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Spats said: ThreadBare said: Well, I like to talk to women. The ones I date tend to be really smart, creative, socially conscious and sweet. And, I like what they bring to my life. My goal is to find someone with whom a permanent deal will work. I'm not sure whose game that is in your book, but the Good Book says it'll be a good thing, when it happens for me. [Edited 6/25/06 22:25pm] What about good looking? I don't mind talking to women either depending on what the subject is about. I don't want to hear about all the drama in their life. I don't bore women with that and i expect the same in return. What i mean by the game is the whole let the man do the pursuing routine and then they decide the guys fate. People like you are what's wrong with girls like me.....    | |
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SHANNA said:
Manicure and pedicure appointment.... You mean everyone doesn't just bite their fingers' hangnails? | |
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shanti0608 said: BlackBuddy said: This thread makes me not want to get married
I do know some happily married ppl- I know many more unhappy single ppl. So I guess it depends on the individual.. I know some happily married ppl too, but not many, and who know;s if it's a act ya know? | |
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bluesbaby said: Mach said: i understand ... though i believe we DO have the power that divinity gave us to co create our lives along side him/her/spirit whatever especially when times are tough No higher power would bring people together to be called deragatory names, and be in a bad relationship. If you have heard or feel that God is calling you to that person, then it isn't God. If your partner is telling you that God brought you together, yet makes you miserable, berates you and all, then that person is using God as a manipulative tool to keep you constrained. Okay, so say your right and God does not call me to this person. BUT the Bible says NO divorces unless your spouse cheats. So your spouse can do ANYTHING else they want to you, and you have to stay with them. [Edited 6/26/06 9:45am] | |
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luv4all7 said: shanti0608 said: I do know some happily married ppl- I know many more unhappy single ppl. So I guess it depends on the individual.. I know some happily married ppl too, but not many, and who know;s if it's a act ya know? See, that's always my question. My buddy and his wife divorced, a few years ago. Up until he told me they were having problems, I wouldn't have guessed it. | |
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ThreadBare said: luv4all7 said: I know some happily married ppl too, but not many, and who know;s if it's a act ya know? See, that's always my question. My buddy and his wife divorced, a few years ago. Up until he told me they were having problems, I wouldn't have guessed it. Yeah, ppl DO do that. I try to get hubby to put the act on when his sisters are around (cuz I don't want them to see our marraige is a mess, but he can't. He can't even ACT normal.  | |
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luv4all7 said: Name calling.....I'm sure it's normal for spouses to call eachother dumbass, and all that stuff.....but when does name calling go to far.....when does it cross the line?
We you are married, it is the ultimate Rubber/Glue. When my wife calls me a name, like dumbass, I simply respond "Yes Miss Dumbass". News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so. You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop. | |
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I wouldn't put up with any woman who called me names. She would be out on the curb afterwards. | |
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Spats said: I wouldn't put up with any woman who called me names. She would be out on the curb afterwards.
I would not put up with a man that referred to me as a "babe" and called sex "sacktime"... I never call my men anything but nice loving names...Never been a name caller.. | |
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shanti0608 said: Spats said: I wouldn't put up with any woman who called me names. She would be out on the curb afterwards.
I would not put up with a man that referred to me as a "babe" and called sex "sacktime"... I never call my men anything but nice loving names...Never been a name caller.. I LOVE being called babe!  | |
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luv4all7 said: shanti0608 said: I would not put up with a man that referred to me as a "babe" and called sex "sacktime"... I never call my men anything but nice loving names...Never been a name caller.. I LOVE being called babe! I do too but not in the way that Spats does it.. He refers to women as babes.. always sounds disrepectful coming from him... | |
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shanti0608 said: luv4all7 said: I LOVE being called babe! I do too but not in the way that Spats does it.. He refers to women as babes.. always sounds disrepectful coming from him... I know! Dames deserve more respect than that!! | |
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jerseykrs2 said: shanti0608 said: I do too but not in the way that Spats does it.. He refers to women as babes.. always sounds disrepectful coming from him... I know! Dames deserve more respect than that!! Yeah really, nice avatar, schmuck! | |
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jerseykrs2 said: shanti0608 said: I do too but not in the way that Spats does it.. He refers to women as babes.. always sounds disrepectful coming from him... I know! Dames deserve more respect than that!! See- you can't help but be a flirt can you!! | |
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shanti0608 said: jerseykrs2 said: I know! Dames deserve more respect than that!! See- you can't help but be a flirt can you!!  | |
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luv4all7 said: How should you pick a partner?
