JustErin said:

But i have been pretty damn close to sacktime with her.

Spats said:

So? Close still means you haven't gotten it.
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I talked to one of my buddies and he said i could be waiting a little while for her to call back. He talked to her today and She's a little pissed off and confused right now. She does not understand what's going on with me. Am I interested in her and attracted to her or not... Blah, Blah, Yadda, Yadda.

I haven't decided what i am gonna do. I guess it's gonna have to be up to me call. See?? DRAMA.

Spats said:

So? Close still means you haven't gotten it.
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JustErin said:

he's been talking about how great this "system" of his is since october..... so far it's all talk.

fantasyislander said:

He claims this is how he's gotten all of his girlfriends, so either he's never had a girlfriend or this bullshit has somehow worked for his silly ass in the past

CalhounSq said:

It is how i got most of my girlfriends. I just haven't had a lot of luck with it in almost a year though. The plain jane coffee shop girl liked me but i wasn't trying it on her, but i have been close to sacktime with the babe with it.

fantasyislander said:

He claims this is how he's gotten all of his girlfriends, so either he's never had a girlfriend or this bullshit has somehow worked for his silly ass in the past

Spats said:

the only thing you can be sure of is change, spats-o. girls aren't stupid. they can smell a "scheme" a mile off..... the whole female consenting population of the world probably caught on and moved on from your scheming ways long ago, by now!

And yet another week rolls past.

sj1600 said:

I can't help that. It's not my fault.

Spats said:

Aren't you bored of this? Why don't you try and meet someone new?

sj1600 said:

You know how hard it is to meet women who aren't annoying? have all the qualities you want? It's not easy ya know.

Yes, yada yada. But this inactivity is so defeatist, no?

Spats said:

Spats...you're the one who'se annoying. never again will i read one of your threads or posts. it's all your fault. all of it. go away

sj1600 said:

What inactivity?

Spats said:

The inability to pick up the receiver and press random numbers until somewhere, on the other side of town, a girl picks up and you say, "Hi babe, it's Spats." "Hey Spatsy, thought you'd never call." "So, you said you wanted to talk?" "Yeah, nothing really, just wandered if you were ready to move on to sacktime? No pressure."

sj1600 said:

That would have been the ideal exchange. But i don't think anything is that simple with women. I don't know if there are any women out there that would have to guts to make a call like that.

Spats said:

Well, call her and find out - enough already, please!

If it all goes tits up you can slate her until the end of time. However, you'll never know now, will you?

sj1600 said:

That's true. I think i might call and apologize and try and soften her up. I didn't want to nail her until the end of time. Just maybe a couple months.

Spats said:

if you hadn't created this drama you wouldnt have had to apologise.

LleeLlee said:

Give me a break. I am admitting i was wrong in not calling back sooner. That's all i was wrong about. Wanting her to make the big move wasn't.

Spats said:

she hasnt created any drama though, she has called you, she's been straight forward about it all, you're the one who wont tell tell her what it is you want.

why dont you just come out and say it instead of playing games?

LleeLlee said:

The whole "We need to talk" is drama. She has not been straightforward. She has not come out and said she wants me in the sack either. Probably for the reasons mentioned before. So i should just go against my principles and give in to what women want the man to do? Wouldn't that make me a hypocrite?

Spats said:

You continue with your playing hard to get routine, but dont be surprised if she walks away from this thinking its not worth the stress you're puting her under, and who could blame her?

now you want to call her up and apologise..so you are being a hypocrite. It sounds like you have zero respect for her anyway, so perhaps you should do her a favour and leave her alone.

purplerein said:

If this has been ruined just because i did not call back right away. Then she is way too sensitive. That's not my fault.

Spats said:

Again, blaming the woman for your fuck up

CalhounSq said:

Well, i wouldn't get pissed off that much if someone did not call me back right away.