thanks you once more folks...

your kind words truly make me feel good

i need some support right now

JPW, I hate to hear that. Your words of encouragement helped me through my own tough patch. Wanted your case to work out. Please, hang in there. Try not to isolate yourself, as you deal with this.

get out ...plan a trip and go away

take a look at how many beautiful people are out there

treat yourself kindly and though it hurts i am sure ...remember that this persons leaving you opend a door for even better things

Aw that sucks man. I know what you mean when you say you feel like everythings shit, but you just have to take it one day at a time. Concentrate on what you want, whether it be what you want for dinner, what you want to do at the weekend, or what you want in a new partner. And do it You have to look after number one, especially in times of crisis.

Have faith that it will pass and it will in time

relationship withdrawal is HELL! I wish you a new good one soon!

drinking helped me rule out the sorrow and empty my mind.

sorry to hear about your painful situation. remember to drink in moderation and this too shall pass.

butterfli25 said:

yeah, i was just thinking - everyone's like "drink your way through it"

mrdespues

Someone's going to want your pee-pee.

CinisterCee said:

normally that would make me cringe
but from you and in this moment
it made me giggle


sounds like the relationship was coming to its natural end if you were feeling like you should move on too.
we deserve to give ourselves the opportunity to get what we need out of a relationship
so here is a hopeful hug that you keep your heart open

ufoclub said:

I agree. Meeting somone nice always helps to get over another.

JustErin said:

all I meet are assholes though

i just woke up and received and email from the ex... confirming everything and now i am SO SAD.....

natsume sent me a very nice orgnote though and i really appreciate that, pam.



thanks so much everyone...

i don't know where i'm headed now... but i will try and stay open and meet new people...

and no i am not drinking too much...

thanks again

jerseykrs said:

maybe you should try girls then?

JPW said:

ZombieKitten said:

and where would one FIND these "GIRLS" you speak of?

Hhhyesssss!!

Don't concentrate on a romantic or emotional relationship, just concentrate on friends.....relationships tend to 'find' us, and we most certainly cannot create them or look for them...it needs to be natural and just happen.

Relax, be yourself, do what you enjoy doing, and GET OUT OF THE HOUSE and OFF OF THE COMPUTER.....

Oh...and one other thing....drinking will not solve anything and you will just feel like s**t the next day.



Not to be hackneyed, but been there done that and still feeling the sting from the last one....

Sorry about hearing this. Long distance relationships are tough to keep going, but it really sucks that yours ended. Try to believe that this happened for a reason, and the future will look brighter to you.

XxAxX said:

Good advice..
I will be going through a divorce soon after being together for 10 yrs- married 4yrs.
It is tough but when it is over- it is over.

Like someone said- breathe and take care of yourself!
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shanti0608 said:

TMPletz said:

It sucks- I know..eventhough I am the one that wants to end this.. it pretty much ended long ago- it is still tough!

Don't worry about it. Women come and go just like subways. There is no woman out there worth getting all shook up over. Enjoy being single

Spats said:

you have nothing selfless to say ever, do you?

i don't need to hear that thanks.

i know that Love is real.

JPW said:

Sorry for your pain,

keep loving yourself,

hope you feel better soon.

thanks guys



no thanks Spats

ever notice his name, Spats... like when people fight? surely the sign of a troll orger

anyway.

because of all this i DID write a little tune a few moments ago..as suggested by someone...

just improvised some parts together on the piano and produced it. it's up on my Myspace:

http://www.myspace.com/jpmusician

called, "Sad Keyboard". i think you can probably hear how i'm feeling right now from it.



i am taking good care of myself though thanks everyone. take care of yourselves, too... life isn't easy for anyone at times...



i have good folk around me at home and friends out there who i can see, so things are going to be ok i think eventually...




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JPW said:

All the best.

Spookymuffin said:

thanks, spooky mate-o

Spats said:

I wish you would "go just like" a subway.

You're like a subway train that has broken down on the platform and won't fuck off.