Savour said:

EWWW, I love details...

onenitealone said:

Youre brilliant you are

shanti0608 said:

the way the hand brushes the knee
the way the eyes meet

detailz iz fun

Savour said:

susannah said:

Thanks, love. From YOU, that's a compliment.


In all seriousness, I'm not sure why people play games to be honest. Maybe they feel it's the 'done' thing, or they think it'll give them some sort of control, or save 'face' (i.e. they won't seem too eager). Or all three.

Ask Spats.

onenitealone said:

is rabbits and squirrels a similar game to ferrets?

ZombieKitten said:

I suppose the nearest equivalent is 'doctors and nurses'.

ZombieKitten said:

or naked mole rats ?

Savour said:

sounds like the same game must be universally played! I was asked if I wanted to play hide the salami on about the 3rd or 4th date!

ZombieKitten said:

Your reaction...?

onenitealone said:

it was :


I had been trying to get him to play that since the 2nd date but he wanted to wait - he really wanted it to be special since he believed I was the one which I am, but at least I didn't ask him using that phrase. My husband is the kind of person who can say anything and get away with it - ask his mum she will verify this (she is his no.1 fan )

Savour said:

ZombieKitten said:

He sounds like a GREAT guy. You're both very lucky.

I'll have to use that line on Saturday.

onenitealone said:

good luck!!!

REDBABY said:

ZombieKitten said:

so did he play slam in the lamb instead ?

ZombieKitten said:

was THAT the outcome of your thread?!

I can't be arsed with girls who play 'hard to get'. They take too much time and effort.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

you like them easy?

REDBABY said:

Who doesnt?!

onenitealone said:

Aw thanks love! All this love in the room, I dont know!!

Yeah I think it's about fear and saving face People dont want to put themselves right out there to be heckled, so to speak...which is fair enough I guess, we all need to protect ourselves in some way. But theres a time and place to just give it up.

Right back to the books for me, thats breaktime over!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

or at the very least that it was a legitimate sounding excuse for those who don't want to do it

I'm normally pretty good at picking up on the signs ya'll ladies like to throw are way, I just wish more ladies would pick up on the signs us guys will throw at them. I've been told more then once by a lady "Your Hard To Read" which I think is way off but being that I'm naturally just a friendly person I can see where there could be some question as to if I'm truly feeling them or I'm just being nice.


I learned from watching how my sister acted around guys she liked when we were kids to always pay attention to a ladies body language, in my life that's always been my clearest sign(unless they just come out and tell me, LOL!!) weather they liked me or not.

RebornVirgin said:

I does not help that most women are lousy at flirting or letting you know that they want you. Their hints that they want you or they are just being nice and friendly are usually the same.

brownsugar said:

Guys would rarely turn a woman down if she came right and said she wanted him. Seriously.

shanti0608 said:

No, women are just not good at giving hints and making it clear when they want a guy.

onenitealone said:

I am just giving women a taste of their medicine. And i like the power i have when I am playing hard to get.

Spats said:

I do not know about the women you have met but when I like a guy- he knows it...

No games about it...

shanti0608 said:

Then you are in the minority. Most women are lousy at it. They think they are good but they are not.

What do you do?