CarrieMpls said:

i like having all kinds of friends as long as we are good to each other.

Not to be offensive or anything but most straight people are boring as hell

CarrieMpls said:

I certainly don't go hunting for queer friends. It just kinda happens. At this point, even most of my female friends are either a) queer or b) "straight" women that I've had sex with.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

i know interesting straight people! they're artists and everything! once i get my paypal account fixed, i'll start renting them out.

CarrieMpls said:

I love it when that happenes...it feels so good and is such and ego booster...

Anx said:

Can you rent me a couple hot ones?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Pretty much.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Kidding

Anx said:

Well, artists are sorta honorary queers.

notoriousj said:

Yeah, well, be sure and wear your extra-tight knickers when I'm around.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

any artist qualifies

HereToRockYourWorld said:

damn. never mind.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

If you mean knickers as in pants and jeans I always wear them tight...if you mean knickers as in underware...I never wear any...

notoriousj said:

That's why I knew you had a fine ass

HereToRockYourWorld said:

And strangely, I barely know any lesbians. But see, I think in that transitive property of friends kinda way, once you're in with a group of like minded people, its easier and easier to meet more people that fit in with that group. You know?
Which is why I'm actively pursuing paths to actually meet straight men. I just don't know any anymore.

notoriousj said:

You should probably stay away from me, then. Fair warning.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

would not be the first time I dyked it out...


Ok now I am saying to much....

CarrieMpls said:

the only experiences with lesbian circles of friends has been with my mom and her partner and their friends. they mostly hang out with other lesbians and they all feel kinda bad for straight women. i don't try and argue with them since many of them have been married before and have kids so they know what men are like....

anyways, that's what i've noticed with my mom and her friends.

CarrieMpls said:

I just realized that I can totally see you and my best ( only? ) straight guy friend together. Huh.

Anyway, yeah, lesbians. . . I worked with this fantastically, painfully, deliciously hot veterinarian once, and I think she is one of the only lesbians I've ever really gotten along with. I don't know WHY. Except to say, as Dr. Hottie put it, "most lesbians have the personality of a wet sock."

JasmineFire said:

That's an older group too, which I would imagine would make a difference...

CarrieMpls said:

*ahem!*

i guess i've always been most chummy and comfortable with those who i have the least sexual tension with, or those with whom sexual tension is a non-issue, even if it's there.

that said, i've always been a dyke tyke. i loves me the lesbyterians.

i'm really comfortable around straight women too, as long as i'm not dealing with the proprietary fag-hag who has weird creepy personal space/boundary issues. i've been there and i don't wanna go back!

i'm making more close friendships with other gay guys than i ever have. i think as i get older, i can be more genuine with others of the homogays and they can be more genuine with me. it's very nice - long overdue.

i think i feel most awkward trying to relate to straight guys. i'm flattered that a lot of my female friends' boyfriends and husbands have felt comfortable with me and have said as much, though...hmm...i think one of the things that makes me feel awkward is that it's harder to have "girltalk" with a straight guy. you know, talk about weirdo crazy sex shit and mad crushes and stuff like that. it's been possible sometimes, i guess...

usually my straight guy chat consists of stuff like music and comic books and artists...which, you know, i love to talk about, and straight guys seem to be more well versed on this stuff than anyone else, i've found. so hey, i guess i just love everyone. whee!

Nikster said:

Do you have the personality of a wet sock? And how old are you?

HereToRockYourWorld said:

really??

Is he cute?

He's gotta be a whole lotta great things if he's your best straight guy friend.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

My lesbian friends are former straight girls. The true lesbos I've been around in my life have been quite harsh. I always kinda get the vibe that they are, like straight men, bothered over my not being a "man" or acting like a man or being manly. I don't know, it's very odd. I have nothing against lesbians, actually I think our community is better when we are all together but many lesbos have issues

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Ummm...no....and I am 36

CarrieMpls said:

some of them are real old school lesbian separatists and shit from the 60s and 70s. i don't think that's as popular as it once was.

when i was a boy crazy teenager it used to bug the shit outta me but now i don't care so much.

Nikster said:

awwww...

I know you. And Deja too. I just don't have any close-close friends who are.

Anx said:

You're one of the less faggy queer boys I know. Doesn't surprise me that you get along with the straight guys.

And, note to self: don't try to snuggle with Christopher.

Nikster said:

But you live in Wisconsin...


Sorry when I lived in Chicago we would dread when you wisconsinites would come into the city...