OK, much like how Anx dislikes it when people say "Do you want to..." followed by an unpleasant task of some sort, this annoys me to no end.

I hate it when someone points out there's work to be done that they could very well do themselves. For example, someone said the other day that the cat was barfing while I was busy cleaning the litter box. It annoyed me because they weren't busy and could have cleaned it up themselves (everyone else present was busy as well). I didn't end up doing it, but it's also happened with the bathroom trash and various other disgusting things. "The trash needs taken out." OK, so instead of pointing it out, can they do it themselves??

Am I the only one who finds this perfectly ridiculous? It's not like taking out the bathroom trash is a task assigned to me or anything. It's just something that gets done...so do it.

i hate being order about in most situations, so if i'm busy and you tell me to do some other task while all you're doing is standing or sitting there doing nothing you can expect to get your ass handed to you either verbally or through a dirty look that could kill an elephant.

I'm so in touch with that. I hate being told what to do anyway, so when you could do it yourself, if I'm around sharp objects you better just leave me alone. I'm the only one supposed to give out orders.

Protege said:

so true!!!