JustErin said:

Co-sign!

How about the men that judge women as sluts for making the first move.. Sometimes we cannot win!

shanti0608 said:

Exactly. Some guys find that a huge turn off. Everyone likes different things. How is one supposed to just know who likes what? We're not mind readers.

I think guys should wear t-shirts explaining what they prefer. Spats can wear one that says "Please jump me, girl this ain't 1950..." with "but no ugmos allowed" on the back.

JustErin said:

JustErin said:

Don't forget the words "babe" and "sacktime"

purplerein said:

Not approaching women has nothing to do with not liking myself. It's not liking their game and their outdated beliefs. Believing you have something to offer won't keep you from getting rejected. And i don't hate women.

Spats said:

I'm curious. What do you absolutely love about women?

JustErin said:

Looks wise?

Spats said:

We all know what you love looks wise. I mean other than appearance and anything to do with sex.

Spats said:

no, "sugar and spice and everything nice" is the correct answer.

JustErin said:

I feel like he doesn't like them very much. He's not really trying. Maybe he is rejecting them before he can be rejected.

JustErin said:

I like women who are confident. Have their shit together, Go after what they want. Not needy.
I like women who are feminine.
I like women who are nice.
I like women who are not self obsorbed.
I like women who are honest.

How's that?

kidelrich said:

I am not really tryiing to what?

I have to admit i do get off on rejecting women. I rejected a couple girls who asked me to dance at a club. I didn't do it for the hell of it. I was not physically attracted to them. But it still felt good having that power and watching them being caught of guard. Surprised that i said no.

I talked to one of my buddies and he said i could be waiting a little while for her to call back. He talked to her today and She's a little pissed off and confused right now. She does not understand what's going on with me. Am I interested in her and attracted to her or not... Blah, Blah, Yadda, Yadda.

I haven't decided what i am gonna do. I guess it's gonna have to be up to me call. See?? DRAMA.

Spats said:

It would have been so much better if you had said it like this:

"I love that some women are confident and secure, and are genuinely nice people. I love their femininity and that they can be attractive without being self obsorbed. I also love how honest some women are.

These are some of the things I love about the kind of woman I am attracted to."

Those are certainly wonderful qualities that some women possess.
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Spats said:

I know! Sooo much drama!!

I really have no idea why you are causing so much drama and complications when things are really so simple and not complicated.

Being a tad less dramatic would make your life a lot easier in the girl department.

JustErin said:

Things would have been so much simpler if she had just made the big move or told me she wanted me in the sack. Is that so much to ask??? Now if i call her or see her it's going to be uncomfortable. I have to think about what i am going to say.

Spats said:

No, I don't think that's too much to ask but you need to realize that you are the one that is creating the drama when there really is no need for it. What you also need to realize is that you can't make people do what you want them to do if they don't want to do it. Making the first big move doesn't seem to be her style and instead of just accepting that and moving on, you've created all this drama, much like a child that doesn't get his way would do.

Perhaps going through all this will make you realize that being so dramatic is such a waste of time and you'll make some better decisions in the future.

Spats said:

BITCH PLEASE, YOU are the one causing the drama!!

Spats said:

God, I think you are absolutely INEPT when it comes to women. You've made this situation completely goofy when it could have been simple. It's a wonder you ever got her to go out w/ you in the first place

CalhounSq said:

I am not inept. The hard to get routine usually works.

I could it have been simple?

Spats said:

By just letting it go when she first showed you that she is not actually your type.
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Spats said:

How many times has this "routine" actually worked for you???

And I don't understand your last sentence, wtf are you saying?

CalhounSq said:

It's how i got most of my girlfriends. The difference is they made the move in one way or another. The babe hasn't. But the playing hard to get routine lured them in.

You said this could have all been simple. I was just asking how.

JustErin said:

Well we get along good and are physically attracted to each other. And she's pretty. Other than the fact she does not have blonde hair and hasn't made the move yet, she's my type.

Spats said:

You fucking answer the fucking phone when she fucking calls you & YOU stop being such a needy mf!!!

Spats said:

Exactly, so overall she's not your type. Just deal with that and find another girl.

Spats said:

This is the first time I've actually been pissed with you. You're just being cruel.

kidelrich said:

this is the first time?? oh yeah, sometimes i forget you're relatively new here. spats pisses me off (and just about everyone else) on a regular basis.

JustErin said:

But i have been pretty damn close to sacktime with her.

kidelrich said:

How am i being cruel?