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Why are you attracting people who treat you badly? This stuff usually comes from somewhere in our childhoods... hard to break those patterns. But if we can put our fingers on a detail or two, it gives us the power we need to break the old bad patterns. | |
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Heiress said: A question only you can answer:
Why are you attracting people who treat you badly? This stuff usually comes from somewhere in our childhoods... hard to break those patterns. But if we can put our fingers on a detail or two, it gives us the power we need to break the old bad patterns. It is about awareness, breaking the cycle and becoming a better person.. There is something to learn from every heart break and "mistake" or life lesson. There comes a time when we need to put our needs first.. It is hard for someone who is giving - it comes natural.. | |
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shanti0608 said: Heiress said: A question only you can answer:
Why are you attracting people who treat you badly? This stuff usually comes from somewhere in our childhoods... hard to break those patterns. But if we can put our fingers on a detail or two, it gives us the power we need to break the old bad patterns. It is about awareness, breaking the cycle and becoming a better person.. There is something to learn from every heart break and "mistake" or life lesson. There comes a time when we need to put our needs first.. It is hard for someone who is giving - it comes natural.. Err, it's hard for anyone... stasis is familiar, if not always entirely comfortable... | |
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Heiress said: A question only you can answer:
Why are you attracting people who treat you badly? This stuff usually comes from somewhere in our childhoods... hard to break those patterns. But if we can put our fingers on a detail or two, it gives us the power we need to break the old bad patterns. Heiress, I know exactly why I'm where I'm at. I'm trying to fix it  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Heiress said: A question only you can answer:
Why are you attracting people who treat you badly? This stuff usually comes from somewhere in our childhoods... hard to break those patterns. But if we can put our fingers on a detail or two, it gives us the power we need to break the old bad patterns. Heiress, I know exactly why I'm where I'm at. I'm trying to fix it it doesn't happen overnight... be patient with yourself. 
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supa, i feel like i'm on the flip side of where you are. i feel like it's getting harder for me to ever truly GIVE love. i feel like everyone wants to take love, but if i expect it to be given back to me, there's going to be a price tag attached. more and more i feel like love = obligation, and as long as i have a memory, i know better. it's a rut i'm in, i think. i'm not around bad people, but maybe i'm around people who don't understand my needs because theirs are so great that it blinds them to what other people require. it kinda sucks, but when you care about people, it's hard to walk away from those obligations. in fact, it's impossible.
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