Everyone obviously fights and has disagreements.....but how often would u say is unhealthy? Name calling.....I'm sure it's normal for spouses to call eachother dumbass, and all that stuff.....but when does name calling go to far.....when does it cross the line? I know there is such a thing as a happy marraige, how do you think it is acheived? Is it acheivable over time, if UR not happy in the begining? I'm not married and I'm terminally single, so take my answers for what they're worth. lol. I absolutely can't be in a relationship with someone I'm constantly fighting with. Some couples get off on it, but it's not for me. A bit of conflict now and again is healthy, but I can't be happy if I'm aggravated all the time. Name calling, well, depends on the situation. In general, no, it's something I don't put up with, but I've also said my share of things in the heat of the moment I've regretted later. I can forgive if it's not a regular occurrence. If you're not happy in the beginning, I'm not sure why you'd ever get married. So that question baffles me. I don't think any marriage is bound to be happy all the time. And I think there's something to honoring your commitment to each other to try to make things work. But if you've tried everything and you just can't make it, you're better off going your separate ways. |
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If you really believe in marraige, then it's always worth saving because it's for better or worse.
But I think any relationship can get through the tough times if the foundation is love, not just lust, and you can talk about your issues and the partner will listen and respond. Growing to love each other is possible. I think plenty of arranged marriages work out okay. But only you know when it's all too much. My Legacy
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NDRU said: If you really believe in marraige, then it's always worth saving because it's for better or worse.
But I think any relationship can get through the tough times if the foundation is love, not just lust, and you can talk about your issues and the partner will listen and respond. Growing to love each other is possible. I think plenty of arranged marriages work out okay. But only you know when it's all too much. See, I like your answer the best.....I think. Are you saying marraige can be worked out if you really try, cuz it's better to stay and try to work it out than just end it? | |
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luv4all7 said: NDRU said: If you really believe in marraige, then it's always worth saving because it's for better or worse.
But I think any relationship can get through the tough times if the foundation is love, not just lust, and you can talk about your issues and the partner will listen and respond. Growing to love each other is possible. I think plenty of arranged marriages work out okay. But only you know when it's all too much. See, I like your answer the best.....I think. Are you saying marraige can be worked out if you really try, cuz it's better to stay and try to work it out than just end it? Yes, if you believe in it, you're ready for it, and you're BOTH willing to work at it. Getting through the tough times can make you stronger and build a history that will mean even more as you get old & gray. That's a generalization, though, I don't know your situation. [Edited 6/26/06 17:09pm] My Legacy
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luv4all7 said: NDRU said: If you really believe in marraige, then it's always worth saving because it's for better or worse.
But I think any relationship can get through the tough times if the foundation is love, not just lust, and you can talk about your issues and the partner will listen and respond. Growing to love each other is possible. I think plenty of arranged marriages work out okay. But only you know when it's all too much. See, I like your answer the best.....I think. Are you saying marraige can be worked out if you really try, cuz it's better to stay and try to work it out than just end it? i agree 2 but must b BOTH trying else u will just b hittin ur head against a wall ONE DAY AT A TIME http://www.newpowerradio.ca/ | |
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Itch said: luv4all7 said: See, I like your answer the best.....I think. Are you saying marraige can be worked out if you really try, cuz it's better to stay and try to work it out than just end it? i agree 2 but must b BOTH trying else u will just b hittin ur head against a wall Yes, that's the only way. You need to have something in common, but the desire to work on the relationship can be one of those things. My Legacy
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CarrieMpls said: luv4all7 said: How should you pick a partner?
