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PrintableZombieKitten said: IrresistibleB1tch said:  AND vegan!  and you know what they say about vegans  we taste better, i know!  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: ZombieKitten said: and you know what they say about vegans we taste better, i know!  that's not what I meant!! Don't try to foil my efforts at starting a rumour that could end up as an urban myth!! | |
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ZombieKitten said: IrresistibleB1tch said: we taste better, i know! that's not what I meant!! Don't try to foil my efforts at starting a rumour that could end up as an urban myth!!sorry sweetie, i think the world of you, but you're not spreading nasty rumors about us!
we're healthy, we taste great... what's not to love?!?! | |
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Like Ariel, I'm just a moron at picking up signs.  | |
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jerseykrs said: Like Ariel, I'm just a moron at picking up signs.
Now you...I don't believe you. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: ZombieKitten said: that's not what I meant!! Don't try to foil my efforts at starting a rumour that could end up as an urban myth!!sorry sweetie, i think the world of you, but you're not spreading nasty rumors about us!
we're healthy, we taste great... what's not to love?!?!  that vegans won't swallow? that's not nasty! | |
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i've never played hard to get. i'm extremely shy but when it comes to a man i want i come right and say it. but sometimes i think i come on a little too strong so i've toned it down a little-fear of rejection  | |
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jerseykrs said: Like Ariel, I'm just a moron at picking up signs.
Yeah i can be too. But then, i think for me, its because my self esteem, when it comes to my looks, is low. Also, as iam a bit loopy, i think girls are messing with me when they ask me out. Girls seem to go out with me because iam different, so it has its plus signs. But iam bad at picking upon obvious stuff too. | |
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JustErin said: RebornVirgin said: It's true. I can tell you many stories from my past of hints and hints that I never knew were there until either something happened, or until I realized days or months later that those were hints. I just don't get it. I know so many guys that say this. Does it have something to do with low self esteem? Are you guys thinking, "Naw, she's not really into me, she just can't be into me, she doesn't really mean what she is saying/doing"? It may be self-esteem or just basic shyness. I never had a girlfriend during my teens and didn't have my first kiss until I was 19. Now, I don't think I was that ugly so why is that? I was never asked out, as far as I know, and I don't recall any girl ever really being interested in me. As far as I know, that is. So did I miss some signs or was I giving off a certain vibe that made women pass me by? Or was I just so shy that I didn't register on anyone's radar?  | |
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Fauxie said: JustErin said: I just don't get it. I know so many guys that say this. Does it have something to do with low self esteem? Are you guys thinking, "Naw, she's not really into me, she just can't be into me, she doesn't really mean what she is saying/doing"? It may be self-esteem or just basic shyness. I never had a girlfriend during my teens and didn't have my first kiss until I was 19. Now, I don't think I was that ugly so why is that? I was never asked out, as far as I know, and I don't recall any girl ever really being interested in me. As far as I know, that is. So did I miss some signs or was I giving off a certain vibe that made women pass me by? Or was I just so shy that I didn't register on anyone's radar? Ok, this makes sense. I guess I never really realized just how many people are so shy! | |
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JustErin said: jerseykrs said: Like Ariel, I'm just a moron at picking up signs.
Now you...I don't believe you. It's true. If I had a dollar for every girl that has told me at a later time "I used to like you so much back so and so" I'm like, jesus christ!!! | |
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Mind games and needless posturing are silly and pointless, and can muck up a potentially wonderful thing.
That dance at the beginning of a new relationship can be especially marvelous, however. 
The trouble is some don't understand the difference between dancing and game-playing. | |
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shanti0608 said: I do not understand why ppl play hard to get..
I guess as I get older I have less patience for love games.. I am a real genuine person who does not to pretend to be something I am not- when I feel something for someone I say it or express it to them. Why play games and waste someone else's time. Seems so immature to me. If you do not like someone tell them, if you like someone tell them. I do not get why people play games with their emotions.. I agree! I'm very easy.  | |
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I'm good at playing "hard to like".  When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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WillyWonka said: Mind games and needless posturing are silly and pointless, and can muck up a potentially wonderful thing.
That dance at the beginning of a new relationship can be especially marvelous, however.
The trouble is some don't understand the difference between dancing and game-playing. Well said. 
(Psst. . . )oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: WillyWonka said: Mind games and needless posturing are silly and pointless, and can muck up a potentially wonderful thing.
That dance at the beginning of a new relationship can be especially marvelous, however.
The trouble is some don't understand the difference between dancing and game-playing. Well said.
(Psst. . . )Dearest lady, I do hope you're taking good care of my heart! I have quite lost it to you. 
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I only really wish Ocean would stop playing games with me.....  | |
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althom said: shanti0608 said: I do not understand why ppl play hard to get..
