realize that most women have ENDLESS options as far as people to sleep with, so if you want them to choose you, you're gonna have to give 'em a reason. The more conventionally attractive they are, the more options they have, and the more you're going to have to offer to dick 'em. This is your reality, dude! It just is.So, so, SO true. If one guy is being a pain in the ass (especially this early in the game) it's pretty damn easy to just move on to the next guy that wants to be with you. Yep. I ain't even "cute" (I'm a fat chick, fer fuck's sake!) and I don't have any trouble getting laid, on my terms. Sucks to be a straight guy, Spats, but that's your gig. Instead of bemoaning it, why don't you get GOOD at it. Eh? oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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