.. or if you are in bed sleeping, do you wake up and answer the phone? Roll over and leave it ringing, or do you usually have someone calling you at these times?

It's usually the ladies wanting a bit of althom loving.

althom said:

Oh??? The ones you pay?

I had a friend who would call me really late.I never answer late calls. I would check the messages the next morning and they were soooo weird!

One message said "oooh I love you,u're so fine,I want to be with you. Ummm baby"


When I asked her about her messages,she would say she didnt call or she wouldnt remember.
Months later she confessed something that I didnt know... she smoked weed heavily.

That explains it

Depends...usually it'll wake me up and I'l call back a few min later.
but if I'm in a deep sleep the phone doesn't wake me.

ThreadCula said:

next time it happens, should it happen, you should pick up, and ohh ahh back in her ear, tell her how much you love her and how you want her skin next to yours in your bed.. this minute.. and pretend to play with yourself..

then wait to see her reaction the next day.. she might give up the weed completely..

Sweeny79 said:

Is it usually long distance, or just a local call???

REDBABY said:

She claims she doesnt smoke anymore.
...but I dont want to risk it.

I catch her looking at my butt every now and then...with a smile on her face

If anyone calls me in the middle of the night, I'm answering. I don't want to take the chance that it's a family member or loved one in an emergency. If it's a wrong number I'll roll back over and go to sleep easily enough...

REDBABY said:

either.

I am usually awake anyway. So I just answer it...of course it has to be someone I want to talk to.

ThreadCula said:

Damn!!!

Byron said:

Yeah.. it can be really scary

I only get late calls on my cellphone, which is usually on my night table. Whether I answer or not depends on who's calling.

Late night calls are usually one of three things; booty call, friend who is having some kind of emotional crisis or family emergency.

I don't get many late calls. It's either one friend in particular (take or leave, depends on my mood), my ex bf (let it ring). If it's family or a friend who never calls that late I'm answering, it may be important...

Strange that you ask--A friend of mine called last night at 11pm. He had a fight with his roomates and needed a place to stay.

I'm probably more likely to pick up a phone in the middle of the night than I am during the day. I figure it must be important at such a strange hour.

I used to get late night calls all through the night - granted, not every night.. but most nights, and I would chat up till the dawn..

Depends, if its my cell and I can see who's calling, then it depends who's calling if I answer. If it's my home phone I always just answer cause very few people have my home phone #, and the folks who do, it's probably and emergency or a welcome call.

If it wakes me up, which it often won't, then yes, absolutely. I figure nobody would call at odd hours if it weren't important.

There's one exception. I have one friend who has some serious issues with boundaries. Totally manic. I hardly ever answer when he calls. He's fascinating, but I only communicate with him on my terms.

nobody except overseas rellies with no concept of how the time is different on the other side of the world

If I am in bed sleeping and the phone rings, I always answer it.

luv4u said:

yep!

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Ima gonna call you at 3:19 am....

just the other night the phone rang about an hour after i had gone to bed.
i dashed out and picked it up in a panic...

"hello, is mandy there?"
"mandy???"
"ugh... yeah"
"i think you have the wrong number" click.

but my heart was pounding for a good five minutes after from the adrenaline




when i was in my early twenties my old highschool boyfriend used to call late at night.
and being the silly girl i was i would pick it up and talk to him

JustErin said:

Which one do you get the most???

funkpill said:

Well, family emergencies never really happen and my friends are all pretty emotionally stable, so....

I am the worst at this, I never answer.

JustErin said:

Number please....

j/k

You definately answer. It's most likely a booty call.


M

REDBABY said:

They are usually 6am drunk dials so I let it go to voicemail. The messages are worth saving for black male at a later time!