I guess as I get older I have less patience for love games.. I am a real genuine person who does not to pretend to be something I am not- when I feel something for someone I say it or express it to them. Why play games and waste someone else's time. Seems so immature to me. If you do not like someone tell them, if you like someone tell them. I do not get why people play games with their emotions.. I agree! I'm very easy. | |
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abierman said: I only really wish Ocean would stop playing games with me.....
 Look on the bright side Theo...there is always althom  | |
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shanti0608 said: Why play games and waste someone else's time. [...] I do not get why people play games with their emotions.. I think it has a lot to do with building up tension and actually falling more and more for this person. A certain amount of "games" (as in "mating games") is ALWAYS required when two people are genuinely attracted to each other as personalities, and as individuals. Also, it's a good way to get to know the other person a bit better when you hook up again, and get to see how they'll react to certain hints at conversations. I'm not talking about torturing the other person on intention, but just normal uncertainity is enough... oh forget it, just torture me on intention. I so want it! JustErin said: I just don't get it. I know so many guys that say this. Does it have something to do with low self esteem? Are you guys thinking, "Naw, she's not really into me, she just can't be into me, she doesn't really mean what she is saying/doing"?
This is exactly what we think. And for a reason, I believe. It's easy to misinterpret some people's intentions (it's happened before) and some women flirt and hint at guys even if they were already in a relationship themselves, or just about entering one. Many men have had really bad experiences, where their self-esteems really have been hammered into bits. Most women just enjoy men being attracted to them and they won't say "no" until the guy really makes the definitive move. That's the function they serve, boosting up their self-esteem. Then they'll get to choose the guy with the bigger car and a more muscular upper body. [Edited 5/21/06 23:52pm] | |
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Novabreaker said: shanti0608 said: Why play games and waste someone else's time. [...] I do not get why people play games with their emotions.. I think it has a lot to do with building up tension and actually falling more and more for this person. A certain amount of "games" (as in "mating games") is ALWAYS required when two people are genuinely attracted to each other as personalities, and as individuals. Also, it's a good way to get to know the other person a bit better when you hook up again, and get to see how they'll react to certain hints at conversations. I'm not talking about torturing the other person on intention, but just normal uncertainity is enough... oh forget it, just torture me on intention. I so want it! JustErin said: I just don't get it. I know so many guys that say this. Does it have something to do with low self esteem? Are you guys thinking, "Naw, she's not really into me, she just can't be into me, she doesn't really mean what she is saying/doing"?
This is exactly what we think. And for a reason, I believe. It's easy to misinterpret some people's intentions (it's happened before) and some women flirt and hint at guys even if they were already in a relationship themselves, or just about entering one. Many men have had really bad experiences, where their self-esteems really have been hammered into bits. Most women just enjoy men being attracted to them and they won't say "no" until the guy really makes the definitive move. That's the function they serve, boosting up their self-esteem. Then they'll get to choose the guy with the bigger car and a more muscular upper body.
[Edited 5/21/06 23:52pm] you sound very sensible and smart | |
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Yeah I may sound sensible, but in real life... | |
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WillyWonka said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Well said.
(Psst. . . )Dearest lady, I do hope you're taking good care of my heart! I have quite lost it to you.
Well, then, it's not lost. It's quite safe. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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misdirection of energy.
oh, the things we could all do in this world, if only we'd put it in the right place... | |
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I'm not one to play games, but I have often noticed that when I start to pull away from someone I'm dating or in a relationship with, that's when they come back even stronger. It's happened to me several times. I still like to think I'm genuine with people. I don't think I've ever done it intentionally. But it's been proven to 'work' over and over.  |
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RebornVirgin said: I don't play hard to get. I'm just really dumb when it comes to hints. If they don't say it bluntly, I will not know if they want me or not.
Some men do NOT pay attention to detail. They need women to be blunt because they are NOT listening... | |
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WillyWonka said: Mind games and needless posturing are silly and pointless, and can muck up a potentially wonderful thing.
That dance at the beginning of a new relationship can be especially marvelous, however.
The trouble is some don't understand the difference between dancing and game-playing. Good Point!! | |
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shanti0608 said: RebornVirgin said: I don't play hard to get. I'm just really dumb when it comes to hints. If they don't say it bluntly, I will not know if they want me or not.
Some men do NOT pay attention to detail. They need women to be blunt because they are NOT listening... yes you are totally right, its all in the details | |
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thesexofit said:  
I hate games. What a waste of time. If you like me just tell me, I got no patience for this crap! | |
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I love playing games with my dates:
~ ping pong on the first one 
~ snap on the second ~ rabbits and squirrels on the third one. 
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