Everyone obviously fights and has disagreements.....but how often would u say is unhealthy? Name calling.....I'm sure it's normal for spouses to call eachother dumbass, and all that stuff.....but when does name calling go to far.....when does it cross the line? I know there is such a thing as a happy marraige, how do you think it is acheived? Is it acheivable over time, if UR not happy in the begining? I'm not married and I'm terminally single, so take my answers for what they're worth. lol. I absolutely can't be in a relationship with someone I'm constantly fighting with. Some couples get off on it, but it's not for me. A bit of conflict now and again is healthy, but I can't be happy if I'm aggravated all the time. Name calling, well, depends on the situation. In general, no, it's something I don't put up with, but I've also said my share of things in the heat of the moment I've regretted later. I can forgive if it's not a regular occurrence. If you're not happy in the beginning, I'm not sure why you'd ever get married. So that question baffles me. I don't think any marriage is bound to be happy all the time. And I think there's something to honoring your commitment to each other to try to make things work. But if you've tried everything and you just can't make it, you're better off going your separate ways. I agree- sometimes one person has tried for so long then when the other person realizes there's a problem- it is too late. You have got to start off with a good foundation and communication. I thought my husband & I would be together forever since we NEVER fought.. Boy was I wrong.. | |
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NDRU said: luv4all7 said: See, I like your answer the best.....I think. Are you saying marraige can be worked out if you really try, cuz it's better to stay and try to work it out than just end it? Yes, if you believe in it, you're ready for it, and you're BOTH willing to work at it. Getting through the tough times can make you stronger and build a history that will mean even more as you get old & gray. That's a generalization, though, I don't know your situation. [Edited 6/26/06 17:09pm] Typical woman thinking. If there are tough times between you it's not meant to be. Don't put up with "tough times". Typical drama loving attitude. | |
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jerseykrs2 said: shanti0608 said: I do too but not in the way that Spats does it.. He refers to women as babes.. always sounds disrepectful coming from him... I know! Dames deserve more respect than that!! I respect women who earn my respect. | |
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ThreadBare said: SHANNA said:
Manicure and pedicure appointment.... You mean everyone doesn't just bite their fingers' hangnails? Not everyone, hun...some of us are just too lazy to do it ourselves. | |
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Spats said: NDRU said: Yes, if you believe in it, you're ready for it, and you're BOTH willing to work at it. Getting through the tough times can make you stronger and build a history that will mean even more as you get old & gray. That's a generalization, though, I don't know your situation. [Edited 6/26/06 17:09pm] Typical woman thinking. If there are tough times between you it's not meant to be. Don't put up with "tough times". Typical drama loving attitude. but NDRU is a guy an besides i dont think ur qualified 2 join this thread  ONE DAY AT A TIME http://www.newpowerradio.ca/ | |
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shanti0608 said: CarrieMpls said: I'm not married and I'm terminally single, so take my answers for what they're worth. lol. I absolutely can't be in a relationship with someone I'm constantly fighting with. Some couples get off on it, but it's not for me. A bit of conflict now and again is healthy, but I can't be happy if I'm aggravated all the time. Name calling, well, depends on the situation. In general, no, it's something I don't put up with, but I've also said my share of things in the heat of the moment I've regretted later. I can forgive if it's not a regular occurrence. If you're not happy in the beginning, I'm not sure why you'd ever get married. So that question baffles me. I don't think any marriage is bound to be happy all the time. And I think there's something to honoring your commitment to each other to try to make things work. But if you've tried everything and you just can't make it, you're better off going your separate ways. I agree- sometimes one person has tried for so long then when the other person realizes there's a problem- it is too late. You have got to start off with a good foundation and communication. I thought my husband & I would be together forever since we NEVER fought.. Boy was I wrong.. So what if one person admits they have a problem and promises to change over and over again. But then turn around and do the thing they said they wouldn't do like 2 minutes later, and all day long, until it's time for bed and they wanna get some? They realize and admit they have a problem, and that's the first step, but HOW LONG does that last.....how long does it take to fix it? | |
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luv4all7 said: shanti0608 said: I agree- sometimes one person has tried for so long then when the other person realizes there's a problem- it is too late. You have got to start off with a good foundation and communication. I thought my husband & I would be together forever since we NEVER fought.. Boy was I wrong.. So what if one person admits they have a problem and promises to change over and over again. But then turn around and do the thing they said they wouldn't do like 2 minutes later, and all day long, until it's time for bed and they wanna get some? They realize and admit they have a problem, and that's the first step, but HOW LONG does that last.....how long does it take to fix it? sounds like this person may not be serious and are just saying these things to make it seem that they may be ... in hopes it works so as to gain sex ?? i dont know...the little bit shared here doesnt sound / feel right feels like games and NOT a mature relationship or at least on one side | |
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