Author | Message |
which lasts longer--great sex in a bad relationship or bad sex in a great relationship? i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really even like that person that much, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree? [Edited 6/8/06 22:07pm] you look better on your facebook page than you do in person | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
meltwithu said: i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really like that person, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree?
bad sex...when your with a person u love sex doesnt matter Check it out ...Shiny Toy Guns R gonna blowup VERY soon and bring melody back to music..you heard it here 1st! http://www.myspacecomment...theone.mp3 | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
i think this question is too complicated | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Mazerati said: meltwithu said: i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really like that person, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree?
bad sex...when your with a person u love sex doesnt matter That's a load of crap. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Spats said: Mazerati said: bad sex...when your with a person u love sex doesnt matter That's a load of crap. you look better on your facebook page than you do in person | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Mazerati said: bad sex...when your with a person u love sex doesnt matter
>snort< | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
in the long run I don't see how either could work | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Bad sex. If its really a great relationship it should get better | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Spats said: Mazerati said: bad sex...when your with a person u love sex doesnt matter That's a load of crap. maybe in the crap world you live in but not mine Check it out ...Shiny Toy Guns R gonna blowup VERY soon and bring melody back to music..you heard it here 1st! http://www.myspacecomment...theone.mp3 | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
susannah said: Bad sex. If its really a great relationship it should get better
you would think so, but if it never did it would place great strain on the relationship | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
ZombieKitten said: susannah said: Bad sex. If its really a great relationship it should get better
you would think so, but if it never did it would place great strain on the relationship Yeah, well in that case I guess you can either actively try to make it better or give up! | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Either Both are a 60 second marathon for me. "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
senik said: Either Both are a 60 second marathon for me.
| |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
I don't even want to go there...
Been in a passionless relationship for 10 yrs...ok, 9 1/2- first 6 months sex was alright.. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Ex-Moderator | If it's a GREAT relationship, the sex will get there too. Or you'd at least both acknowledge it needs improvement and compromise on solutions. |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
companionship is more lasting than good sex. even if you're with someone with whom the sex is great, it's going to get boring after a while and you're going to eventually reach a stage where you quit appreciating it as much. companionship can weather all kinds of new experiences (of course, so can good sex, i suppose...). | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
OK. so it's been pointed out to me I'm completely besotted by my husband (true) but I must admit it started as a purely physical thing.
and over the years we discovered we were very similar and heding in the same direction. And although the physical part of the relationship is now something that has to fit in with all the rest of the stuff that goes on around here, it is STILL worth writing home about. If it wasn't there, to be honest I would not have stuck around as long as I have. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
ZombieKitten said: OK. so it's been pointed out to me I'm completely besotted by my husband (true) but I must admit it started as a purely physical thing.
and over the years we discovered we were very similar and heding in the same direction. And although the physical part of the relationship is now something that has to fit in with all the rest of the stuff that goes on around here, it is STILL worth writing home about. If it wasn't there, to be honest I would not have stuck around as long as I have. i think it just depends on the people involved. some people really need that emotional connection before they can even think of doing anything physically and for others it is the opposite. I don't think I would be able to have a physical relationship first and then have it develop into something like marriage. The emotional connection would have to be there first. but that's just me. others are different. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
JasmineFire said: ZombieKitten said: OK. so it's been pointed out to me I'm completely besotted by my husband (true) but I must admit it started as a purely physical thing.
and over the years we discovered we were very similar and heding in the same direction. And although the physical part of the relationship is now something that has to fit in with all the rest of the stuff that goes on around here, it is STILL worth writing home about. If it wasn't there, to be honest I would not have stuck around as long as I have. i think it just depends on the people involved. some people really need that emotional connection before they can even think of doing anything physically and for others it is the opposite. I don't think I would be able to have a physical relationship first and then have it develop into something like marriage. The emotional connection would have to be there first. but that's just me. others are different. I was of the same opinion, but then I met this guy. I think it's a fluke to be honest. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
ZombieKitten said: JasmineFire said: i think it just depends on the people involved. some people really need that emotional connection before they can even think of doing anything physically and for others it is the opposite. I don't think I would be able to have a physical relationship first and then have it develop into something like marriage. The emotional connection would have to be there first. but that's just me. others are different. I was of the same opinion, but then I met this guy. I think it's a fluke to be honest. most things in life are. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
JasmineFire said: ZombieKitten said: I was of the same opinion, but then I met this guy. I think it's a fluke to be honest. most things in life are. that is a nice way of seeing things you know, that way when you hope for something to happen, there is a good chance it will! Someone who writes sceenplays recetly told me that things in movies have to be "believable" but that doesn't seem to apply to real life! | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
ZombieKitten said: JasmineFire said: most things in life are. that is a nice way of seeing things you know, that way when you hope for something to happen, there is a good chance it will! Someone who writes sceenplays recetly told me that things in movies have to be "believable" but that doesn't seem to apply to real life! well, the truth is stranger than fiction. maybe that's why whenever i tell people a story about something that happened in my life they always think that i'm lying... | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
JasmineFire said: ZombieKitten said: that is a nice way of seeing things you know, that way when you hope for something to happen, there is a good chance it will! Someone who writes sceenplays recetly told me that things in movies have to be "believable" but that doesn't seem to apply to real life! well, the truth is stranger than fiction. maybe that's why whenever i tell people a story about something that happened in my life they always think that i'm lying... really? weird things happen all the time | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
meltwithu said: i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really even like that person that much, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree?
[Edited 6/8/06 22:07pm] niether. imo why settle for less than a great connection with great sex. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
ZombieKitten said: JasmineFire said: well, the truth is stranger than fiction. maybe that's why whenever i tell people a story about something that happened in my life they always think that i'm lying... really? weird things happen all the time this is true but i guess some people live more sheltered lives than me. there are just simply things that they aren't willing to accept as being true. either that or i just come across and being stupid and untrustworthy. whatever fits, i guess. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
meltwithu said: i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really even like that person that much, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree?
[Edited 6/8/06 22:07pm] for me... you cant have GREAT sex if the relationship sux ...thats just for me though and also...if the relationsip is GREAT the sex would not be bad..it too would be great thats just how it works in my life though...i know people that have supposed GREAT sex with someone they dont really care for... good for them | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
meltwithu said: i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really even like that person that much, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree?
[Edited 6/8/06 22:07pm] oh ... i disagree | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
meltwithu said: i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really even like that person that much, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree?
[Edited 6/8/06 22:07pm] Both are absolute deal breakers for me, but I too think that most could stay longer with a person you kinda dislike but have great sex with than a totally passionless relationship. You can still have incredible physical chemistry with someone that you don't really like in all other aspects but I don't think you can ever have anything even remotely sexually satisfying with someone that doesn't get you all hot and bothered, even if they are the nicest person on earth. Or at least, I have never been able to do it and I know I never will. I refuse to settle in any kind of way. | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Mazerati said: meltwithu said: i tend to believe that not only can you have great sex with someone for years and years and not really like that person, but that it will generally last longer than a passionless relationship that "soulmates" might have. do you agree or disagree?
bad sex...when your with a person u love sex doesnt matter I have to agree with this. Good Sex can peter out at anytime in a relationship. What happens when you are like 60? Christian Zombie Vampires | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |
Spats said: Mazerati said: bad sex...when your with a person u love sex doesnt matter That's a load of crap. Like your response, which didn't even attempt to answer the question. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
- E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator |