At work, this afternoon some guy left his phone number for me. I didn't help the guy and I'm not sure which of the customers he was. I just barely remember who was in line around that time because I was running back and forth.

I threw the number away.
You didn't make a impression on me by speaking to me, why would I call?
It would be better if he came in again and tried to speak to me, but no guarantee the result would be different.

Guys do you ever do things like that?
Why?

littlemissG said:

He probably thought you were nice...attractive...but was too shy or insecure to ask you directly. Perhaps he thought you'ld get into trouble.

You know, once this man walked up to me in a club, leaned over in my ear and said "I just want you to know, I think you're absolutely beautiful'.
With that, he turned away and walked right out the door of the club. Didn't even give me a chance to say 'thank you'.
What the hell is that? I think that's worse!

His name is Spats, he wants YOU to make the first move

CalhounSq said:

littlemissG said:

I never do that. Why? I wait for the women to approach me.

Spats said:

CalhounSq said:

CarrieMpls said:

I had some guy behind me on a escalator say to me once "you have the best legs a man could follow" ..then smile and walk away

Ocean said:

just wait until I walk behind you..........you wouldn't walk away, I bet!
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littlemissG said:

I once really liked this Girl who lived on our street, but I was way to shy to speak directly to her, would always manage a "Hello, how you doing" but nothing more. It was killing me because I so much wanted to say that I would like to get to know here more. So one evening I wrote a little note and put my mobile number on and basically it said that she could Text me to save any awkwardness !!!

Long story short she thought it was cute and we ended up dating for a while.

Sometimes, it is very difficult to approach someone, there are more reasons for rejection than there are not and some people are a little sensitive to that.

abierman said:

would I run?

a guy in a club slipped his card into my back pocket - I thought he was trying to grab my ass and did not find the card until later. I never called him

Spats said:

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GeorgeWBush said:

Boy....when I read it like that
& fill the blanks in myself....
I remember just how non-creatively dirty my imagination is.

Filtered thru my mind, it's practically a hip-hop lyric.

Illustrator said:

my new hobby! hip hop lyricist!!

two words: PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE.

take it from a master.

This thread has put me RIGHT off making a move on the guy who works in HMV.

Thanks!

Ocean said:

i have had comments like these in different time frames of my life ...

it felt nice ...a true compliment and then poof the giver is gone... no attempt to get sumpin sumpin ...

purpledisc said:

You should have waited for her to do it. You gave into women's games.

I DON'T GET IT

Poof the Giver -- was that the person's name? You were left a calling card?

Mach said:

Omadon said:

What does tumbleweed mean?

papaa said:

"POOF" the giver of the compliment is gone... just a random nice thing said and he goes away ...

i dont ( didnt ) care their name and i didnt want a calling card

the compliment was gift enough

.....that's why

C'MON JUST PLAYING

Of course i knew.

Mach said:

Mach said:

a few years ago,I was leaving work, waiting for the bus and a guy was across the street staring me down. I turned my back to him and a few seconds later he had crossed the street and he was standing in front of me...staring me down
I stared back...he stared some more.

He said..."I admire you"
I smiled
I stared at him...he stared some more. We got on the bus and just stared at each other.
He worked in the building next to mine,but I NEVER SAW HIM AGAIN!!!

ThreadCula said:

Staring contest! Awesome.